evan

he/it, accepting submissions for t4t experiences (:

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PLEASE READ BEFORE SENDING IN SUBMISSIONS

ok i guess i oughta make an intro post bc im getting some of the same questions over and over again

hi my names evan. im southern, straight and t4t. im in a relationship with a nonbinary trans woman currently and have been for about 7 months now

you can dm me and ill read them but i probably wont respond.

im autistic and communicate really directly and am also monotone so if i answer your ask with a nasty tone, it probably wasnt meant to come off that way unless your ask was mean. feel free to ask for clarification if necessary

please dni if youre cis. i would prefer this to be a trans only space. also its a t4t space so like what good is this to you anyway

for romance repulsed individuals: i will be tagging all romantic t4t posts from hereon out with "romantic t4t". i will ALSO be tagging all platonic t4t posts with "platonic t4t" if ud like to search that tag. for anyone sex repulsed or under 18, anything that could be nsft will be tagged "t4t nsft". hope this helps yall out (:

FAQ

what is a t4t relationship?

t4t is any kind of relationship between two or more trans people, whether that be romantic, sexual, platonic, queerplatonic, professional, or anything else that comes to mind

do you accept platonic t4t submissions?

yea. i have many trans friends and love them very much. every trans person should have trans friends i think, even if theyre not exclusively t4t. my trans friends are just as important as my romantic relationship to another trans person, i love having trans friends

do you accept nonbinary submissions?

yes, if you do not identify as cis, feel free to send in an ask

evan im not cis but im ____ can i interact?

yea. i would define cis as strongly and exclusively identifying as ones assigned gender at birth. if you dont fall under this category (note EXCLUSIVELY as well) then congrats youre good (questioning people are also welcome btw)

evan im cis but im an ally can i interact?

no. find another blog

FAQ MAY BE UPDATED AS I RECEIVE MORE ASKS

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I wish i new more trans people. I know this blog is probably targeted towards romantic t4t but damn what i wouldn't give for having a trans friend

my blog isnt actually targetted towards romantic t4t actually i also largely prioritize friendships with other trans people as well. a lot of t4t people are largely only t4t in their romantic relationships but t4t friendship and community is really important for trans people. having no trans friends as a trans person is really difficult and i hope you can find trans friends

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less than 2 weeks until me and gf's 1 year anniversary <3 (st4t)

looks like its passed. happy late anniversary!

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holding my girlfriend whilst she sleeps <3 god shes so perfect

<3

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checking through this blog again finally so expect some updates but also im going on a walkie so brb

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There's like not many places i can discuss this but i can't decide if i want to get bottom surgery or leave my parts as is incase i meet another trans partner that i want to make babies with, I'm questioning so hard cause like wouldn't it be nice to finally have cis parts? but at the same time what if i do meet another trans partner who wants to make babies with me..?

im actually getting phallo but like theres a couple of things u should know. 1. you can get bottom surgery and keep ur natal genitalia, and 2. do you want to have babies like that? you can always store ur eggs/sperm until that happens but like especially if ur transmasc like u need to really think about HOW you want to have children because pregnancy is a big thing and everyones gonna know if youre pregnant at some point, and pregnant trans people are disproportionately discriminated against by labor and delivery/obgyn doctors. its a little less involved if ur transfem but again u can store ur sperm or eggs and just come back to it on a later date. but again you can have both genitalia either way

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hihihihi im not sure if you're still accepting asks but if you are here is my humble platonic t4t rant

i have two trans best friends (transfem and genderfluid) and they are the lights of my life. granted thats kind of pathetic of me since they're dating but hey im a sucker for good friendship

anyways they're literally super duper cool and awesome and i think i would die if either of them asked me to and also they let me bite them which is so cool

im running like super high energy rn but i needed to get this out. i lobve them both sosososo much even though they ignore me sometimes but RAHHHH!! im pretty sure this counts as t4t since all three of is are trans so 😋

also this blog is super duper cool and it makes me really happy to scroll through :3 i submitted an ask here like a year ago abt my genderfuid friend and now a wonderful transfem has been added to mix,, AAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH I LOVE MY FRIENDS!!!! LOVELY PEOPLE!!! MY WORLD!! lowkey might be aromantic but im not processimg that yet.

meowmeowmeowmrowmeowmeow

honestly a lot of being t4t for me is also prioritizing friendships with other trans ppl. a lot of t4t ppl are only t4t romantically but honestly platonic relationships with other trans people is important

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I was wondering, before I follow you, you mention dni if you're cis. I'm genderfluid, amab, but not on E or anything, can I follow?

if youre not cis (ie. you dont identify as exclusively by the sex u were assigned at birth) you can follow

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I just moved across the country a couple months ago and moved in with my nonbinary bff, and currently all of my friends here are also trans or non-cis/questioning and im just so happy here!!! plus my bffs gf (non-cis) might be moving in with us early next year and aaaaaahhhh things are better than i could’ve imagined !!!

this is so cool!! im actually moving across the country as well in may. have a lot of friends/family out there already

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I'm transmasc and my wife just came out as transfem and I couldn't be more proud of her!! I watched her struggle with her gender identity for years and when I called her she/ her and her new chosen name (Calypso, Clyp for short) she was the happiest I've seen her in a long time<3

that is so fire and her new name is awesome<3 i think its amazing how we just find each other. i was the first of a lot of my friends to come out as trans, and everything else just kinda fell into place

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My whirlfriend (transfemme, 1.5 yrs on E) and I (transmasc/NB, no hormones yet) found out last week we're pregnant!!!! We had only stopped preventing a month ago, her SA showed slightly lower motility, and my first pregnancy (with a cis male partner) had taken two years, so the shock is real! But we have our first ultrasound tomorrow and I don't know how I'm gonna sleep tonight. My first kiddo is so excited to "not be a lonely child anymore" (she means "only child" lmao) and has stayed her preference to continue calling me mom, while baby will call me daddy; so she won't lose her status as the only one to call me mommy. I'm just so thrillllllllled!!!!

OMG YAY CONGRATS

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Much love to my fellow T4Ts! There's something really special about loving someone who is trans, and being loved by someone who is trans.

TRUE

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hi evan, i’ve followed u and ur gf on ig for quite some time and just found u on tumblr as well :) not sure how active u are here anymore but i figured id leave this here anyway

i’ve only been with my girlfriend for (almost) three months now, but already it’s been so incredible :,) she’s not my first trans partner but she is the first woman i’ve ever been with and the first transfem i’ve ever gotten this close with!

it’s a funny feeling to have a girlfriend as a guy who is as flamboyant as i am. i’ve identified as a trans man for a third of my life now, but i’ve been wondering if im nonbinary for the last year or so (kind of not really a big deal to me - i present myself like a twink and i use he/it pronouns and basically im just doin my thang lol) and people are generally pretty surprised when they find out i have a girlfriend whether they know im trans or not

anywayyyyy this girl is so fucking special to me. she’s a year older than me and has only been out for about a year (i could be remembering wrong but yknow) and has only been on e for about nine months, which is also how long ive known her for. it’s been so incredible to watch her get prettier and prettier as time goes on, and even better to watch her body get softer since i get to see her naked now :D every time she takes her clothes off i go YAYYYYY and get zoomies and just want to run around 🏃

she’s also the first partner i’ve had who has had any interest in kink, and fortunately we have a LOT in common in that department. we’re both very switchy and have crazy kinky transgender sex ! i get to be her puppy AND her daddy and she gets to be my mommy/owner AND my babygirl and it’s literally just everything and more to me :,) she peed in my mouth recently which is something i’d fantasized about for YEARSSSS and it was just as good as i hoped it would be and made even better by how obvious it is that she loves me more than anything and she treats me with so much care

anywayyy lots to say. i could say so much more. i love this bitch to the moon and back and i can’t believe she’s mine and im hers :,) it’s so special to be in a st4t relationship and teach each other about traditionally boyish/girly things from our childhood we don’t need anymore and give each other our old clothes etc i love that’s she’s taller than me and i love painting her nails and doing her makeup and i love her pretty face and her pretty titties and her soft skin and her body hair and the way she smells she’s truly the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me

seeing ur gf naked and going YAYYYY is so real

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been calling myself gay for a long time as a transman, recently found out i am simply bi and t4t. anyways i have a genderfluid girlfriend now and i love her a ton. it's a little embarrassing because i've been out and proud as gay for a while, and now i have to explain to people that i have a girlfriend, and that, no, she isn't a man

not sure how im gonna tell my family but that's alright! my parents are queerhet so they'll probably understand the complexities of sexuality

cool!!!

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heyy im back!! my gf and i moved in together. heres a pic of us about to go on a date!

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hey im sorry for not updating this blog, ive been really burnt out. i get a lot of transphobe interaction on my trans account and it really gets me feeling bad, ill try to work on the asks as soon as i feel better to

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I wanna start T so bad so I can become the really butch/otter knight in shining armor of my dreams so i can sweep a cute femme prince/t/ss off their feet, i will live out my Tolkien/renfaire/high fantasy dreams, im manifesting it

ur so real i just kinda became a dog on t but its great yallre dreaming big