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Seeing masc trans men and trans mascs talk about fetishization in our community and in the sex work industry is vital; these conversations need to happen. But the moment vaginal sex gets framed as exclusively "fetishization" or "normalization of a detransition kink," (Which yes I see some trans men and some men aligned people claiming this or accusing people cis or trans of this, especially of trans men and men aligned people like me who enjoy Omegaverse when it is written by the community members fujioshi hurt and have gone on to reclaim it aka non binary, trans and intersex authors.) among the trans community and cis community I want to violently throw up. I'm just as annoyed as anyone when people assume trans men and men aligned are all bottoms, skinny, hairless, and have vaginal sex. I'm glad we're addressing it really but then comes the other side of the sword where people assume all androgynous trans men or male aligned are somehow conforming or will be accused of having a detransition kink or otherwise contributing to this problem.
Full disclosure the part I split from hated his vagina growing up. He hated himself, was absolutely sex repulsed, sex wasn't enjoyable, masturbation wasn’t enjoyable, romance wasn’t enjoyable, I can recall our body didn't even lubricate properly despite that’s what our body was supposed to do being “AFAB” as an intersex person. Because of this, many of my abusers opted for anal during my abuse so now I’m reluctant to mess around with that ontop of gastrointestinal related reasons from the CPTSD.
Now that we’re on testosterone? The body is finally lubricating properly for the first time, we have a libido, we have a drive, we don’t hate certain parts of our body the way we did. I have sensation down there I never, ever had before testosterone.
Soon as I get comfortable now I have this new fear is the rest of the trans community going to see me as a conformist? A detransition fetishist? A "fakeboy"? Is this why an overwhelming number of trans women on other sites and cis men sometimes even hyper masc trans men have messaged me talking about how "hot" it is to fuck a "pretty boy," "femboy," and "pussy boy"? even though I'm not strictly feminine, and my androgyny isn't just mixing masc and fem presentations. It's mixing and matching more than fucking six expressions into pairs at a time.
My body is changing in ways that finally feel right, but suddenly I'm terrified that the very people who should understand will weaponize my healing against me. That my physical pleasure and reclaiming over a body I’m still insanely dysmorphic about in other ways as opposed to the rest of the system will be used as evidence AGAIN by other trans people and cis people that I'm "not really trans" or that I'm somehow contributing to the problem or betraying the community by finding joy in a body part some of us used to hate.
We're creating these impossible boxes where trans men or men aligned can't win either we're fetishized for being "feminine" and androgynous or we're gatekept for not being "masculine enough." It's exhausting.
I remember the earliest trans man and trans male aligned communities were hyper toxic masculine (the transfeminist and transfem communities are equally guilty of doing this too to trans men and man aligned people) and shoved being a “real boy” or a “man” properly down other people’s throats, no pun intended. It meant abandoning everything that wasn’t westernized American white culture definitions of manhood or boyhood qualities, hobbies, interests and behavior onto you and if you didn’t want that you “weren’t serious” or a “transtrender”. Now it’s if youre not hyper masc or strict masc you’ll be accused of this by trans men aligned people and trans woman aligned people but you’ll also in contrast be seen as encroaching on women’s spaces, hyper fetishized by everyone else, accused of being a fetishist or seen negatively impacting the binary trans communities on the other hand no matter what.
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I always hear cis people (usually the transphobic ones) talking about some “why can’t you just be a feminine man/ masculine woman” like…we know…trust me we know that men can be fem and women can be masc, but that’s not the fucking point 😭😭 like the whole problem is being seen AS the sex you were assigned. That’s what dysphoria is, so no i cannot be just a “masc woman” because I would be seen…as a woman. And that would make me extremely uncomfortable bc that ain’t who I am.
Another point is some of yall be weird as hell about people who exist outside the gender binary. It’s like if someone is not identifying in these 2 little specific boxes, people will lose their minds because they cannot conceptualize someone just existing like that. People are okay with you being gender non conforming as long as you are identifying with the sex you were assigned at birth and I think that’s really fucking weird.
Makeup Removal Time :3 ✌️
