So I understand that a lot of posts on here are about finding community and comfort in other witches, so I wanted to touch briefly on a subject that can get a little dicey: how to tell you need to avoid a practitioner.
There are a lot of people out there who generally don't give a shit about others, which is sad, but true. This is, unfortunately, especially true when it comes to religion and witchcraft. So here are a few red flags to watch out for if you're a witch, and wondering if you should be around another.
They constantly talk badly about other practices (especially closed practices).
They look down on other witches writing things down, because they believe 'real witches memorize everything'.
When the topic of things like divination, tarot, or astral projecting come up, they dominate the conversation and make up grandiose stories about their experiences. One or two crazy stories is much different than 'Hera told me to stop sleeping with her husband while shifting'.
They pretend to always 100% know exactly what your tarot cards are telling you.
They frequently fuss with your altar, tarot cards, crystals, etc without asking, disrupting their energy.
When the topic of religion comes up, they rant about how the only good/real religion is Paganism/Wicca/New Age/etc
If they refuse to do their own research.
If they dabble in closed practices without the proper birthright/invitation, then get mad when you tell them it's inappropriate.
If they tease baby and new witches for messing up, because they're still learning.
They think that every witch HAS to be religious.
If they suggest that the only "proper" witchcraft is their own style and/or if they consistently tell you you're wrong for using a specific crystal/candle/herb when you're actually using it properly.
There are lots of good people out there with the best intentions. Friends can be made in every direction, but remember that you are your first priority. If someone is making you feel small, belittled, or uncomfortable, you have the right to walk away from that person if you are able to. You are your own person and you have your own practice. Be safe, and don't let those who want to drag you down do just that.
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