Earning B’s Submission

Submission is earned, not taken. I’m R and this blog is about earning B’s submission and the many adventures B and I have. Monogamous. 20’s. Kinky to the bone(r). Long distance for some moments. Partners first but Dom and sub always. Olive lovers.

[owning-b]

Nails

It’s time to do your nails. I’m both excited and scared.

As with most things I have learned to do for you, I’m sure I’ll do it poorly and wrong. During this learning period I hope you can stand having imperfect nails until I get good at it.

I am excited to do it and for you to have your nails done.

Just another way for me to take care of you and take some control from you. Hopefully you are able to relax and enjoy it as much as possible.

[owning-b]

Blogging Or Journaling

I think I have been blogging more as a means to journal lately. I like it. It feels good and refreshing to look back on my thoughts.

But I suspect it is not much fun for others to read. Nor is it likely polished enough to be enjoyable in the way that peaking into someone’s journal often is.

I think I will work on it. In the interim I will continue to blog/journal. I think that any writing and posting is better than none.

Maybe my posting will be more polished. Maybe it will stay the drunk ramblings of a horny Dom.

[owning-b]

A Fire

We had a big scene the other day. It has started a fire in me. My mind is consumed by thoughts us and our future scenes.

I day dream about the fantasies we have shared and how we can make them a reality. Constantly longing for evening where we can play; even if it is just a little. Just maintenance spanks and a hair brushing is a wonderful and fulfilling exchange of power that only brightens the flame in me.

We have a bright future of kink ahead of us and I cannot wait to explore it with you. I look forward to joining kink social groups and going to events together. I know it will be incredibly uncomfortable at first but I know we can find a good community that we enjoy.

For now we have to play small but soon enough we will have regular scenes and larger scenes. I cannot wait.

Especially your spanks and hair brushing tonight!

[owning-b]

Sleepy Girl

You often get sleepy at the end of the day. Any play we have planned can get sidelined for sleep. I’m not speaking negatively about it. It’s not your fault. We both know that.

I am learning to work around it. Make healthy, sane, and fun decisions that keep the play rolling without killing momentum or scenes.

Sometimes it can make play better. It shifts my plans to a time where we are both more awake and “gives me permission” to do more in that scene.

Tonight it’s just more spanks and an attempt tomorrow.

In the future it may be more aggressive. It may be adding intensity and length to a scene.

Maybe it’s me trying to use your ass while you sleep.

Maybe I just cum on your face while you sleep.

No matter what, I know it will make our play better long term. So, for now I will be gentle. I will make it fun for both of us.

Later, I will make it fun for only me.

[owning-b]

“I Decided”

“I am having a cum today; I decided.”

Funny that wasn’t on my agenda. I had dinner, hair brushing, and bedtime spanks.

No cums on the agenda.

I added one.

Mine.

I ruined on you last night; I need a good release.

But you did get me thinking, when should you get cums. (To be perfectly clear I mean your new cums: edges) Daily? Weekly? Monthly? Only days you earn no extra strikes? Just when I feel like watching you edge?

Maybe if you stroke me well enough while I write the post I will give you a cum.

You did just give my cock a convincing kiss before I sent you to grab your toy. But I really just wanted to charge it tonight.

Maybe you shouldn’t cum tonight. Your stroking is slowing as you relax on my chest.

By the time you read this you will know the answer.

[owning-b]

A Good Pet

I am typing this while you lie sleeping at my feet. Your hand on my legs slowly loosening it’s grip, twitching, falling and resetting as sleep slowly consumes you.

It feels right. My pet sleeping at my feet while I finish my show and my drink.

Maybe I’ll use you. Your holes are denied 26 days. Maybe the stretching wakes you up. Maybe me hitting your cervix.

Maybe I use you so gently you never fully wake and you sleep soundly through the night filled with my cum.

Maybe I’ll just cum on you and make you sleep in it.

Maybe I’ll edge until I’m ready to cum and push my seed in you. Leaving you to sleep, slowly leaking my seed throughout the night.

Maybe I won’t touch you at all because I know you have been fantasizing about how I will touch and use you.

You are in denial after all.

Be a good pet and have wet dreams of me. Wake up horny, needy, and desperate.

I’ll see you in the morning, my wonderful pet.

[owning-b]

You Know What It Means

20 loads.

You know what it means.

20 loads.

I hope you don’t mess up.

There will be very strong consequences.

Good or bad.

Get them right.

20 loads.

[posseydo-n]

Fairy girl

[owning-b]

You with your journal soon enough.

[dadsdollyyy]

<3

[owning-b]

This an intentional time together. Especially with constant eye contact and good conversation.

[spankthegirl]

girl with a fat ass spanked OTK!

[owning-b]

This is soon to be a nightly routine. I hope you smile as big as her each time.

[littledroolypup]

a freshly collared girl 🔒

[owning-b]

I think you may need one of these.

It takes a key (okay a hex key) to remove. I think you would look stunning in a gold one!

[masterxdanx]

[owning-b]

I cannot wait for this. I miss your soft hands wrapped around mine.

[owning-b]

Followers

When I envisioned posting regularly on Tumblr I expected to be posting into the void that is the internet.

I figured I would post and it would be something that was a passing interest for you.

Neither has turned out to be true. Now my eight followers (six to seven of which are spam account) probably aren’t invested.

But you are. You were disappointed I missed my post last night.

Sorry.

But what an ego boost. It energized me to post and continue my daily posting as long as I can stand.

I can’t wait to post on what we play with. How our TPE is going. How dark I have made the canvas of your ass.

I am eager to journal. Both of us. In physical journals. A quiet safe place for our darkest thoughts and most skittish fantasies. Only to be shared when we see fit.

For now you get this crude blog post.

[owning-b]

Collar Swapping

March 14, 2023. That is when I collared you.

That is 2 years, 8 months, and 29 days ago.

With very few exceptions you have worn your collar for that entire time. You have always asked or told me when you have needed it off.

When I have been there I have always been the one to take it off and put it on.

We have been talking about kink, planning, playing, and preparing for TPE. I have been getting daily pictures of your outfits. Collar always visible. In a very strong way I feel my ownership of you.

I saw the picture of your outfit yesterday.

I spiraled. I had never contended with the thought that you took your collar off without telling me. You always had.

I felt an insane rush of emotions. Too many happening at once; I could never identify one, let alone all of them.

I knew one thing though.

This shouldn’t be allowed.

So after 1005 days of being collared by me let me be very clear. Let’s ensure your collar never leaves your skin without my permission for the rest of our lives.

[owning-b]

Journaling

I grabbed physical journals today. As we start our TPE part of your nightly routine will be to journal for 10 minutes.

You can write nothing. You can draw. You can write a lot. You can play tic-tac-toe.

But you will journal for 10 minutes. Every night.

Some nights will be easier than others.

Some you will be ready for bed. Some you will be plugged. Some you will actively be receiving your strikes. But you will still be required to journal.

[owning-b]

My Needy Girl

Your pleasure has been under my control for some time now. You have had a few mistakes but you’ve been good enough to ruin but not orgasm.

We played hard last night. But something keeps replaying in my mind.

You asked for a cum. You meant and edge. You corrected yourself. Then you immediately said that edges are like a cum for you.

Edges = cums

You now are allowed cums daily but orgasms are off limits.

I think we are both happier with your cums being without orgasms. Without release. You need them daily. You need the denial and the constant reminder of you being owed. You need to be needy for me always.

[owning-b]

Body figures

I am always hesitant to share any image with you that has my “ideal body type” because I think it runs the risk of being misconstrued as what I want you to look like; or you taking in more than the singular quality I like in a particular image. It is a tricky spot to some extent. I don’t want to cause body image problems or make you feel I am setting unrealistic expectations but I need a way to convey how I want you to look for me.

When we have talked on “Bimbofication” we have agreed we don’t like the unhealthy extremes but we want to play with you being the “perfect, hot, housewife” for me.

It is tricky.

I have a new plan. I will save pictures and give detailed explanations of what I like and why. My hope with this is that you are able to read between the lines of dumb male brain and have a similarly helpful experience like I did of “Here is what I can do with my body and it’s natural leaning to get closer to that ideal.” Without it instilling an unhealthy expectation for body image.

Look on our Reddit account for details of how I am doing it.

Spoiler: a lot of these will also have boob job aspects.