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I hate my dumbass quote unquote father lol he's in fucking jail for threatening to sh**t up a godaddy dot com office OF ALL FUCKING THINGS I'm gonna do everything in my power to keep him the fuck IN THERE like fuck the prison system so so soooo so so hard but fuck him even harder. dumbass. hope you die in there creep

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"I don't know" IS a legitimate answer

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For a slave. If you say “I don’t know,” then you give your power away to one who claims they do know. Say “I don’t know” and the one next to you lies, their lies become YOUR truth. Here are again yelling to the wind when the one you want scream at is right here. Life is tough—for everyone. If you cannot answer, stay silent. Silence is at best acquiescence, not fealty. To say “I don’t know” is too submit to the one who is angry and upset with you and give your power away to them. When you say “I don’t know” to them, they tell you what to know. In this way they gain control over you, your actions, and your will. I tried to teach not to willfully give that control away. Men may acquiesce—but we do not submit. I knew who you were from the beginning—that’s why you always had “boy toys.” I hope things are better for you, though it seems you are only gathering more anger and hatred. I can feel it crunching your soul.

pacifichagfish

I don't know what this means

I am not your fucking property and I never was

"I don't know" IS a legitimate answer

#YES i have a trauma complex about saying i dont know to people when one or all parties are or seem upset #beacuse of my stalker! i know THAT you stupid bastard! do you? do you NOT KNOW?#'I DONT KNOW IS NOT AN ANSWER' stupid you said it yourself

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I mean.. when I notice that I am being stalked, and that things I say are being replied to with comments I'm rightfully interpreting as harassment.. it leaves me feeling extremely repulsed, scared, bewildered, embarrassed, frustrated, and ultimately causes me to dissociate. I could go on about how this situation makes me feel exclusively negative emotions all day.

I'm feeling these things because some of my basic, universal human needs are not being met.

I need to have a sense of emotional safety. I need to be seen, heard, understood, and respected. I need respect. A sense of mutual recognition that my desire and ultimately my human right to space and privacy be met.

I'm requesting, asking kindly, if... You, my stalker, would be willing to help me meet these needs by simply hearing me out? Are you willing to understand how I feel in this situation? I don't want a response to this. I am just asking for respect via complete silence, and complete no contact. I need complete respect, I need complete privacy, I need complete no contact; not even silent interactions with anything I post or say.

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