Start Of My Day - #004
I am thankful for my family and friends. Yesterday was my birthday and I feel so loved by the simple act of wishing me a happy birthday. We're in a world of technology that reminds us when it's someone's birthday. On one hand, I could choose to think that many people only remembered because of technology but I'm overwhelmed by the fact that even after this many years of Facebook having this in place that people still wished me a happy birthday. It's not an automated thing and that many people took the perogative to say something. Admittedly I have seen that it's a friend's birthday and then think "oh I'll wish them happy birthday later" and then forget. Or I get stuck on writing something because especially with certain friends you want to write something special or at least a little more meaningful than the generic 'happy birthday' and then I end up writing nothing thinking I'll get to it later and then forget. Cards are actually worse for me because my family has never failed to send me birthday or holiday cards, yet there's me who can't seem to remember to do so in time or I get hung up on getting stamps or buying a thoughtful card. It's the elusive "adult" thing to do that "I'll get around to next year for sure." Some people actually use the Facebook birthday reminder as a way to decide whether or not to "unfriend" a person. We've gone through so many different scenarios of collecting friends from school to work events because inherently I think we know that connecting with people is important. Yet we now have a social network that is full of people we don't really connect with anymore. So for the friends who took time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday, it makes me feel loved and I'm sorry if I haven't been the best at reciprocating. For the record my preference is still to text you birthday wishes if I have your number, because having it is a sign to me that we are closer than a FB wall post. Yet I also appreciate the "let the world know how much I love you" aspect of posting endearing gifs for all friends to see. These are the moments that's invigorate me to keep working on my social project.














