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ENEMY LINES ARE DRAWN

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Meredith, I’ve been spending time with someone that basically put the stars in the sky and long story short he’s about to go and I really don’t want him to. I don’t know how to feel because we both collectively said we weren’t going to get in our feelings and now I’m over here looking like boo boo the fucking fool wanting to never let him leave my side.

dear anon, i don’t know how to put this gently but it sounds like you played yourself. on the brightside, maybe he’s feeling what you’re feeling so boo boo the fucking fool might have a clown partner. 

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Dear Meredith, I've been feeling pretty lonely and unimportant. Seems like my friends are happy and too busy for me these days. I want to try to be involved again but conversations seem to constantly die off.

dear anon, are conversations actually dying off or are you subconsciously ending them before they can get good? your feeling lonely and unimporant can easily have an effect on how you interact with other people

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dear meredith, i've been feeling guilty about things i can't control. and not just a few small things. it's most things, big and small. i can tell it's starting to take a toll on some of my relationships. what should i do?

dear anon, it sounds like you need to take a break. go on vacation, unplug for a week or maybe even just a weekend. give yourself an opportunity to chill out.

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Dear Meredith, I can't tell if my friend is hitting on me or if he's just generally being nice and friendly. There have been casual flirty messages here and there but I still don't want to risk it and pull that trigger first. Nothing bad would happen I just don't want to be wrong. I was invited to his place and am currently staying with him so I feel like the timing is vital, too.

dear anon, if nothing bad will happen and your curiosity is killing you, just get over your ego of being wrong and ask. just a simple “hey are you flirting with me” can answer that real fast for you. 

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Dear Meredith can you please dust my wets

dear jack, get out of my inbox.

sincerely, meredith.

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we haven’t done a “dear meredith” in quite some time. send me some letters and i’ll give you troubled babes some free advice~

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I can really see myself being with someone but I'm too scared to say anything about it because I don't want my feelings to ruin our friendship.

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i often bottle up my own feelings because i involve myself in others' business too much and try to help everyone

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i want to see my best friend naked. i don't want to do anything else, i just want to see them naked. maybe it's just my curiosity or maybe it's my way of deciding whether these feelings are platonic or if it might be time to try and enter the bone zone

the bone zone. i love that. 

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hey young’uns. i know we just did this recently, but let’s send in some confessions?

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hey gremlins and ghouls, i’m around for a little bit tonight, but we’re gonna do something a little different. i’m going to be replying to your sb posts instead of playing a public game, so start posting if you wanna have a little chat in a minute

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jisoo

looks like jisoo is going through a breakup and dealing with the subsequent heartache. drop your heartbreak tips below for our good pal here

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SAEED

hey, you know when i did that cool thing and deleted the other two asks about him? there’s a reason for that. ask him yourself and don’t shout at me!

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Soonyoung

the person he likes, likes him back, but also likes someone else, and honestly there’s no issue with that. your relationship with someone doesn’t change just because they also like someone else

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Andy

no updates since he broke his sobriety, but we hear he refuses to bend and apologize to someone which doesn’t sound Great. don’t let your ego and pride get in the way of self awareness, and having good relationships with the people in your life.

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Cody

he’s being mindful of his partner’s traumas and anxieties, and that’s really all anyone can ever ask from someone else. keep that line of open communication going, you’re doing your best

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sade

Sade, angel, you are not a failure nor are you a letdown. you don’t get a handbook on how to maneuver these things, and you’re doing the best that you can, so hold that close in your heart and remember that you’re never alone. also the other person you’ve been worried about is doing alright now so don’t worry about it anymore