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#bae

Check to see If your words match your heart b4 you speak

Wish I was at home wit the fam instead of Slaving at this plantation. Cotton, fields assembly lines, it’s all the same. Spending time with the people I love is what matters to but I have to grind and show up every day a week for thease 12 hr shift. We ain’t really come from nothing just like a lot of black people. But I guarantee we gone make it out. #blackfreedom

No matter what’s going on in the world or how fucked up it may be as long as I have good times with my family I’ll be alright

Best part of the day

acutelesbian

A lot of people ask me what my biggest fear is, or what scares me most. And I know they expect an answer like heights, or closed spaces, or people dressed like animals, but how do I tell them that when I was 17 I took a class called Relationships For Life and I learned that most people fall out of love for the same reasons they fell in it. That their lover’s once endearing stubbornness has now become refusal to compromise and their one track mind is now immaturity and their bad habits that you once adored is now money down the drain. Their spontaneity becomes reckless and irresponsible and their feet up on your dash is no longer sexy, just another distraction in your busy life. Nothing saddens and scares me like the thought that I can become ugly to someone who once thought all the stars were in my eyes.

fat-thin-skinny

this fucks me up every single time

acutelesbian

I never expected this to be my most popular poem out of the hundreds I’ve written. I was extremely bitter and sad when I wrote this and I left out the most beautiful part of that class.

After my teacher introduced us to this theory, she asked us, “is love a feeling? Or is it a choice?” We were all a bunch of teenagers. Naturally we said it was a feeling. She said that if we clung to that belief, we’d never have a lasting relationship of any sort.

She made us interview a dozen adults who were or had been married and we asked them about their marriages and why it lasted or why it failed. At the end, I asked every single person if love was an emotion or a choice.

Everybody said that it was a choice. It was a conscious commitment. It was something you choose to make work every day with a person who has chosen the same thing. They all said that at one point in their marriage, the “feeling of love” had vanished or faded and they weren’t happy. They said feelings are always changing and you cannot build something that will last on such a shaky foundation.

The married ones said that when things were bad, they chose to open the communication, chose to identify what broke and how to fix it, and chose to recreate something worth falling in love with.

The divorced ones said they chose to walk away.

Ever since that class, since that project, I never looked at relationships the same way. I understood why arranged marriages were successful. I discovered the difference in feelings and commitments. I’ve never gone for the person who makes my heart flutter or my head spin. I’ve chosen the people who were committed to choosing me, dedicated to finding something to adore even on the ugliest days.

I no longer fear the day someone who swore I was their universe can no longer see the stars in my eyes as long as they still choose to look until they find them again.

conceitedtrash

This is so fucking important and I think it’s something I needed right now

acutelesbian

holy shit over a million notes. Thank you all so much

icuisafourletterword

Still love this

mypurpleminions

I always reblog this.

A man must control his lust to love his woman

Relationships get better with time, the 2 of you are always growing but remember to focus on growing together instead of individually because growing alone brings loneliness but growing together brings intimacy

The new cotton fields

theanimalmemes

“marry someone u want to annoy for the rest of your life”

— @thesexualquotes (via thesexualquotes)

peaceking7733

I love annoying bae

Just had my first baby I love my family so much. #black royalty

#noexceptions

We are living in a world where there are a lot of stupid people running loose. Black kings and queens, get together, stay together, and stay out the way.

Black organization to protect black women and uplift the black community. For full video click the link https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GHuoTnzBEMU

Remember we are a race still recovering from slavery. So dnt be so hard on the next black man or woman. They are probably still trying to break the chains.

New black panthers Organization formed to protect black women And serve the the black community This is an invite to join or support the start of an all black organization similar to the black panthers in effort to protect and aid black women. This organization is inspired by the fact that many of our own black men treat our women like shit. And we already have the white men in power working against us. Many black men leave our women to be single mothers, abuse them and disrespect them. This needs to stop, and the men who sit and watch are as much in the wrong as the men who do it. We were made to protect the black woman. We are doing a poor job. I have seen enough and the time is now to come together and form an alliance to take a stand against these weak black men and protect our women. The black community is long overdue for something to get us connected. As of now this is the planning stage. Anyone interested in contributing to the beginning of this movement let me know. Mainly we will be focused on building members, sharing ideas, and planning the foundation. Once we have a solid foundation we will start to take action with our #1 priority being to protect and aid black women in this country. What I will need from you Name City and state Contact information I will contact you and we will discuss how we can work together to build this organization As of now there is no hierarchy anyone joining at this point will be a potential cofounder Women are also welcome, you are the source of our guidance and strength, and much more, you will be just as helpful. I am not looking for any financial contributions, at this point I’m just looking for strong black men and women to come put their minds together #newblackpanthers #newblackpantherparty #blackpanther #blackpower #blackexcellence #blackcommunity #blackkings #blackking #blacksoul #blacksoldiers #blackbuisness #blackmovement #blackqueen #heuypnewton #bobyseale #conscious #blackconscious #blackconsciousness #blackfreedom #blackrelationships

My video on weak black men, and hurt black women To watch full video go to link. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GJ5Dcrm9gko

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