So i guess this is more of a question for Tom. I heard that some couples practice chastity because if a male is locked up for a while, finally gets released and allowed to cum its more "special" that way. Now before your permanent sentence, was that true for you? Just curious.
A lot of couples play with this by keeping the man locked for shorter time periods, a weekend, a week, maybe trying the LOctober month long challenge. When playing that way, the guy is expecting, and looking forward to the reward of an orgasm after the time period is up. So for them, it's often true that the waiting makes it feel more special.
However, @mrs--edge and I have never really played that way. Even in the early days, I have always left the decision for both unlocking me, and allowing me an orgasm up to her. This usually led to fairly long terms (ie, months) of denial, and when she finally allowed me to come, it never seemed like it was totally satisfying. Not that it want enjoyable, but it rarely seemed enough to bring my post-orgasm arousal level down to pre-caged levels. And the next morning I would still be as aroused as if it had never happened.
Now, that said, being locked for years is rewiring my brain. For the first year I would occasionally, often randomly come in my cage when we were having sex. They always felt ruined, and never satisfying. But in the second year, I found that I could control them (ie, hold back), and when my wife allowed it to happen, they "took the edge off."
But by the third year, I found that they were becoming very intense and enjoyable. This is part of what cemented the idea for my wife that she could make it permanent: she realized that she could bring me actual sexual pleasure this way.
So, back to your question. She allows me to come in my cage (a cagegasm? 😏) about once a month to two months. While I never have any expectation of how long, when she finally allows it, I have an amazing and very intense orgasm that seems to go on forever. Not only do they feel "special", but they are almost always a 9 or 10 on the intensity scale. They actually feel better than the early days of being locked, and quite possibly better than before we discovered this.
