Denial Permanente

Middle aged, married, and monogamous Goddess to my strong, masculine husband. Since April 2018 I have kept him permanently locked in a tight stainless steel cage, 24/7/365. He writes the captions, and I keep him inspired. FAQ: https://denial-permanente.tumblr.com/post/669949473478295552/questions-and-answers "Come for the hot captions, stay for the education."

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Questions and Answers

This post has links to some of the more commonly asked questions about how we got started, how things developed for us, and what our life is like.

How does Tom handle being locked up for so long?

Who's idea was it?

How does your husband keep you satisfied?

Does he really keep you satisfied that way?

How did you become comfortable with this?

How do you deal with illnesses?

Does Tom still initiate even though he is permanently locked?

Do you feel bad when you get to come so much and he does not?

Does Tom feel like he has sacrificed anything by being locked?

Do you feel that your husband has been emasculated by this?

Should I get a larger dildo for me wife to try?

Are you worried that denial will be bad for him?

Does your husband worry about health risks?

Doesn't he lose motivation?

Do you ever unlock him?

How can I get my wife to do this?

What was his reaction when you told him it was going to be permanent?

Don't you miss how he feels?

Do you play with others?

How long did it take you to get to permanent?

What is your favorite aspect of this?

Does your husband ever regret what he gave up?

What about shrinking?

What cage does he wear?

Do you have any tips for getting started?

Do either of you feel like you have sacrificed something to make this work?

Can I send you a picture of my cage?

Are you sure you don't want to see my cage?

How do you feel intimate with just a faux cock?

When did you realize that this is what you really wanted?

What would you do if your husband really wanted to be unlocked?

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Why would anyone agree to never be able to have an orgasm again? I understand the frustration and yearning but you never give relief???

I think that you have not read some of our other answers. My husband is denied being inside me, or being touched or given any direct pleasure to his penis. However, I do make him come in his cage, maybe once a month or so. Because he is always locked, he is always full of desire. That makes him horny enough to come when he makes love to me, especially if I encourage it along with a little naughty talk.

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@maitressepipes wrote: I'm not sure I'd use the terminology make love then, if he's not allowed entry to the inside of your body, I presume by the way you phrased it that means any of his appendages; penis, fingers, tongue. And if you're not giving his penis any attention or direct contact at all, where exactly do you think the "making love" comes into play?

Sometimes it is difficult to answer questions on Tumblr because it seems like we have to nitpick at the definitions of all the words all the time. And sometimes people read too much into offhand comments.

My husband's penis is locked in a stainless steel cage all the time. I do not remove it for anything sexual, only for traveling or for medical visits. That is the nature of our relationship, and has been for the past 5 years (and off and on for 20 years before that).

We make love as often as our free time allows. For that, he does not need to use what I have locked up... he uses a Vixskin Ranger in a harness. He is "inside me" in that respect because I consider the Ranger to be "him." However, when I make comments on these memes or answer questions to people, I probably use expressions that are not quite as exact or as descriptive.

And about your question on if we "make love" if he is denied. I do not know how to explain this but our love making ... our sex life... has become more close and intimate and... intense than it ever was. My husband kisses me deeply and holds my body close to his while I have the best and most amazing orgasms! When I am finished he holds me while I relax. And he tells me every time that this is the best and most intense sex that he has ever had. Denying him has made him happy and has done amazing things for our relationship.

To me (and to my husband) that is "making love." What else could it possibly be?

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Hi Mrs Edge! "Mark" and I are new to this (his idea) and it's going well! He has been locked 10 days and I'm pleasantly surprised by how attentive to me it has made him except ... he still kinda can't leave me alone. Example: last night he gave me 2 orgasms. Then I'm all relaxed and sleepy but he's lying there fiddling with his cage and pushing it against my ass, keeping me awake for like an hour. He says he can't help it bc he's so frustrated and horny, Is this something they get over?

Hahaha, never! And honestly, that's overall a good thing. I want my husband to be aroused and attentive for me. But of course, I also like my sleep, and I don't like him being all needy and bothering me, either. 😂

I don't know how long you plan to keep him locked up, but give him a few weeks to get settled in. But make it clear that he needs to force himself to settle down or else you will stop playing with him.

🔏 Tom jumping in here. You may need to offer him some kind of reward or consequences to help him learn to get all that sexual energy under control. Perhaps the carrot of an orgasm for good behavior, or the stick of delayed orgasm for poor behavior might work.

Most of us can get it under control, but in the early days it's just difficult.

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