Middle aged, married, and monogamous Goddess to my strong, masculine husband. Since April 2018 I have kept him permanently locked in a tight stainless steel cage, 24/7/365. He writes the captions, and I keep him inspired. FAQ: https://denial-permanente.tumblr.com/post/669949473478295552/questions-and-answers "Come for the hot captions, stay for the education."
Hi Mrs Edge! "Mark" and I are new to this (his idea) and it's going well! He has been locked 10 days and I'm pleasantly surprised by how attentive to me it has made him except ... he still kinda can't leave me alone. Example: last night he gave me 2 orgasms. Then I'm all relaxed and sleepy but he's lying there fiddling with his cage and pushing it against my ass, keeping me awake for like an hour. He says he can't help it bc he's so frustrated and horny, Is this something they get over?
Hahaha, never! And honestly, that's overall a good thing. I want my husband to be aroused and attentive for me. But of course, I also like my sleep, and I don't like him being all needy and bothering me, either. 😂
I don't know how long you plan to keep him locked up, but give him a few weeks to get settled in. But make it clear that he needs to force himself to settle down or else you will stop playing with him.
🔏 Tom jumping in here. You may need to offer him some kind of reward or consequences to help him learn to get all that sexual energy under control. Perhaps the carrot of an orgasm for good behavior, or the stick of delayed orgasm for poor behavior might work.
Most of us can get it under control, but in the early days it's just difficult.