Denial Permanente

Middle aged, married, and monogamous Goddess to my strong, masculine husband. Since April 2018 I have kept him permanently locked in a tight stainless steel cage, 24/7/365. He writes the captions, and I keep him inspired. FAQ: https://denial-permanente.tumblr.com/post/669949473478295552/questions-and-answers "Come for the hot captions, stay for the education."

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Questions and Answers

This post has links to some of the more commonly asked questions about how we got started, how things developed for us, and what our life is like.

How does Tom handle being locked up for so long?

Who's idea was it?

How does your husband keep you satisfied?

Does he really keep you satisfied that way?

How did you become comfortable with this?

How do you deal with illnesses?

Does Tom still initiate even though he is permanently locked?

Do you feel bad when you get to come so much and he does not?

Does Tom feel like he has sacrificed anything by being locked?

Do you feel that your husband has been emasculated by this?

Should I get a larger dildo for me wife to try?

Are you worried that denial will be bad for him?

Does your husband worry about health risks?

Doesn't he lose motivation?

Do you ever unlock him?

How can I get my wife to do this?

What was his reaction when you told him it was going to be permanent?

Don't you miss how he feels?

Do you play with others?

How long did it take you to get to permanent?

What is your favorite aspect of this?

Does your husband ever regret what he gave up?

What about shrinking?

What cage does he wear?

Do you have any tips for getting started?

Do either of you feel like you have sacrificed something to make this work?

Can I send you a picture of my cage?

Are you sure you don't want to see my cage?

How do you feel intimate with just a faux cock?

When did you realize that this is what you really wanted?

What would you do if your husband really wanted to be unlocked?

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@tom--allen So true, isn't it? ❤️🔒

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You mentioned that the VixSkin Ranger is your preferred strapon, and I think you said that you tried different harnesses before settling on one, but could you say (again?) which harness you finally settled on?

I get that harnesses are something that will entailnanlotnofnpeesonal preference, but I can't say enough good things about the Terra Firma line. I like the Dee version (because it has D rings for adjustment instead of buckles). Available at Stockroom.com

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@tom–allen​  The last 3 years are nothing compared to how much longer it’s going to be.   ❤️🔒

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So as long as you keep him locked, you never make love with him ?

I'm going to suggest that you read the pinned post at the top of the blog. It will help answer questions like that.

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I kink on female self-empowerment and total power exchange including male comeuppance. I am NOT submissive, however. I happen to think good women deserve pleasure and authority over men, but I do not want it to happen to me. If it were forced on me, I personally believe it would be justified. Now I'm just rambling, but I wanted to say Kudos to you for how you manage your husband. More power to you!

Hi, and thank you. I'm not sure if I really "manage" my husband. And I don't think I'd want any of that submissive power exchange stuff. I just like him locked, attentive, and willing to keep me satisfied 😂

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