Denial Permanente

Middle aged, married, and monogamous Goddess to my strong, masculine husband. Since April 2018 I have kept him permanently locked in a tight stainless steel cage, 24/7/365. He writes the captions, and I keep him inspired. FAQ: https://denial-permanente.tumblr.com/post/669949473478295552/questions-and-answers "Come for the hot captions, stay for the education."

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Questions and Answers

This post has links to some of the more commonly asked questions about how we got started, how things developed for us, and what our life is like.

How does Tom handle being locked up for so long?

Who's idea was it?

How does your husband keep you satisfied?

Does he really keep you satisfied that way?

How did you become comfortable with this?

How do you deal with illnesses?

Does Tom still initiate even though he is permanently locked?

Do you feel bad when you get to come so much and he does not?

Does Tom feel like he has sacrificed anything by being locked?

Do you feel that your husband has been emasculated by this?

Should I get a larger dildo for me wife to try?

Are you worried that denial will be bad for him?

Does your husband worry about health risks?

Doesn't he lose motivation?

Do you ever unlock him?

How can I get my wife to do this?

What was his reaction when you told him it was going to be permanent?

Don't you miss how he feels?

Do you play with others?

How long did it take you to get to permanent?

What is your favorite aspect of this?

Does your husband ever regret what he gave up?

What about shrinking?

What cage does he wear?

Do you have any tips for getting started?

Do either of you feel like you have sacrificed something to make this work?

Can I send you a picture of my cage?

Are you sure you don't want to see my cage?

How do you feel intimate with just a faux cock?

When did you realize that this is what you really wanted?

What would you do if your husband really wanted to be unlocked?

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Hi Mrs Edge,

I'm the woman who wrote you a few days ago about my husband and I and our chastity journey after he cheated (call me "Kate").

I just want to be clear (since I'm not sure I did so well the first time) that locking him wasn't done as a punishment and we did it after sorting through the cheating issue and attending couples counseling.

After all that we both felt like we were in a good place, that maybe our marriage was even stronger for the counseling. But I told him I had this lingering fear that it could happen again. Because the way it went down was sort of a spontaneous thing. That's when he brought up chastity. He said that it was something that turned him on anyway and then I wouldn't have to worry anymore. Again I thought it was weird at first but now I've come to really enjoy the lifestyle.

For me though it was important to do this as much as possible without the "kink" factor, I try to treat it as normal that he does not have access to his cock. I don't bring it up ever and I don't touch him except for cleaning,

To him maybe this IS part of the kink, I think it makes him extra crazy that his cock has become a non-factor. But also it means that during sex he is totally focused on me, because his cock is entirely out of the equation.

Wow, again! 🤣

First, thank you for clarifying. Also, I'm so happy that you and your husband are able to work through this and stay together. I honestly hope this all works out for you both.

As another woman who really is not interested in all the kinky stuff, I love how you've managed to take something weird like this and turn it into your own thing. I think I understand the appeal for you in treating his penis like it doesn't even exist, and being so casual in your turning down his requests for relief. This is one of those "be careful what you wish for" fantasies so many men in this community seem to have taken to the extreme!

My husband sometimes has similar fantasies about my being "nonchalant" or "dispassionate" or "matter of fact" about his denial. Which is a good thing because in many ways that's exactly how it is for me. His being locked is "just how things are now" and that's how I think about it. Or don't think about it. You know what I mean 😅.

For me, the real turn on is knowing that I have the power and control, and how his denial makes him focus on me and my pleasure, even when we're not in bed.

You have obviously found a way to make this work for you and I sincerely hope that you can use this to reach a place of even deeper intimacy and love with your husband. I'm sure you value your privacy but if you want to chat more about this, please feel free to DM me. ❤️ 🔐

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