Hello SIR. Fairly new to the Alpha/fag community on Tumblr, I would be a fag. My question is this: Why is there so much hatred towards fags by Alphas? Blog after blog is filled with violence, hateful comments, and total lack of respect aimed at fags by Alphas. They need us as much as we need them, so why act this way towards us? Even Your blog has featured fags being used in ways that seem to hold no regard for the fag. It's all discouraging to read and see. 😔
Hi anon! I get this question a few times a year. You’re not alone in feelinglike this.
Statement: Fairly new to the Alpha/fag community on Tumblr, I would be afag.
Response: This statement makes me think that you are conflating all powerexchange with the alpha/faggot dynamic. That is a specific subset and tropewithin power exchange, not the end all be all expression of power exchange as akink.
Furthermore: Point blank. I need you to put way more stock in the understandingthat you’re new. BDSM has so much more to it than the alpha fag dynamic. Yousound like someone who would better identify as a boy. A submissive with moreautonomy and respect from his Sir or Daddy. Two other titles that are distinctfrom Alphas.
For me personally, I actually vacillate between considering myself an Alpha,a Sir, or a Daddy. Those titles change based on the boy I’m with and his needs.As well as my feelings as a dominant and my mood. My strongest identity is withthat of Sir. I love that I can make people be polite to me by adoptingthat title.
Question: They need us as much as we need them, so why act this way towardsus?
Answer: The alpha fag dynamic is often couched in the idea of powerfulmasculine straight boy deigns to play with a submissive gay boy. As a result,those straight boys aren’t capable of returning love and affection to the gayboys who serve them and as we so often experience those straight boys expressoutright scorn for their gay boy servants probably out of fear they themselvesmight be gay.
Support: In the end, I need you to know… a LOT of tumblr is pure fantasy.I’m sorry my writing upsets you. I only behave that way as part of a scene witha boy who ASKS me to behave in such a fashion. Recognize that other submissiveshave very different needs from you and different kinks and different desires.I’ve been doing this blog since 2012 or so. If you were to go back over timeand really review all my posts. You’d find captions where I actually expressopposing views. The reason for that is, most of my captions are fantasy and Iwrite captions based on the pic. Just poke around for a while. You’ll find somedominants (myself included) very genuinely care about our boys. I would becrushed if I lost my boy.
Stick with bdsm. There are good folks here. Ask questions. Learn, grow, beselective about who you grow. I think you’ll find in the long run your firstimpression is mistaken. Thanks for asking!
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