I see you spreading positivity jax and I respect that a lot but if its not too much trouble. Can I ask your thoughts and opinion? Your someone I really look up to so I was wondering if I could just hear your thoughts.
Iâve been holding off answering this because Iâm not that articulate with my words and I wanted to make sure I had everything I said right. Here are my thoughts. People donât typically listen to me or take me seriously when it comes to this stuff but I feel I deserve to post my own opinions up too.
When I found out who won the election I was extremely disappointed. Disappointed in the outcome. Disappointed in the system. I didnât sleep very well either. I was very sad.
As today went on I grew even more disappointed. I was disappointed in many of my fellow democrats or even liberals. Not all of you, but many of you, have really shown a shameful side. You talk about how Trump is a bigot. Heâs hateful, disgusting, embarrassing etc. but when your chosen candidate loses so many of you do the same thing. Spouting hate from literally every orifice you can find. Iâve seen so many of you say that you will unfriend anyone who voted for Trump even family. Wow. I thought the democrats and the liberals were about accepting all ideas, but when it comes to ideas from people in our own country, if they donât match our own we try to shut it down in an instant.
I get it. Your angry. Many of you, especially from communities that have struggled with hate, feel fear. I get that. I will never feel it the way you have but I do get that you are afraid and angry. But donât let anger and fear control your actions or your words. Take a step back and look at how youâre acting. Youâre acting exactly the way you claim republicans are. Youâre acting the way you donât want people to act towards you. Stop being hypocritical. We often accept people from other countries in many ways but when it comes to the people in our own countries we want to force them to think the same way. Weâre different here too and we canât forget that. Weâre different here more than many if not all other countries. I mean this from both sides. Both sides are guilty of this.
We arenât all going to agree but thatâs the beauty of the United States. People who voted for Trump felt the same way about Hillary the way you felt about Trump. Have some compassion. I know many people who voted for President Obama twice who voted for Trump. I donât understand why and probably never will because I feel so strongly about something I doubt they will change my mind. You are the same way. You feel so strongly that Trump is the worst thing that could happen. They felt those same emotions, just as strongly.
Stop being angry. Let yourself be a bit sad if you want to but stop spreading hate. This is exactly why we didnât want Trump in office, because he spreads hate. Well obviously you didnât Trump to do that. More than ever we need to come together as a country. Truly loving something means all of its flaws. I do love the United States of America. Itâs frustrating at times. Sometimes I want to leave but Iâm proud of it. People come from all over the world to see this place.Â
Letâs show them itâs not our leader who makes it great but the people.
Itâs going to be okay!
Letâs celebrate the fact that the United States is already a great place. Letâs celebrate that everyone who voted yesterday voted for what they thought was the right. Have respect for the people who fight for what they believe is right. Just because Trump will be president doesnât mean all of the good President Obama has done is going to be erased. We voted and we lost this time.Â
Just because voting is over doesnât mean weâre defeated.
If you feel so strongly about LGBT rights, recognizing the discrimination of my fellow minorities, helping people in need etc then donât stop fighting for it. In the words of Henry David Thoreau,
âEven voting for the right is doing nothing for it. It is only expressing to men feebly your desire that it should prevail.â
Well youâve shown people what you believe now keep fighting for it. Live your own life the way you think is right, let other people live their life the way they think is right.
âWhatever the world has âbecome you have no choice but to be part of it.â - Wu Xia
Try to live happily. Find the positive. Be the change you want.
Those are my honest to God thoughts on the subject. It may seem hopeless and like crap right now. But its always Darkest before dawn, we can stick together and be stronger than ever. I have nothing but respect and Love for all my fellow minorities, LBGT friends and People who face pain and discrimination constantly.
Iâm here for all my friends and I always will be.














