you have been booped

Hi. I'm Jamie and I boop and draw and sometimes animate things. I like drawing, animating, Pokemon, Wakfu, RWBY, and lots of other stuff.

[lunar-epsilon]

PAYPAL IS TRYING TO SLIP THE RUG UNDER US. Or they may have said this and just no one read about it or noticed/knew.

OKAY SO BEFORE YOU SEND ANY MONEY FOR THAT AWESOME COMMISSION YOU WANT TO BUY FROM THAT AWESOME ARTIST. PLEASE STOP AND READ THIS.

Paypal changed the look of how you will fill out information and send money. Thus, you need to be super careful. Don’t go all willy nilly through and be like “Yeah yeah yeah send” you need to stop when you see this screen right away.

Before you proceed, you will first notice one major thing: your address is showing. What you need to do if you are ordering a DIGITAL WORK (aka, it is being sent to you via the interwebz) is you need to click on your address and there around be a drop down menu of 3 (or more) options:

No address needed

Your Current Address

+ Add a new shipping address

Be sure to select “No address needed”, it is very important that you do. If you leave your address in there, Paypal will assume that you are to receive a physical package. A physical package which needs proof that exists physically. Paypal will want the artist to provide shipping labels and tracking info on said package. This is bad, very, very bad. Artists can get in trouble if they cannot provide these things.

Please, if an artist asks to send you back your money so that you can send it again correctly, do not be offended. You are paying them to do your commission, how can they do your commission with no money?

Reblog this, send this around, if you want to make a proper tutorial go ahead, I hope this was clear enough as it is.

Important!!!

And in case the buyer does do this, there is a work around. All you have to do is click on the transaction and go to “edit tracking info” at the bottom.

Then go to order status and set to “Processed/Service Rendered.”

This will let paypal know that the order was a digital good, and no shipping was required.

You just have to check your incoming payments and make sure to do this if this does happen. Cause you aren’t notified otherwise. And you really only get in trouble if left unnoticed.

Reblogging again because I can’t stretch this enough!

[outforhealth]

Touch Isolation: How Homophobia Has Robbed All Men Of Touch

“In America in particular, if a young man attempts gentle platonic contact with another young man, he faces a very real risk of homophobic backlash either by that person or by those who witness the contact. This is, in part, because we frame all contact by men as being intentionally sexual until proven otherwise. Couple this with the homophobia that runs rampant in our culture, and you get a recipe for increased touch isolation that damages the lives of the vast majority of men. And if you think men have always been hands-off with each other, have a look at an amazing collection of historic photos compiled by Brett and Kate McKay for an article they titled: Bosom Buddies: A Photo History of Male Affection. It’s a remarkable look at male camaraderie as expressed though physical touch in photos dating back to the earliest days of photography.”

Platonic touch is crucial to human development and happiness, and this article discusses the damage done to everyone when two men can’t casually touch without fear of backlash, and when the burden of physical affection is solely placed on women.

[violent-darts]

Men from other parts of the world and different cultural histories often have to be told, literally, “don’t do what you normally would with friends: people will think you’re gay.”

It’s also part of the bullshit that contributes to the sense many men have that being denied a (usually female) sexual partner is a massive attack and hardship: in our society the only relationship that allows adult men human touch is a sexual-romantic one.

That means we’re training our boys to truly believe the only way to get this thing is by having a girlfriend. (And even then, too much cuddling or whatever that’s NOT overtly sexual or seen to be the woman providing sexualized attention is seen as emasculating and unmanly.)

And that very easily becomes “this is what women are FOR.” And even when it doesn’t quite, the need for contact doesn’t go away, and can be psychologically corrosive in the extreme.

And we start teaching this VERY young. Young enough that when today at playgroup I saw a father with his five year old SON acting like he would with a daughter or like a mother would with a son that age, it was actually remarkable (and nice to see) because it so often doesn’t happen: about three or four is usually the cut-off for fathers (or grandfathers) cuddling and kissing sons.

Moms are allowed to do it much longer, but again, sons WANTING it rather than Putting Up With It is viewed as a sign of weakness, babyish, unacceptable.

It’s fucked up, and it costs not only these men, but every woman they cross paths with. Our entire culture is set up to tell them that they HAVE to have access to a woman to be emotionally well, and that woman has to have sex with them, and then they go out and live it and everyone pays.

(Note, of course: this code and behaviour is mostly reinforced by OTHER MEN. Just like almost all the others.)

[find-the-beauty-within]

The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

[priincessolivee-deactivated2025]

I tried to scroll past this. I really did

[invisiblelad]

I feel like minor acts of kindness and good intentions are really important on days like this. 

[caitlynsource]

Esther Jenner on her daughter Caitlyn Jenner

[phineaslightfoot-deactivated201]

MAMAS THIS IS WHAT MAMAS SHOULD BE LIKE. I AM CRYING IF MY MOM COULD ONLY BE LIKE THIS

[cinabonjovi]

@ PEOPLE WHO SAY “WELL HIS MAMA NAMED HIM BRUCE SO IMMA CALL HIM BRUCE” HER MOM CALLS HER CAITLYN SO WHAT NOW

[dagoth-xil]

Things I want from Steven Universe:

Steven to confront the gems about some issues regarding their perception of him      -He did not take Rose away from them      -He is not Rose

Another episode that helps Pearl and Amethyst understand each other and deepens their relationship      -Opal

To learn how Garnet met Rose and Pearl

Lapis

Steven to learn how to fuse with other gems

Steven to fuse with Lapis so she can know what it feels like to love herself      -Connie and Lapis to become friends because they can understand each other’s loneliness and anxiety

A straight up Greg episode

[benjiscloset]

Relog if you feel like gender identity and sexual orientation should be taught about in public schools.

[antipocalypse]

PUNCHES REBLOG BUTTON

[find-the-beauty-within]

The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy

[priincessolivee-deactivated2025]

I tried to scroll past this. I really did

[invisiblelad]

I feel like minor acts of kindness and good intentions are really important on days like this. 

[kingcheddarxvii]

Arm wrestlin’ comics

[ottolla]

Text post got me thinking. Now, I want a world, or whatever, where the female “bikini armor” really is as strong as normal. Protects with magic or something, I don’t much care. And pretty much every woman wears them. I mean, same protection, but loads less weight? Sign me up! And then over the bikini armor, you wear whatever you want. Cute sundress? Fully protected. Tee and jeans? Fully protected. Leather armor? Double protected? Idk. 

Just a verse full of ladies in bikinis with normal clothes on top, so you never know who is a secret badass. It’d be great.

[bikiniarmorbattledamage]

That sounds like the only acceptable reason to excuse the existence of magical bikini armor.

It’s still laughable how a simple logical question like “if the bikini gives her total protection, why wouldn’t she wear it over or under more comfortable clothes?” is always handwaved. Usually with something akin to “but she needs to wear bikini and only bikini for the magic to work”, which translates to “fanservice is mandatory!”. Dear writers, if you can’t explain that in another way than “cause that makes me (and my presumed audience) horny” (and believe me, you can’t), please stop pretending that your story is something else than dramatized softcore porn.

~Ozzie

[little-giirl-in-thiis-world-dea]

Fuck this shit

[doll]

can we all just appreciate…

these

lil 

ponies

wearing

sweaters

[boewing]

(x)

[heythereduhleila]

Warning: I DO use dude, man, bruh, and bro as completely gender neutral terms, HOWEVER if I call you one of the above and it bothers you, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me.

This has been a PSA 

[ves5el-blog]

my hair dresser is a trans woman and a girl at the salon kept on calling her “he” so she whipped out her boob and said “does this titty look like a he to you”

[bloodyoathmate-deactivated20180]

those people who insult you and then act like the victim when you say something about it

[fuckidied-deactivated20151224]

“WOW OMG I WAS JUST KIDDING JESUS Y CANT U JUST TAKE A JOKE GOD GET OVER IT ITS NOT A BIG DEAL OMFG WOW I DID NOTHING WRONG”

[himfromthesun-deactivated201712]

u ever notice that a woman with a flat ass wearing a pencil skirt is totally appropriate but a woman with a thick ass wearing anything even jeans is inappropriate

or people with large breasts who no matter what shirt they were are showing cleavage are being inappropriate

maybe make shirts for ppl with large breasts?????

also somebody’s biology isn’t their fault so maybe stop sexualizing their body and calling it inappropriate 

idk ppl are weird why are there such double standards

[himfromthesun-deactivated201712]

like ppl with curves will be presenting their body professionally to the fullest and still be labeled inappropriate compared to someone without curves

[chamonix-gabi]

THANK YOU FOR ADDRESSING THIS

[lanabenik0-blog]

here’s to the kids that use fictional characters as a way of coping. here’s to the kids that stay up late crying to their favourite characters. here’s to the kids that imagine their favourite character by their side when they’re experiencing bad anxiety in public. here’s to the kids that need works of fiction to keep on surviving.

[black-quadrant]

adding a shootout to adults who cope in this way too. life doesn’t become easy just because you’ve grown up.

[emephwrites]

^^^^ that ^^^^