Squatting

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Just a quick note (I see the main post getting traction again which is sad because it means they're still around doing what they do) that I've moved this blog (a side) over to @/phoenixissims as a main blog. What's here is reblogged there, and anything new will be going over on that one.

Stay safe, everyone!

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Moved to a main blog over on @phoenixissims.

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Another day, some more @wolfissims block evading ...

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And again. I know for a fact that that person has blocked you at least four times now, @wolfissims.

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Another day, some more @wolfissims block evading ...

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About the previous owner of this URL.

Okay, I know for people just now looking in, it can get confusing. What it seems like is a kind of witch-hunt by a few of us against one specific person, and that person is more than willing to play up to that and cry victim.

Seriously, they're not. What they are is someone who has serially stalked and harassed multiple (and by that I mean a LOT) of RPers in different fandoms going all the way back to at least 2016/17. They have driven four people completely out of the RPC that I personally know about, and there have almost certainly been more.

They never change. They just keep coming back and doing the same thing over and over again. They have knowingly harmed people, triggered them (I know someone who has a panic attack whenever they think they might encounter this person again). And they Just. Keep. Doing it.

They've been doing this shit for 8+ years, and this is why they're not welcome in the RPC anymore.

Here is the latest (2023/4/5) callout doc with plenty of evidence, and I can get more.

They've been through a lot of fandoms over the years, but their targets are almost always male muses with some sort of 'dark' or 'dangerous' leaning, and/or military characters.

What they do: tl;dr

Send dozens of unsolicited asks looking for RP, often with unwelcome or downright creepy overtones, and ignore any and all boundaries.

Get aggressive, accusatory and guilt-trippy when rejected and will not take no for an answer.

Block evade, either by making a new blog or whining to people's partners about being blocked. They repeatedly refollow people who have already blocked them at least once.

Outright attack and harass their target's ship partners (or anyone who even makes a joke about shipping, or gets the attention they want). Meanwhile, they'll be pushing the male muse to ship themselves.

Flirts with an adult male muse using a 'child-appearing' muse (possibly not an actual child but has the appearance of one) or gets touchy-feely on anon toward other 'child' muses (and continues when told to stop).

Pretend to be someone else. Either returning on another blog/on anon and pretending they're a different person, or making another blog and claiming to be the 'best friend' of the one who did all of the above and defending them.

Change URLs repeatedly when called out or confronted in order to hide and keep doing what they're doing. Then eventually delete and come back 'as someone else' (see above) and do the same things again, often block-evading in the process.

Longer version below (I'm aware that some of my screencaps don't prove it's them, but the pattern of behavior will be very familiar).

1. Send continual asks both anon and not (I'm talking dozens a day), trying to push for interaction. This is usually with either some massively over-powered Mary-Sue or a cutesy child-appearing muse (child vampire, anime-style fox or cat-girl). Many of these asks go into sensual or sexual aspects (unwanted touching etc) even when asked IC and OOC to stop.

The Mary-Sues arrive throwing their weight around and being invincibly powerful. The mun gets angry when the target doesn't just accept this, and starts lashing out OOC. The 'child' muses start off cutesy but then begin flirting with adult-appearing males.

(They also send anons as animals or young children, which isn't bad on its own but is another way they get under people's guard.)

If the target doesn't answer all their (many) asks, or tells them they're not interested/are not RPing at the moment/are busy/didn't receive the asks, they make not-veiled-in-the-least accusations that the target is lying. They absolutely refuse to respect boundaries or take no for an answer. If you refuse to interact they will demand to know why and then not accept the explanation. If you block them, they will come back with another blog.

2. Attack and harass the target's writing partners, especially those receiving the IC attention (mostly romantic) they want for themselves. This runs from oblique 'you shouldn't talk to [name] that way' to 'do you want to date [name]?' through to OOC 'how do you know [blog name]', accusations of 'forcing a ship' and demands that the shipping partner back off. If this doesn't work out they become outright aggressive toward the shipping partner muns, sometimes having their 'muse' act violently toward the other.

Meanwhile, they're busy trying to (guess what?) force a ship on the target muse, often with the 'child-like' muses as mentioned above.

3. Pretend to be someone else. I became aware of this person somewhere around 2018-ish, when they had Shinobu Oshino blog called VampireDonuts. They were pestering at least three people in the historical RP fandoms with unsolicited asks. Another regular alt of theirs is an 'elven princess' going by 'thepureststar', 'ofpurestarlight' or variations on that theme (Emilia Clarke as an FC, usually opens with offering a drink). They brushed past a ship-partner of mine and we didn't think much of it at the time. We were apparently luckier than others had been (callout at the time here, began with the URL 'Coffeeisms', then started with one of the 'starlight' ones). Almost every single thing that's gone down from this person in the last couple of years, they were doing back then. Including block-evasion.

At a point where they were using 'ofpureststarlight' and someone started pointing out harassment from them. Another blog appeared, 'ofcelestialfire', lashing out at the accusers and talking up 'ofpureststarlight' as a wonderful friend. However the behavior, language and certain spelling/grammar errors were exactly the same. I wasn't privy to whatever finally proved they were the same, but they were called out and promptly deactivated both.

In late 2022/early 2023 they hit the Avatar (blue people) fandom and attached themselves to the main antagonist, first with the URL 'lotusreigned' (see the last part of point 1 above!).

After being blocked, they showed up with another Shinobu Oshino account 'loverofdonuts', then after being called out for their harassment again, ran through 'ofbloodissims', 'ofbatissims' and a few others in between. And then ...

As 'ofpureststarlight' they went completely off their tree at someone who was joking with the mun, dropping flirty crack asks that no-one else was taking seriously. That person has since deactivated so most the evidence is lost, but here are a few examples.

Around this same time they were hitting the DBZ fandom, and mid-2023 Spiderverse. Again, whenever blocked they would come back with a new blog and follow the same people who had just blocked them. Some of this is in the callout linked above.

Fast forward to last year, when they were being called out on this URL ...

Ironically they only arrived on this URL because they'd been called out for harassment on the original ('lotusreigned', followed by 'purplelightningwaves' and a few others).

It's also around this point that the callout linked at the top of this post comes in.

So, yeah ... I kinda lost my point of what I was going for here, but when warnings go out about this person we are not just being bitches to some poor soul. This person is bad news, has been for years, and continues to be.

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Reblogging to add screencaps from 2022/3;

Harassing someone to RP even when asked to wait, and then getting shitty when told to stop.

More of the same.

After showing up with a different blog after being blocked. With a sidenote about someone deleting to get away.

Harassing someone who made crack jokes about 'marrying' a character they were obsessing over. (This was after around a week of aggressive asks).

And being downright fucking creepy toward a minor muse.

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Long one here

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Presented without comment.

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About the previous owner of this URL.

Okay, I know for people just now looking in, it can get confusing. What it seems like is a kind of witch-hunt by a few of us against one specific person, and that person is more than willing to play up to that and cry victim.

Seriously, they're not. What they are is someone who has serially stalked and harassed multiple (and by that I mean a LOT) of RPers in different fandoms going all the way back to at least 2016/17. They have driven four people completely out of the RPC that I personally know about, and there have almost certainly been more.

They never change. They just keep coming back and doing the same thing over and over again. They have knowingly harmed people, triggered them (I know someone who has a panic attack whenever they think they might encounter this person again). And they Just. Keep. Doing it.

They've been doing this shit for 8+ years, and this is why they're not welcome in the RPC anymore.

Here is the latest (2023/4/5) callout doc with plenty of evidence, and I can get more.

They've been through a lot of fandoms over the years, but their targets are almost always male muses with some sort of 'dark' or 'dangerous' leaning, and/or military characters.

What they do: tl;dr

Send dozens of unsolicited asks looking for RP, often with unwelcome or downright creepy overtones, and ignore any and all boundaries.

Get aggressive, accusatory and guilt-trippy when rejected and will not take no for an answer.

Block evade, either by making a new blog or whining to people's partners about being blocked. They repeatedly refollow people who have already blocked them at least once.

Outright attack and harass their target's ship partners (or anyone who even makes a joke about shipping, or gets the attention they want). Meanwhile, they'll be pushing the male muse to ship themselves.

Flirts with an adult male muse using a 'child-appearing' muse (possibly not an actual child but has the appearance of one) or gets touchy-feely on anon toward other 'child' muses (and continues when told to stop).

Pretend to be someone else. Either returning on another blog/on anon and pretending they're a different person, or making another blog and claiming to be the 'best friend' of the one who did all of the above and defending them.

Change URLs repeatedly when called out or confronted in order to hide and keep doing what they're doing. Then eventually delete and come back 'as someone else' (see above) and do the same things again, often block-evading in the process.

Longer version below (I'm aware that some of my screencaps don't prove it's them, but the pattern of behavior will be very familiar).

1. Send continual asks both anon and not (I'm talking dozens a day), trying to push for interaction. This is usually with either some massively over-powered Mary-Sue or a cutesy child-appearing muse (child vampire, anime-style fox or cat-girl). Many of these asks go into sensual or sexual aspects (unwanted touching etc) even when asked IC and OOC to stop.

The Mary-Sues arrive throwing their weight around and being invincibly powerful. The mun gets angry when the target doesn't just accept this, and starts lashing out OOC. The 'child' muses start off cutesy but then begin flirting with adult-appearing males.

(They also send anons as animals or young children, which isn't bad on its own but is another way they get under people's guard.)

If the target doesn't answer all their (many) asks, or tells them they're not interested/are not RPing at the moment/are busy/didn't receive the asks, they make not-veiled-in-the-least accusations that the target is lying. They absolutely refuse to respect boundaries or take no for an answer. If you refuse to interact they will demand to know why and then not accept the explanation. If you block them, they will come back with another blog.

2. Attack and harass the target's writing partners, especially those receiving the IC attention (mostly romantic) they want for themselves. This runs from oblique 'you shouldn't talk to [name] that way' to 'do you want to date [name]?' through to OOC 'how do you know [blog name]', accusations of 'forcing a ship' and demands that the shipping partner back off. If this doesn't work out they become outright aggressive toward the shipping partner muns, sometimes having their 'muse' act violently toward the other.

Meanwhile, they're busy trying to (guess what?) force a ship on the target muse, often with the 'child-like' muses as mentioned above.

3. Pretend to be someone else. I became aware of this person somewhere around 2018-ish, when they had Shinobu Oshino blog called VampireDonuts. They were pestering at least three people in the historical RP fandoms with unsolicited asks. Another regular alt of theirs is an 'elven princess' going by 'thepureststar', 'ofpurestarlight' or variations on that theme (Emilia Clarke as an FC, usually opens with offering a drink). They brushed past a ship-partner of mine and we didn't think much of it at the time. We were apparently luckier than others had been (callout at the time here, began with the URL 'Coffeeisms', then started with one of the 'starlight' ones). Almost every single thing that's gone down from this person in the last couple of years, they were doing back then. Including block-evasion.

At a point where they were using 'ofpureststarlight' and someone started pointing out harassment from them. Another blog appeared, 'ofcelestialfire', lashing out at the accusers and talking up 'ofpureststarlight' as a wonderful friend. However the behavior, language and certain spelling/grammar errors were exactly the same. I wasn't privy to whatever finally proved they were the same, but they were called out and promptly deactivated both.

In late 2022/early 2023 they hit the Avatar (blue people) fandom and attached themselves to the main antagonist, first with the URL 'lotusreigned' (see the last part of point 1 above!).

After being blocked, they showed up with another Shinobu Oshino account 'loverofdonuts', then after being called out for their harassment again, ran through 'ofbloodissims', 'ofbatissims' and a few others in between. And then ...

As 'ofpureststarlight' they went completely off their tree at someone who was joking with the mun, dropping flirty crack asks that no-one else was taking seriously. That person has since deactivated so most the evidence is lost, but here are a few examples.

Around this same time they were hitting the DBZ fandom, and mid-2023 Spiderverse. Again, whenever blocked they would come back with a new blog and follow the same people who had just blocked them. Some of this is in the callout linked above.

Fast forward to last year, when they were being called out on this URL ...

Ironically they only arrived on this URL because they'd been called out for harassment on the original ('lotusreigned', followed by 'purplelightningwaves' and a few others).

It's also around this point that the callout linked at the top of this post comes in.

So, yeah ... I kinda lost my point of what I was going for here, but when warnings go out about this person we are not just being bitches to some poor soul. This person is bad news, has been for years, and continues to be.

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They're back. The weird ass anons have started again.

'I dare you to kiss [name]' seems to be a big one.

Also predicting the next blog is going to be some sort of Asian warrior or lord character.

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Well, I was wrong about the 'Asian' thing XD!

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Hello @wolfissims

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They're back. The weird ass anons have started again.

'I dare you to kiss [name]' seems to be a big one.

Also predicting the next blog is going to be some sort of Asian warrior or lord character.

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New blog shows up, they follow someone and suddenly that person's ship partner is harassed off their blog by hate anons, bitching about that muse being too sexual.

And then the new blog's muse flirts with the first muse.

DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR, FOLKS?

(Edit - it was @blooddonuts.)

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Oh for goodness sake. Back on the Shinobu 'vampiredonuts'/batissims/loverofdonuts/etc etc thing again?

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Aaaand they're back.

Don't have a URL on them yet, but the DBZ anons (to someone who has blocked them at least twice previously) have started again.