the kind of partners the signs want sexually
Sensual Lovers Prioritize Connection (Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)
Core Belief: “I don’t care about sexual gymnastics as much as I care about my partner being present and emotionally available.”
Key characteristics: Sensual lovers use sex as a way to feel connected to their partners. They’re flexible, kind and generous in the sack, so long as they can feel their partner’s presence. If they’re feeling unloved or disconnected, you can forget about getting into their pants.
Erotic Lovers Need to Feel the Heat (Aries, Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius)
Core Belief: “Sex is only good if it’s passionate and intense.”
Key characteristics: Erotic lovers want Titanic-style hand-against-the-steamy-window intensity during sex. Sometimes it can be hard for them to recognize that there are other ways of having sex. Erotic types can have bunny-rabbit like libidos, but they tend to prefer quality over quantity. They may believe that sex is the most important part of a romantic relationship.
Entitled Lovers Want What They Want (Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius)
Core belief: “I deserve to get what I want in the bedroom.”
Key characteristics: Entitled types place a lot of value on their own desires and may not understand the notion of compromise. At times, they believe that their desires are more important than the desires of their partners, and they can be pushy or demanding when they don’t get what they want.
Addictive Lovers Have a Hard Time Saying “No” (Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, Cancer, Pisces, Libra)
Core belief: “I can’t resist any opportunity to have sex.”
Key characteristics: Addictive types can find it hard to turn down sexual advances or opportunities, even if they’re in a monogamous relationship. They can get fixated on the allure of a new sexual partner (but let’s face it, who doesn’t?) They tend to be sensitive to rejection.
Reactive Lovers Put Their Partner First (Libra, Pisces, Cancer, Virgo)
Core belief: “Pleasing my partner is what gets me hot under the collar.”
Key characteristics: Reactive types get off on making their partners the center of attention. In this category into two sub-types: those that genuinely enjoy making sex all about their partner, and those that self-sacrifice their own pleasure as a means to keep their partner satisfied. There’s a big difference!
Stressed Lovers Avoid Sex (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo)
Core belief: “I want sex, but I steer clear because I worry I can’t please my partner.”
Key characteristics: Most people develop Stressed libido types in reaction to a particularly difficult period in their life or relationship. Things may have been fine before, but somewhere along the line they lost their confidence in their sexual abilities and no longer know what they want. Stressed libido types can feel an enormous amount of performance pressure and anxiety. The old “picture your audience naked” trick doesn’t work here. Some Stressed types feel anxious if their partner tries to initiate any sort of sexual contact.
Detached Lovers Are Reacting to Stress (Virgo, Aquarius)
Core belief: “I’d rather be masturbating.”
Key characteristics: The Detached personality tends to be more temporary than any of the other personalities. Detached types feel sexual desire but just aren’t interested in partnered sex. Their lack of interest is usually a reaction to life or relationship stress, which causes the person to pull away from their partner. Did you cheat on your partner? Yeah, they’re probably not going to be so interested in sex with you for a while.
Compulsive Partners Are All About the Details (Aquarius, Libra, Virgo, Pisces)
Core belief: “I need to have [fill in the blank] in order to get turned on.”
Key characteristics: Compulsive types have specific fetishes and fantasies that they need in order to feel desire. Some Compulsive types like bringing their partners in on the fantasy (having them wear those sky-high heels), while others like to go it alone (chilling with said heels alone). (x)
aries is an entitled lover who wants a reactive/erotic lover
taurus is a stressed lover who wants a sensual lover
gemini is an addictive lover who wants a compulsive/entitled lover
cancer is an addictive/sensual lover who wants a sensual/erotic lover
leo is an entitled lover who wants a reactive lover
virgo is a stressed/reactive lover who wants a compulsive lover
libra is a reactive/compulsive lover who wants an entitled lover
scorpio is an entitled/erotic lover who wants an erotic/sensual lover
sagittarius is an addictive lover who wants a reactive lover
capricorn is an entitled/detached lover who wants an erotic/reactive lover
aquarius is a detached/compulsive lover who wants an erotic/compulsive lover
pisces is an compulsive/addictive lover who wants a sensual lover
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