Since we (as a club) approved of his intention (for the position it is needed from the person's mother club) we had made very clear that the authorities change would not be made in our city
This was decided because we are fewer people every year and he is not responsible enough to organize everything alone, has never been the backbone of any kind of operation and always relies on others to make even the simplest of tasks for him. We are talking about finding a place for everyone coming to sleep, arrange foods, places for reunions and talks, getting transport secured, getting authorizations from the municipality if necessary (it is) getting health insurance for everyone in the event, managing canvas to pass on information to the district (he never has done a single presentation, only gives an idea and begs his sister to do it) and an innumerable amount of things I am not writing here but you get the gist.
This is supposed to take place in july of this year, and today we are on the 30th of may. A few weeks ago I found out that, on the only reunion of this year that I couldn't attend, he talked about the event and how he has everything organized (he doesn't, I checked) and by reglament we had to do it in our city. It is on the reglament, but again 3 out of 5 members are against it. Also, another city from our district wanted to do it, and they are really prepared for it they do events and galas all the time!
The past rdr, also my friend, also one of the people he has offended and is really reactive and had swore to not do anything for him again, defended him on that reunion saying that she understands where he is coming from.
They have even made a group for organization, where his sister and the past rdr are the coordinators of the event, and past members are coming to help on the days necessary for it. Is it wrong that it hurts? They didn't even tell us and decided to do things behind our backs.
The last time he made a fool of me, when he made me work and took the credit, treated me as an asset while acting as a friend, I promised myself I would not be the one to do things for him. I will not move a single finger for this event to work, and will only dedicate time to have the best disguise on that disgusting, rotten party night. I may not stop it from happening but I sure as hell will not be a part of it.
Last week, an older woman who is a friend, part of the club now organizing the event and may or may not hate his guts more than anyone, has given me the opportunity to participate in another party in November. We chatted about an idea, I asked some questions, gave my opinion and she went "I had not thought about that! You should give the idea and bring it up! Or better yet, I am in charge so don't tell anyone until we are close to those days, we'll do it in secret just like them"
I plan on doing just that, and do everything I can get my hands on, talk to people, assist her (she is blind) get some contacts, the works. Impress the people he so badly wants to get noticed by. The last time something like this happened he was positively seething and jealous.
So yeah, I'm going to be petty and somewhat vengeful, but I am actually interested in being part of that. Also, there is a fat chance him or none of my friends care about me doing it, and in the worst case scenario he gets pissy about being left out, so no hurt done.
This is also to work through my own pissy feelings while doing some charity , which I reckon is not that bad. We'll even get some polio vaccines for donations out of it so even better.
They can make that stupid change of authorities where I will be either at work or getting wasted and maybe shagging someone. I'll do my thing and not invite anyone and work through my jealousy and helplessness and whatnots.
Anyways , if you read through all this... Damn you're curious lol. Wish me luck!