Spread A Little Love

R | They/Them | 27 | Soft Dom/Vers LGBTQ+ & 18+

[spaceboytoy]

Hello bisexual community

[spaceboytoy]

Begin killing

[tartrazeen]

[unspeakablearchives]

(Source: Sen the donkey)

[nanadouken]

grabbable

( bsky link )

[ace-trainer-alice]

I'd love to respect you as a human being, however I saw you squirm a little earlier and all I've been thinking about since is how to make you squirm even more.

[pleasantpanties]

Pegging, but they’re a power bottom

[sadocanine]

there's literally nothing sexier than directness and confidence which is awful news for those of us scared our desire is poison unless directly invited

[venndaai]

people are so weird about cnc and I always just want to look them in the eyes and say “you are getting mad at people for playing pretend. you are getting mad at people for saying ‘raaar! I’m gonna getcha!’ you are not a serious person.”

[venndaai]

so much ink and tears have been spilled theorizing that rape kink is about trauma and social anxieties and power fantasies and sure maybe. but I think we’re just mammals who like pretend danger in our play just like every other mammal ever. because we have evolved to find that fun. and the only difference between play-wrestling in bed and pulling out the fuzzy handcuffs is commitment to the bit

[aktionist]

Does anyone want to be friends and/or enemies

[sapphicides]

everybody loves a butch who manhandles their femme, but have we considered femmes who manhandle their butch? femmes who pull their butch in by their belt loops or their carabiners. femmes who grab their butch by the collar of their shirt when they want to steal a kiss. femmes who always have their hands on their butch’s hips or shoulders or biceps, tugging at them every which way. femmes who push their butch up against the wall of their bedroom and give them sloppy kisses on the lips, neck, and anywhere else they please because their butch knows that they can toss around them like a ragdoll if they wanted. femmes who manhandle >>

[missmisdemeanor]

i feel like almost nobody looks at characters they like and goes "that guy has a small dick." but you should. you should do it

[synthfagz]

reblog to bonk prev with yr forehead like a cat

[ruhaniya]

being obsessed with your partner is so necessary for a healthy relationship. i can’t believe ya’ll made that corny. ego is insane.

[marshemillow]

how the heck porn addiction is not real

Because scientists have studied it and they've found insufficient evidence to prove that it's real. It's really quite simple.

[the-consistent-anti]

There are literally scientists who went into these studies genuinely believing in porn addiction who were eager to study it and its effects who came out no longer believing in it. Why? Because they're good scientists who changed their minds in the face of new evidence.

The key point in studies like this is that they always expect porn-related problems to go up as porn use goes up, and you would expect that because that's how every addiction works from gambling to cigarettes to alcohol to crack cocaine, but what they actually find is that the people with the most distress over their porn use is actually related to how religious they are, not how much porn they're watching. This is significant, because it means people who identify as "porn addicts" are not actually watching more porn than the average person; They just feel worse about it because they think they shouldn't be watching it AT ALL.

I really can't stress this point enough; Are there people whose lives are badly impacted by watching 22 hours of porn a day? Sure, they do exist and they have my sympathy, but the majority of cases of "porn addiction" are completely religiously motivated and have nothing to do with how much porn people are actually watching.

The key takeaway here is that shaming people for their sexuality is harmful. It's bad for people's mental health to make them feel shame over something they have no control over, like how horny they can get. It's wrong to force people to suppress their emotions and make them feel guilty for not harming anyone. As Drew of Genetically Modified Skeptic once said; You can't shame someone out of feeling horny any more than you can shame someone out of feeling hungry.

Christianity often does this as a form of control by selling you the sickness and the cure; We are created sick and commanded to be well.

[stephaniepriscillart]

Heartcuff series 💗💋

[growlingven]

Ooooo you’re so tired, you wanna take a nap in my lap. You feel so safe and warm in my arms. You’re so weak and your brain is so slow and you can’t do anything. You think I’m so warm and comfortable. You trust me to take care of you

[chocoramii]

dude ur interrupting on the floor time with ur beautiful face STOP

[goodboynoises]

I want to eat a girl out until she cums on my face and then look up and thank her for allowing me to please her.