Please Fuck Me Like This

[onceuponsirsstarrynight]

As a dominant

I want to listen to you beg me to let you cum, just so I can laugh at you and tell you how pathetic you are. So that I can edge your cunt till it soaks the sheets and then, when you’ve finally had enough, I want to rip the orgasm away one last time, bend down and growl into your ear, “guess you’ll have to wait till next week, bitch.”

I want to do it just so I can see a tear form at the corner of your eye as you whimper and plead and beg for the release I’ve denied you for the past four hours. And then I want to grab you by the throat and slap you across the face for being such a whiny cunt.

[mochachip403]

@masterjeffposts MASTER💜

[lildarling75]

😍😍

[submissiveheart-deactivated2017]

🖤

[nicolemcneil-deactivated2017062]

I’m dripping

[kittencuntsm]

🙈🙊

[virgomulatto-deactivated2018032]

i crave this so badly..

[xdustnbonesx]

Yes, please.

[pleasefuckmelikethis]

Please?

In a firm, cold voice, tell me to strip for you, then order me to get on my knees and worship your cock. Give specific instructions about how I should touch you and what you want. Gradually become rougher and rougher, until you’ve ordered me to put my hands behind my back and you’re holding my head down, gagging me, and fucking my mouth, thrusting hard and fast until you pull out and cum on my face. Call me a cumslut. Don’t let me wipe it off. 

Make me crawl to the room, spanking me as I go, and tell me to get on my back in the bed and spread for you. Blindfold me, restrain my legs and arms so I can’t escape, put a plug in my ass, and let me know that tonight I can’t cum until you allow it. Remind me that orgasms are a gift, that you control them, that my ability to cum is at your discretion and for your personal excitement. Touch me slowly, so slowly, everywhere but my nipples and clit so I whimper and buck and drip from the anticipation. Then do touch my nipples and clit, increasing the pressure until you’re alternating licks and caresses with pinching and slapping. Use the magic wand to edge me until I beg you for permission to cum. Slap my pussy and bite my nipples viciously every time I cum without permission, and when you do finally give permission, force me to cum over and over until I beg you to let me stop. Don’t, but do thrust roughly inside me and feel how I clench and soak your cock while I cum against my will.

When I’m nearing incoherence, untie me, turn me onto my hands and knees, and thrust long and hard and slow while you simultaneously fuck my ass with the plug. Ask me whose whore I am and whose holes these are. Lube your cock, tell me that you’re going to put it in my ass, and tell me that it’s my job to fuck you now. Watch while I work my ass onto your cock, and tell me what a whore I am to let you fuck all my holes. Make sure to tell me that I’m such a desperate slut that I’m doing the ass fucking myself. Wrap my hair around your fist and grab my shoulder so I can’t pull back out and when you’re all the way in, thrust, hard, to make sure that I feel every inch of you. Stop there and spank me until my ass turns bright red and I’m shaking. Then release me and tell me to pick up the pace – tonight, if I want to be a good slut, I need to make you cum again.

[stubbornlittlesub-deactivated20]

[the-pleasure-of-unpleasure-deac]

"No"

As a submissive, I need to hear the word “no”, sometimes. Even if it’s something I really want, even if I’m disappointed in that moment, with his answer, I NEED to hear it. I need to know that he knows best, that I’m not in control. If he told me “yes” everytime I asked for something, then what would be the point in asking, why wouldn’t I just make my own decisions, at that point?

[im-his-whore]

I wasn’t horny this morning. I didn’t want to have sex. I wasn’t at all interested. This is rare.

He approached me in the kitchen, pushed me to my knees, fucked my face for a bit, then pulled me by my hair to my feet, pushed me over the counter, kicked my legs apart, and fucked me until he came. It took no more than 10 minutes.

I didn’t complain, refuse, or ask to stop. I opened my mouth, spread my legs, and gave him my holes to use until he was done. Now I’m a wet, horny, fucking mess thinking about how he fucked me even though I wasn’t interested. I’m remembering how he used me as he wanted for as long as he wanted then went back to watching tv. I want to be back there and since I can’t be I want my hand between my legs, while I think about how much I love being treated this way, and remembering how it felt this morning to surrender completely to him - for him….

….but I don’t have permission to play with his pussy. I’m dying of frustration right now.

[thediscreetdominant-deactivated]

Spanking & Humiliation

I’ve recently been asked if I use humiliation in our dynamic, you be the judge as I share a very common scenario for us here.

I often wait until she really needs it, she never realizes it when she does, but I know immediately. Her service declines and her attitude becomes piss poor. I use to call this mood swing “The funk”. Now I just call it disobedience… and disobedience must be punished!

I send toy to the bedroom, her clothes are to be removed and she is to wait naked and exposed for her punishment. After giving her some time to contemplate her actions I will enter the room and inspect her body. I like to feel her ass before it’s swollen and bruised, I also check her for wetness which at this point I won’t generally find… Now to choose an implement, over the past few months I have been putting her over my knee, so tonight I choose a short Lexan paddle. I also grab a plug, some lube, and a ball gag.

I put her naked body over my knee and immediately I can tell she is extra bitchy tonight, her movements are quick and with attitude. I don’t care, for soon I will return her to herself again. So, I rub the paddle over her thick ass, giving her a feel for tonight’s chosen toy of pain… and whack! She gives no response, that’s ok… she will! Ten more swats and a little break, now I remind her what’s mine, I probe her asshole and cunt (she’s still not wet but she will be). I now lube her ass and insert her plug before we continue. Ten more, alternating between cheeks, and I know they weren’t hard enough. Autopilot kicks in and again ten more much harder swats are administered… She makes a few noises, often thirty is enough to break her, but not tonight. For a second I get mad but then I realize, tonight she’s going to fight this.

My anger quickly turns to enthusiasm as she has now just subconsciously invited me to beat her ass more than usual. At forty spankings I start to recognize my girl again, but she hasn’t broken… fifty now very hard spankings and she’s crying. I hold her across my lap as she desperately squirms to keep her beaten red ass away but this only earns her ten more. Her crying has turned to sobbing and I know she has broken. At this point I ask her if she has had enough to which she pleads “Yes Daddy”, I again check her pussy and do find it dripping! I won’t lie, this makes my cock rock hard, and I love seeing her submission return by my hand. I make her ask me for ten more spankings… I won’t use the gag tonight but warn her if she gets any louder it may be necessary. She understands and takes the final spankings making seventy total. She is mine again!

Now, I need her to prove it… and she knows it. I command her to her knees and unzip my pants. Eagerly she takes my cock, still crying but now needing it again unlike just a few minutes before. I fuck her throat as the tears continue to roll down her face. I like to reach down and grab a swollen ass cheek as I occasionally let her break for air. Oh yeah, both her cunt and mouth are drooling, while one runs down her leg I use my cock to smear the other all over her face. The gagging sound reminds both of us she is my fucktoy and I get off watching her cry while choking on my dick… So tonight I decide to let her cum.

Often I’ll just finish down her throat, but tonight she took even more and that makes me truly proud. With a fist of her hair already in one hand I pull out of her mouth and stroke my cock with the other. Her training kicks in and instinctively she knows to suck my balls. She looks up at me waiting, her mouth open and pierced tongue still pleasing. It won’t be long now, I see her eyes looking for approval as just then I unload on her face. I have always shot a larger load, and I love to cover her face, her hair, eyes, mouth, etc… toy makes a beautiful dripping mess!

Cum covered and degraded, I lift her from her knees, mine to do with as I please. With a hand around her neck and the other on her clit, I start to rub her vigorously. She has known all along her body belongs to me but now she must beg if she is to receive a reward, and beg she does! “Please Daddy may I cum” again “Please Daddy, I will be your good girl”… “Please!”… and with one command “Cum for me!” She soaks my hand as I feel her body go limp in my arms… I see that look in her eyes! I am proud of her and she knows she’s mine.

Toy is never more obedient or submissive than after a good spanking, she won’t stray from my side tonight or anytime soon. Next time she knows I’ll use the cane… I do love the beautiful marks!

The Discreet Dominant

[submissivefeminist]

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[onceuponsirsstarrynight]

What exactly is the importance of using silicone based lubricant for anal play?

Thanks for the GREAT Ask, @fuck-my-s0ul

The importance of using silicone based lubricant for anal play is that water based lubricants are absorbed directly through the lining of the anus. That means that shortly after you apply it, the effect is quickly diminished. And if you care about the comfort of your partner (or yourself!), that should matter to you.

Silicone lubricants have the benefit of not drying, and maintaining their viscosity over a long period of time, meaning that you can both enjoy a fantastic, comfortable anal experience for the longest possible period of time. 

It’s also great for use in the shower since it’s not water-soluble. 

When researching which lube to buy, look for ones that list their first (and ideally, only) ingredients as dimethicone, dimethiconol, and cyclopentasiloxane. 

My best recommendation is probably UberLube, that’s the best stuff on the market IMO. It’s a little pricer, but it’s worth it.

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[doyoutakelessons-deactivated201]

This will definitely be useful!

[lasciviousdreams-deactivated201]

Excellent resource list!

[vaginaandmagirl-deactivated2017]

Always a reblog - an amazing resource we relied on in the beginning!

[imma-pretty-princess-deactivate]

THANK YOU OHMYGOD

[theblackomen-deactivated2020012]

Bam, everyone following me should bookmark and share this!!

[maleledmarriage]

Reading list for beginners and experts alike

[ifitpleasuresme-deactivated2018]

I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

All that and the fucker never even gave me a single orgasm.

[just-an-irish-rose-deactivated2]

Too important not to reblog

[kthmistythoughts]

😳

[asubmissiveview]

I am so sorry for what you experienced @ifitpleasuresme. Thank you for sharing this wake-up call.

[instructor144]

Signal boost. If you go charging into a scene thinking you can act like they act in those gonzo BDSM porn loops, you’re a fool. Always keep the Safe in Safe, Sane, and Consensual. If you are not absolutely sure of what you’re doing in a scene, don’t fucking do it.

[kleinliefmeisje]

[emotionalsuperglue]

Things not to say to your Dominant. #1

*If He/She blindfolds you, or gives you anything to wear on your body* "Master has given Dobby a clothing, DOBBY IS FREE"

[submissivedreamer-deactivated20]

Trying it.

[submissivefeminist]

Something tells me my house will lose points for this one, but I’m still going to use it.

[pleasefuckmelikethis]

: P

[tarahchamblerarchive]

[pleasefuckmelikethis]

My love for all things Buffy will never fade.

[pleasefuckmelikethis]

Here’s how I fantasize about you fucking me

I’m naked, on my back. Blindfolded. Legs apart. Arms over my head.

Stroke me softly up and down my labia, up and down my hips and inner thighs. Around my clit, but never on it. Blow on it, but don’t touch.

Run your fingers across my stomach and under the curve of my breasts – softly, slowly. Graze my nipples.

Explore me this way until you see me start to drip.

Start licking – still softly. Lightly lick around my nipples, and flick your tongue across them. Lightly lick my labia, and circle my clit. Kiss me and whisper dirty things. Tell me what you’re doing, tell me what you want to do, tell me what you plan to do. Call me dirty. Say I’m your slut. And say it in Spanish, so I don’t quite understand and am left guessing. Intersperse this with the light touching.

Be patient enough and this will make me whimper.

When I do, fuck me with your fingers while you lick me, while you pinch my clit, while you pull my nipples, while put your full weight on me and kiss me aggressively.  When I start to come, pull back. Start over from the top with just touching and work your way until your fingers are inside me again.

Wait until I’m begging to come. Pull out the lube and coax the large plug into my ass while you edge me – then use the Magic Wand to make me cum until I’m begging to stop.

Don’t stop. Do keep using the Magic Wand while you turn me over and spank me until I’m not sure whether I’m crying, literally crying, from cumming too much or from how much the spanking hurts.

When your hand hurts or your arm gets tired, put me on my knees, grab my hair, tell me to open wide, and let that be my reminder that you plan to use all of me tonight. Shove yourself down my throat until I gag and wonder how long I can hold my breath – then pull out just long enough for me to breathe deeply a few times and repeat. Fuck my face every way you can – slowly, quickly, violently, softly. Make me worship your cock. Make me your whore.

Then push me on my back and make me moan from impact when you enter me. Hold my legs over your shoulders while you take me deep and hard at that point where I’m almost in pain, except that it feels so good. Let me come, or not – but don’t come yourself. If you worry you will, then stop, order me to present myself ass-up, and take in the view of my dripping pussy and my plugged ass.

All of this is yours. Tell me that, in Spanish, while you walk around, while you land smacks on my ass, or pull my hair, or force your cock in my mouth again, or shove my face into the mattress. While you admire and enjoy.

When you’re ready, lube up to take me from behind. First, fuck me while you hold the Magic Wand on my clit. Then hand me the Magic Wand to use and fuck me while you work the plug in and out – slowly at first, but in rhythm with your strokes so you’re eventually fucking my ass with the plug just as fast as you’re fucking my pussy with your cock.

 At this point, with a little more lube, you’re ready to fill my ass with your cock.  I might be uncomfortable – I always am, a little – but you don’t care and you tell me that. Remind me softly in Spanish that this is why I’m here, that this is what I agreed to.  Instead of stopping, tell me how dirty I am while you force yourself in slowly, in and out with just the head at first, but pushing more and more until your balls hit my cunt.  Hold there and force me come with the Magic Wand while I take in the sensation of being stuffed. Enjoy what it feels like when my cumming means I clench around you. Then add some more lube, push my head into the mattress, and ride me hard until you come, too.

Unf.

If you ever wonder what I think about when I’m reading tumblr, well, wonder no more….

[banielgurganus]

[domwithpen-deactivated20140601]

Let's play a game

Where you do exactly as you’re told and I spank your ass anyway

[pleasefuckmelikethis]

Sounds familiar : P

[saltwaterandroses]

"You know how people buy drinks for girls in bars? Why can’t people do that in book stores? Like if I’m looking at a novel in Barnes and Noble and some person walks up to me and strikes up a conversation and offers to buy the book for me there is a lot better chance of that working out in their favor"

[valensae-deactivated20131107]

OMG yes.

[gentledom]

A wonderful alternative. Go for it, guys!

[pleasefuckmelikethis]

This would absolutely have worked on me when I was single. Every time.