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Me: A summary
Therapists are justā¦. Common sense filters
Me: yeah so I just donāt have the energy to get up and make myself a sandwich or wait for something to cook so I just. Donāt
Her: why donāt you just eat the sandwich components without putting them together
Me:
Her: you can just eat a handful of cheese and some sandwich meat. You donāt have to make a sandwich.
Me:
Me: what
Therapists finding loopholes for mental illness things is one of my favorite things about dealing with mental illness because it really helps me understand that just because a reaction is Common doesnāt mean itās Right. Does doing dishes stress you out a lot? Buy paper plates. Do your obsessive thoughts make you worry about leaving your curling iron on so you drive home from work to check? Just put the curling iron in your purse and bring it to work with you while we work on tackling where this worry comes from. Symptom management doesnāt have to look like drudgery.
i used to go days without showering because seeing my body was so upsetting that i would end up spiraling and then i realized i could simply turn the lights out. it took some getting used to but iāve been showering with the lights off for years and itās now one of my favorite parts of my day.
do whatever you want nothing is real and thereās no need to inflict unnecessary suffering on yourself just to try to seem ānormalā
I love this post
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These kinds of loopholes make life so. Much. Better.
One of my favorite stories is this lady had extremely bad OCD. Every day sheād be late to work because she was convinced that her hair dryer was going to burn down the house so would always have to turn around and check it. Multiple times a day even. A bunch of doctors tied to āfixā her of that fear, until one day she got a doctor that suggested she bring the hair dryer with her. Other doctors were annoyed, saying that wasnāt a the correct way to help, but she gave it a go. When she had that fear, sheād look over and see the hair dryer unplugged in the seat next to her and was able to carry on. I think itās such a perfect example of actually helping someone instead of forcing them into a neurotypical standard.
That story helped me stop repeatedly checking if my front door was locked. Instead of checking that the door was locked over and over I would check my security system app. If itās on it will alert me if the front door opens.
āā¦actually helping someone instead of forcing them into a neurotypical standardā should be added to the Hippocratic Oath.
Started reading about the door and I thought they were gonna say they took the door with them
The Weasleyās are a ridiculously powerful family. Let me explain.
Arthur is the Head of an ancient House and also a Ministry department where he is pretty much unquestioned. (Bc the purists are ignoring him. Likely because they cannot actually, politically, magically, nor physically remove him if he does not wish to go.) He is a damn genius for enchantments and charms, constantly undoing the spellwork of others as his day job. And his hobbies involve placing incredibly complex magic on incredibly complex muggle contraptions. He learned to charm the Ford Angela without the help of muggles. I think he may have been on the verge of an epiphany with his collection of batteries. Storing energy? To make up for the lack of an ability to conduct magic at a whim? Genius. The man meets a kid raised as a muggle and immediately asks him to clarify the purpose of an item he didnāt understand. He never dismisses children as not smart. And thatās just the father, who has served in two domestic wars and survived.
Molly is an unsung war hero herself. Which is buried by the fandom. She herself wields charms and enchantments like a proper story time witch. Disneyās version of Merlin had less skill, honestly. She survived two wars and seven pregnancies. She has, seemingly, lost her entire family. Only her brothers are mentioned and thatās because they themselves died taking out death eaters. She is, to our knowledge, the only surviving Prewitt. Molly has fed an underground resistance movement. She has clothed and cared for them and provided a solid sense of stability. And thatās just the second war, where she was constantly reminded of all she lost in the first one. God only knows how much she fought and helped in the first war. Judging by how fucking deadly she was in the last battle and how capable she is before and how capable her children were, Iām willing to be she wrecked shop every time she entered the scene.
Bill is a prodigy of ward magic, which I logically assume is connected to charms and enchantments. Heās so good that goblins, who have been shown to be reclusive and secretive at best, trust him to go into ancient tombs and bust them open without dying. Then he survives a werewolf attack with only a few side effects and scars. Heās probably also immune to veela charms? Iād believe it.
Charlie literally raises and cares after dragons. _DRAGONS_ The big ancient bitey fucks that fairy tales and table top games are made of. What little heās shown, heās incredibly competent and confident and thatās all the shit I expect of a man that became a dragon veterinarian.
Percy is a book smart tactical genius. Heās got some character flaws that are enhanced by Harryās perspective, but heās every bit his parentsā son and it shows in the end.
The twins are fucking lethal. Like, had they not been raised by Molly and Arthur, they would have been off the charts in terms of sheer damage. They are, individually, more Slytherin than Harry ever could have been. They were making weapons and tools for the resistance while they were still in school. You canāt tell me that the boys named after their heroic uncles didnāt have that in the back of their minds. āIf everything goes to shit like it did back then, weāll be ready.ā Ready with tools for escape, magic to entangle and distract, spy gear the likes of which James Bond would die for.
Ron. Brave, intelligent, stalwart, headstrong Ronald. The first friend Harry ever had and it wasnāt because of timing or being in the right place or even Harry. Ron saw a kid worse off than him, lost and scrawny, and was like āSomeone needs to help him.ā And he fucking did. He, like every brother before him, found his calling. Fourth year showed us exactly what he could have been doing instead of risking his life all the time. He could have been a bro with Seamus and Dean and just been a background character. He was not required to risk his life time after time. He has a family that he was loyal to, even when they made him feel like he wasnāt enough. But he actively chose to be loyal to Harry, again and again. No matter the cost. And every time he left, he came back further convinced that being beside Harry was the right and good thing. But even outside of Harry, heās so fucking smart. Unmotivated sometimes. Frank to the point of offense other times. But intelligent. It wasnāt just chess or playing Keeper. He made damn good grades and became a prefect and it wasnāt just for shits and giggles. He was damn good.
And Ginny. The best of the fucking best. Cream of the crop. The Phoenix herself. Sneakier than the twins, sharper than Percy, bold face braver than Charlie or Ron, more magically gifted than Bill, and confident in herself in all that she did. A resistance fighter before she even left school. A friend to the lost just like Ron, but even less of an occasional asshole. We didnāt deserve her, but no one (except maybe Luna) ever could.
I donāt understand how people keep understating the Weasleyās. They are so well connected through the Order. Theyāre an entire family of warriors. A family of knights. Every last one of them is a one person army on their own, but theyāre so fucking united and loyal that it should terrify any that dare oppose them.
for those of you struggling with trying to stop unhealthy coping mechanisms, please know this: having frequent urges to use the mechanism is normal when you are trying to recover.
youāre not weak. you donāt lack impulse control. youāre just withdrawling, and recovering, and itās hard. donāt beat yourself up for having urges because thatās what recovery is about - feeling those urges and being able to tell them no.
āYour lovely heart is what makes you shine so brightly.ā
ā s.s. (stephenstilwell)
but it only works if 4 people are having sex lol
how many hands you got
two? donāt see how thatās relevant
allow me illustrate you
thatās still four people
i truly canāt make this any clearer
will smith isnāt gay. he has a wife and three beautiful, talented children
donāt know what youāre on about. will smith and slightly wider blue will smith have been married for years. theyāre a hollywood love story
I canāt believe this post predicted the live action Aladdin genie
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I donāt know who needs to hear this but you werenāt meant to be fucking skinny and thatās okay.
Being āfitā looks different on everybody.
Some body types will never ever be āskinnyā or āthinā unless theyāre malnourished. That is the fucking hill Iām willing to die on.
All these quotes that go like āFind someone who willā¦ā
No.
Be someone who willā¦
Have the patience to deal with your mess at 3 am
Understand your Monday morning rant.
Be someone whoĀ Ā
Smiles at your soically awkward actions and shakes it off
Someone who is your friend.
Be that person.
Donāt seek such people out.
Grow into that person
It may be just as hard as finding such a personĀ
But at least this will be lasting and way more satisfyingĀ
āāScars, scars. She was coming to have so many. She wondered if it was wrong to be proud of them.āā
ā (via purplebuddhaquotes)
āClose some doors. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they no longer lead somewhere.ā
ā Paulo Coelho (via purplebuddhaquotes)
when i was a teenager it felt very revolutionary to be cruel to myself. like some kind of slow passive protest against how much everything hurt. i starved myself of sleep and food and tenderness because it felt right. it felt sharp and angry and radical and i wanted to be those things. adulthood is the realisation that the world is already working to cut into you well before you learn how to do it yourself. caring for yourself and others is the real protest
If you see me looking zoned out itās cuz im having a therapy session with myself in my head
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If you find yourself thinking lately,Ā āI canāt live like this anymore,ā it means you need to change your life sweet soul, not end it. Donāt live like that anymore. Change your thoughts, your focus, your behaviour. If youāre willing to propel yourself into the unknown, give yourself the chance to do so while youāre still here. Rediscover a new life for yourself. Rediscover yourself. Rediscover what it means to be alive.Ā
Iām ok. Iām gonna be ok. Iām gonna live a beautiful life and Iāll get to know beautiful people. I will create things of beauty and be surrounded by flowers. And Iāll love myself, and Iāll be soft, Iāll be kind. And Iāll be ok.