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@positive-period
Say NO to anon hates
Because Anon Hates can destroy, even kill people. There are too many already lately.
Seriously, not everybody can just laugh anon hates off and post jokes about them. I will never understand how people can be so cruel, even when they can hide behind an anon tag.
Condoms are only 98% effective when used correctly.
Sugar can cause infections in the vagina. This means things like chocolate sauce, honey, and lubricants with glycerin can be harmful.
Having sex with an intoxicated person is legally rape in most US states, even if the person verbally consents. In the eyes of the law, drugs and alcohol impair your ability to consent to sex.
Unprotected anal sex is the most dangerous sex act when it comes to spreading STIs.
Not everyone can climax from oral sex or even likes oral sex. Don’t assume—ask your partner what they want!
Condoms expire! Check the date on the wrapper. Also, storing them in wallets is not a good idea (see #8)
If someone with a vagina has unprotected anal sex, semen can drip down into the vagina and pose a (slight, but still real) risk for pregnancy.
Do not keep condoms in your wallet. The friction and heat exposure of keeping them there can make them ineffective. Keep them somewhere cool, dry, and out of sunlight.
You should be tested for STIs with each new partner you have. Annual appointments are not enough protection if you have multiple partners in that time.
Having anal sex does not lead to a gaping asshole unless your partner is literally an elephant.
Sex with elephants is illegal. Don’t do that.
Masturbating while wearing a condom can help people with penises get used to wearing them before sex.
Penis size does not define your worth. It is not the be-all, end-all factor for most people.
In fact, lots of people with large penises have trouble having sex without hurting their partner since the average vagina size is 6”-8” when aroused (it’s only 3”-4” when not aroused!).
Your first time will almost definitely not be your best time. That’s okay, I promise.
Herpes and pubic lice can still infect you if a condom is used if testicles come in contact with a vuvla.
Only one out of three people can orgasm from receiving vaginal penetration alone. You’re not broken.
People with penises can orgasm without ejaculating.
The muscles in a vagina can be abnormally tense and cause intense pain when penetrated with a toy, penis, or tampon. This is called vaginismus and treatment for this includes relaxation therapy and using medical rods to help the muscles relax.
The number of sexual partners you have does not define you. This rule applies to all genders.
A diet of lots of dairy and meat can cause ejaculate to taste bad. Fruits that are very sweet (like pineapple) help combat this for some people. However, due to body chemistry, medications, and other factors, it might not always do the trick.
Dental dams make oral sex with someone with a vulva safer. They are thin sheets of latex and can be home-made by cutting the ends off a condom and slitting it lengthwise to make a alternative option if you don’t have access to dental dams.
The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings in it. That’s twice that of a penis! So, go gently until encouraged to do otherwise.
Sex does not have to stop when someone ejaculates. Remove any condoms or clean up any mess, and keep going until everyone is satisfied!
Communication is the number one factor to a better, healthier sex life.
The hymen is not a bone, and does not break. It is a membrane layer that stretches. It can tear, which can lead to pain and bleeding. However, sex for the first time (or ever!) should never hurt. Go slower and focus on foreplay to increase natural lubrication.
Sexuality is fluid for a lot of people. Don’t worry about labels until you’re sure in your sexual and romantic interests. Explore freely and worry about terms later.
Orgasms release hormones that are natural pain-killers. This is why some menstruating people masturbate when they have cramps, because the body naturally reduces pain after an orgasm.
The hormones released also account for why some people cry or get very emotional after an intense orgasm. It’s totally normal.
There are limitless kinks in the world and so long as they are safe and consensual, there is nothing wrong with them.
Medications and mental health disorders can mess with your sex drive. Talk to your doctor if your sex drive has suddenly increased or decreased after starting a medication—there may be alternatives.
There is nothing “un-manly” or “gay” about enjoying anal pay. Most men who try anal enjoy a little sensation in that area. People with penises also have a p-spot (prostate) and can have intense orgasms through anal penetration.
Always use lubrication generously to avoid vaginal or anal tearing.
Urinating after sex can reduce the risk of a UTI in people with vaginas.
Enjoying casual sex does not make you a bad person if you are up-front with your intentions and don’t maliciously seek to hurt others.
Condoms come in multiple sizes! It should never be loose or painfully tight.
Being sex-positive does not mean that everyone needs to enjoy sex. It simply promotes the happiness and sexual exploration (or non-exploration) of others.
Porn is not an educational guide to sex.
Certain positions feel better than others. Switch it up and find out what works for you and your partner(s).
Condoms are more likely to break if you don’t leave a reservoir tip for ejaculate.
Labia are often asymmetrical. Your long/uneven/poofy/dark labia are beautiful and there is nothing wrong with your body.
Up to 80% of people with a vagina can squirt with either g-spot or clitoral stimulation.
Drug store pregnancy tests are just as effective as brand name ones. In some cases, they’re even MORE effective.
Elevating your butt with pillows can make missionary sex easier for those of us with a big tummy or thick thighs.
Plan B does not work on people over a certain weight (160-175lbs).
There are safe alternatives to condoms or oral contraceptives. Talk to your doctor about your options.
Sex toys can open up a whole new world to folks willing to explore.
Orgasms can be highly psychological. Most people can’t climax when they’re upset or distracted.
Birth control can cause people to miss periods or spot in between periods.
Sex doesn’t have to be gentle if you don’t want it to be. There are healthy ways to explore rough sex or BDSM.
xx SF
So, just because I’m sick of this trend of hating on the public education system I learned 40 out of 50 of these in various sex education and health classes, from 7th to 12th grades. The last I saw, #21 was still in question. #45 wasn’t something that could be covered in my sex-ed classes, since Plan B was approved in the US in 1999 and I graduated in 1996. So either sex ed has diminished significantly over the years or people need to start paying attention to what it actually covers.
First off, I just want to point out how lucky you are if you actually learned forty of these things in sex education. Gold star to you for knowing things. However, I’m curious if you’re including a college education in that calculation because what I’m talking about is free public education (K-12) that covers sex ed, and not a college-level education since that isn’t available to everyone.
Secondly, I just wanted to let you know that your view-point is horribly, horribly skewed.
These are states that don’t even require sex education.
And these are states that require abstinence-only education.
So, what you’re experiencing is not the norm, for any generation. I graduated high school in 2009 with an interest in sex education. By that time, my high school hadn’t even mentioned the word “clitoris” to its students. I learned about condom use through the advisor of the GSA, since the school’s policy banned doing a condom demonstration in class.
But you know what, it wasn’t all bad for me. We did cover STDs and pregnancy and things of that nature. To contrast, did you know that most states don’t even require its sexual education to be true? Medical accuracy isn’t required in these states:
To sum up, here’s the situation. Either a) you were abnormally blessed with a liberal up-bringing and education system that taught you real things about sexuality, b) you’re jaded and are remembering incorrectly or including college sex ed in with your analysis, or c) you’re lying to protect a shitty educational system for reasons I do not understand.
I was taught literally three out of the fifty facts above in middle/high school sex ed. We were told many things contrary to these facts (especially in terms of sex not affecting your self-worth, what a hymen actually is/does, and that sex shouldn’t be painful), and much of my education specifically avoided the topics mentioned (queer sexuality, anything about oral or anal sex besides the fact that they could spread STDs, anything about orgasms/actually enjoying sex, and we weren’t allowed to talk about masturbation). So it’s great that some people actually had decent sex ed, but that gives you absolutely no right to assume that the US education system doesn’t have a huge sex ed problem.
Can anybody source the one about Plan B not working on anybody over 160lbs? I’ve never heard that and I’ve even read the package and included pamphlet. I’ve heard that being overweight reduces effectiveness but for my height (5’11) 160lbs is pretty slim.
Sure! Here’s Planned Parenthood’s section on this. 175lbs is where it’s not really effective, but it starts losing effectiveness around 160lbs.
xx SF
Time for work. Today is ridiculous. I had my 2 hour art lecture, then my 3 hour chemistry class, now I have work for 2 hours, and then I have to go see a play for the before mentioned art class that doesn't get out until 11pm. I love the theatre, but no play should run that late on a school night. Especially when most of us attending don't live on campus. Sorry for complaining, I know most of you probably have busier days than me. I just need to be a brat every once in a while.
i have a white or sometimes clear discharge almost everyday, ive always thought it was normal because ive had it since puberty, but is this a sign of a yeast infection?
Totally normals. The only times to worry about discharge is if it's lumpy, smelly, or an odd color.
Hi! So periods are the absolute worst so I got a menstrual cup to make it more bearable. I got super excited when I got it, but when I tried to test it out, I couldn't get it in... I have tried so many different times, on my period and not, but I just can't do it. Any tips?
Have you tried putting a little lube around the rim? Water based is preferable. I use the 7 fold, have you looked at some of the awesome folds on YouTube? Because there are a bunch that I had never thought of. Typing "menstrual cup folds" into the search bar on YouTube is definitely a must. Good luck :)
Alright so I thought since I got to work early today that I could delve into the mass of messages (70 or so) that I haven't had time for while I wait for my shift to start. Apparently tumblr mobile has different plans for my day because even though I'm making sure to tap the question I mean to answer it is posting some answers on the wrong questions, and then when I go to edit them it deletes them instead. One of the reasons I haven't been able to get on here much lately (other than school, work, family, and all that other crushingly stressful stuff in my life) is how glitchy the app has been. Ugh.
My period has been super late this month and I am sexually active and I'm freaking out
I suggest taking a pregnancy test as soon as possible. Stressing out can delay a period, so if the test is negative and you still don’t get it you might just be over stressed. Some people can skip a period randomly due to changes in their life like a new diet, exercise change, or life event.
Damn I did it again! Mobile hates me today...
How much blood can a period cloth hold? I want to switch from using pads but I'm afraid thati will leak.
Cloth pads are comparable to disposable pads. That means a regular absorbency cloth pad will hold the same amount as a regular absorbency disposable pad. Same with heavy, overnight, etc. If you're worried about leaks you should look for pads with a leakproof layer. A common leakproof material in cloth pads is PUL.
I just answered a question and then realized I was answering the wrong person. Then I panicked and deleted the post… I’m sorry to whoever asked that question… I can’t get it back because tumblrs messaging system is a joke.
Can you get pregnant if you have sex on the last day of your period? Like when nothing's really coming out anymore
It depends on how soon after your period you ovulate, every one has a slightly different schedule. But yes, there are people who have gotten pregnant from sex they had on their period.
Okay but let's do this: Stop calling tampons and pads "feminine products" and just call them "private products" or more specifically "Menstrual products" because not all people who go through the menstrual cycle identify as female and not all females go through a menstrual cycle
Sorry, would you like the meggings version? Tbh this is ridiculous. You don’t have to identify as female to be “feminine” anyway. Get over it
Referring to them as menstrual products isn't a "meggings version," it is literally just calling them what they are instead of unnecessarily gendering them. As in, menstrual products are for people who menstruate. You're absolutely right that you don't have to identify as female to be feminine, but calling menstrual products "feminine" is hurtful to a lot of people.
Okay but let's do this: Stop calling tampons and pads "feminine products" and just call them "private products" or more specifically "Menstrual products" because not all people who go through the menstrual cycle identify as female and not all females go through a menstrual cycle
breasts are not sex organs
sex organs either produce gametes, i.e. eggs and sperm, or are involved in sexual reproduction. breasts do not fit this criteria.
breasts are a secondary sex characteristic which we have because of sexual dimorphism in humans
other secondary sex characteristics include wider hips in women and an adam’s apple in men
breasts are not fucking sex organs
hi, so yesterday I tried putting a tampon in for the first time and it didn't hurt or I couldn't feel it so I asked my friend ( she uses them and gave me it) if its spouse to hurt and she said it is and you're spouse to feel it the first time you use one, did I do it wrong?
Ok I guess one more question tonight won't hurt me because I really want to answer this one right now. You did it perfectly right.It hurts some people because they are nervous and/or do not know how to insert it at the correct depth and angle (also, some people's vaginal canal isn't suited for tampons and some people have past trauma that can cause painful sensations but I'm assuming that isn't the case for your friend since you said they currently use them).If it didn't hurt, that just means you were relaxed and you put it in at the correct depth and angle for your body.
Remember back when I made those rules for myself about only doing 5 questions a night? Well there was 5, so that's it for questions right now. I know my inbox is always bursting with unanswered questions and that it's unfair to all of you how little I get a chance to answer nowadays. The 5 question rule is for my mental wellbeing though, so I'm gonna keep it up.
