Sex Ed Nerd

21 year old Biology major with a passion for sex education.. I advocate for comprehensive LGBTQIAP+ inclusive sex education to be easily available. Please feel free to message me, but understand that I may not be able to answer questions immediately. I usually answer within a week, but if I see something that I deem as urgent I will get to that as soon as I can.

[sexednerd]

So incase yall haven’t noticed, this blog is basically inactive now. I don’t have the time for it anymore. If you have an important question, you can go check out one of the blogs under my “awesome sex ed blogs you should follow”.

[euo]

yall aint funny making fun of people’s bodies 

[moriah-explains-it-all-blog]

Consent can be revoked at any time for any reason. Consent can be revoked at any time for any reason. Consent can be revoked at any time for any reason. Consent can be revoked at any time for any reason. Consent can be revoked at any time for any reason.

[huffpost]

[queenedtruth]

She is so gorgeous

[btrtoday]

[theladydamfino]

THIS SPECIAL IS SO IMPORTANT.

[criticalfumbler]

"do i have to poop or is it just period cramps:" the horror story

[voluptuousbooty-deactivated2015]

one of my personal faves. i won the point lmfao

[akitron]

Hands up if large groups of aggressively loud white boys in your vicinity freak you out

[spyderqueen]

One of the things that bonds women, POC, and LGBTQA+ together: The fear of white men in numbers.

[90shiphopraprnb]

[itssavageb]

Can we get an artist to promote safe sex again like this? 

[rhea-ewing]

This Comic Respects Women with Short Hair on Their Own Beautiful Terms

[sexednerd]

What have you heard about women with short hair? These translations show what’s really going on when strangers and loved ones make negative comments. Follow this comic to the end and you’ll see why positivity beats the oppressive gender norms that mold society’s idea of female beauty.

[animeboston]

[inappropriatelyadorable]

Hey, it’s the “cosplay is not consent” signs I did for Anime Boston a few years back!

Important to remember for the upcoming con season!

[darkmoonperfume]

condomdepot what are some good lubricants to use that are condom friendly and won’t irritate the vagina? Please and thank you.

[condomdepot]

Hey there! Look for lubes that are silicone-based. They’re condom-safe and hypoallergenic. Plus, they feel way, way better and they last way, way longer. Water-based lubes have to add a lot of stuff to them to make them on par with the silky smoothness of silicone-based lubes, and those ingredients aren’t always vagina-friendly.  The only thing you have to worry about with silicone-based lube is your toys, if you use any. Metal, glass, and wood toys are all A-OK to use with silicone-based lube, but if you have toys made of jelly or certain silicone impurities, they sometimes have negative reactions to silicone-based lube. Our friends over at Spicy Gear have the whole 411 on the matter for anyone who’s interested. As someone with super-sensitive skin, I personally prefer Pjur’s Light BodyGlide and Swiss Navy Silicone.

[jessicavalenti]

The upside, of course, is that the very nature of social media has made it easier for women to present a more diverse set of images on what the female form can look like and mean. Selfies, for example - thought by some to be the epitome of frivolity and self-conceit - are now being touted by feminist academics and artists as a way for women to “seize the gaze” and offer a new sense of control to women as subjects rather than objects. When we have the power to create our own images en masse, we have the power to create a new narrative - one that flies in the face of what the mainstream would like us to look and act like.

Social media is protecting men from periods, breast milk and body hair, my latest at the Guardian

[sexetc]

I wanted to try masturbating but whenever I put my fingers in my vagina, I don't really feel anything. I can't find my G-spot and I'm not aroused. Is there like a diagram so I have an idea where to feel?

Hi anon,

Different people masturbate in different ways and find different things pleasurable. Not everyone likes to have fingers inserted into the vagina, and not everyone masturbates in this way but some people do. Some people stimulate the clitoris, which is an organ above the vaginal opening that is comprised of thousands of nerve endings and can feel good when stroked or touched. Some people find the clitoris too sensitive. There’s no one right way to masturbate.

You might want to try just touching and exploring the vulva to see where and how you like to be touched, It can take some time to figure out what you like and what feels good and that’s totally normal and OK.

I hope this helps.

[azzventura-deactivated20160719]

As a guy , it just hit me.

[chubby-bunnies]

good.

[redlipclassicwriteryoulike]

The statistic is 1/5 women now.

[lots-of-unnecessary-rants]

[suiscorner-deactivated20210322]

" Knowing yourself and your body is not "slutty." Masturbating isn’t "slutty." Being prepared with safer sex supplies, sex toys, or lube is not "slutty." In fact, being "slutty" isn’t even a thing; it’s a slur used to bring down women perceived to have "too much" sex, or women who are otherwise "too" confident or knowledgeable in sex. I realize how much it can hurt to have that term hurled at you. I understand the fear of being called a slut. I get it. I totally get it. However, you’ve just got to know in your heart and mind that that word is meaningless. Really, it is. Our society is terrified of women who are comfortable with their sexuality, and it will do anything to bring them down. However, despite what we’ve been taught, there’s no essential morality attached to consensual sex. Really, there’s not. There’s just nothing wrong with knowing about sex, communicating about it, wanting it, and having it consensually with whoever you want. That is unequivocally your right."

This right here, was what was missing from my sex ed.