Disclaimer for people sending stuff to my askbox:
If you're going to bring up a pointless debate (like Sansa vs. Arya or Cat vs. Jon or Elia vs. Lyanna or even Ned vs. Cat, etc) that has been resolved (even if some stans didn't get the memo and keep spamming tags anyway) to vent your anger my blog is not the place to come to. I avoid tags for this very reason.
Of course, that's not including if it's bringing up a new or under-discussed layer in said debates across the fandom - which includes the Sansa fandom, majority of whom I follow.
But otherwise I am bored to death by the whole thing. There's little new that can be said that hasn't already been said. I'm so over the generalisations and projections. I'm a woman of colour from a POC country, a younger sister who grew up more obedient with a wilder elder sister and someone who has issues with both my parents. I have worked hard on myself to get past them as much as I can and I still am learning to reflect on my past and the damage I might have inadvertently caused - whether to forgive myself or to realise I have to make up to someone or work on an unhealthy pattern.
I have my issues with the series and the author himself and I'm fine with discussing that. But keep these repetitive debates out of my askbox as much as possible.













