Parent: yells at and threatens child over a mistake
Child: doesnt want to spend time with them afterwards
Parent:
Parent:*yells at and threatens child over a mistake*
Child:*doesn’t want to admit their mistakes and starts keeping secrets from their parent*
Parent:
parent: *yells at and threatens child over them self-harming*
child: *doesn’t talk to parents about their issues and feels worse*
parent:
Parent: *attributes all their child’s achievements to god and all the mistakes to the child*
Child: *actively avoids academic achievement and becomes an atheist*
Parent:
THAT LAST ONE IS WHY I STOPPED ATTENDING CHURCH AFTER I STARTED THERAPY.
Parent: *uses personal info,told to them in confidence as ammo to make child feel bad*
Child: *never tells the parents about how they feel or their personal insecurities*
Parent:
wow this tea is exceptionally tasty tonight thank you
