The kinkster formerly known as ScienceScribbler

I'm back on tumblr after my previous account was terminated. Happy to be here but not necessarily very active! In a happy and committed relationship with my one and only, @Giggle-byte. In my mid 30s, Midwestern, USA (for now)

[princescribbler]

Me, texting the wifey about $$: "Momma, I think diapees are getting really expensive. Maybe I shouldn't wear full time, or use for a bit."

Momma @giggle-byte : "No. You're my baby and you use your diapees like a good boy."

I'm a very lucky baby

[diaperlover96]

[jay-saun]

I want to take a moment and share a huge thank you from the bottom of our hearts. @daddyslittlesnugglebunny2 and I are completely overwhelmed by the incredible support everyone has shown us. Thanks to your generous donations, we were able to pick up essential items, including a couple of adorable onsies, 4-packs of proper dips, cute socks, new pacifier, big girl undies, Goodnites, and more.

This means so much to @daddyslittlesnugglebunny2, and it's making her feel somewhat more grounded after such a traumatic event. Also, a special thanks to someone who commissioned a custom order to help support us. It means the world to us right now.

We're still taking things one day at a time, trying to organize the chaos, figure out what items are salvageable, and get set up with a temp space. Once we get to a place where we can stop and take a breath, we'll be sure to share more updates and pictures with everyone.

Until then, please know how deeply grateful we are for every single donation, share, and custom order. If you would still like to donate, the GoFundMe link is located at the bottom of this post. This community is amazing

Donate to Help DLSB Rebuild Her Creative Sanctuary, organized by Jay Saun

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[princescribbler]

Good luck recovering and getting back to your normal!

[emily8350]

[princescribbler]

Me, feeling anxious and seeking reassurance: "I'm worried about the dentist. I know it's going to be fine and it's a single filling, but I'm really anxious, momma."

@giggle-byte my incredible switchy mommy-domme princess: "Get locked, in a megamax, with a discrete oversized shirt to hide your poof. We'll keep you distracted and focused on being my good boy. Momma knows what you need."

Me, red-faced: "...I both love and resent that this is helping."

[giggle-byte]

I got some new stickers for when my baby @princescribbler is a good boy! I think they’re super cute and it’s always so fun to make him blushy 🥰

[princescribbler]

Momma makes me very blushy, in the best possible way. After all, she's MOMMA goals! <3

Love you, @giggle-byte . You're my bestest momma princess in the whole world. <3 thanks for keeping the keys... to my heart, and the diaper bag. ;)

[princescribbler]

BEST MOMMA EVER AWARD:

And the winner is????

The amazing @giggle-byte, because she helped me go to the doctor and dentist in one day, still did work, cared for me, soothed and supported me, and makes every day of our kinky lives together beautiful.

I'll never get tired of being yours, momma. I'll never stop marveling at the love and care you give. So... THIS AWARD IS FOR YOU!

[giggle-byte]

Baby boy: (blushing furiously) Momma! You’re mocking me!

Momma: (booping his nose) Baby boy! I don’t mock…I gently humiliate.

[princescribbler]

LUCKIEST

Babyboy

EVER

[princescribbler]

Low-Key Things We Do to Keep Our Dynamic Fun:

Pack stuffies for when we travel or go out! Obviously, babyboy can't sleep without his stuffies, even in a hotel... right?

Bring a diapee bag, even if we don't plan to use it!

Momma tax and butt pats: basically, if we hug, we're gonna grope, pat, and tease the other one. The pullup princess needs to be reminded she can be momma... and still a pullup princess!

Lots of physical closeness. On the couch we drape across one another, when hugging we keep it going a long time, when we get dinner, we regularly feed each other a bite! Just lots of lovey closeness-inducing things, nonstop!

Getting our partner food and water cuz "babies can be so forgetful" and tons of affectionate caregiver stuff. It's nice to be reminded it's "brekky time, sweetheart!" Is very fun and keeps our relationship kinky and cute!

Writing cute pictures and reminders to your partner, everyday. On the fridge, on post it notes, by text! Keep the fun going by showing a lot of daily affection and attention!

Making sure it's called the "potty" and an upset stomach is a "grumbly tummy" and using language that reminds you both... this is an ABDL or CG/L dynamic!

Names: I'm baby prince papi, not just my name. She's momma, or princess... we make sure the right title reinforces the right role!

Cummies apart don't mean much, when your mommy/ daddy/ caregiver partner expects you to THANK THEM and make lots of "cute noises"... suddenly your quick masturbating session feels much more controlled and kinky!

Help your partner pick their clothes! If they wear diapees, even if they change themselves make sure you watch and "help".

When they cross the street, hold their hand and give them praise for being good and holding on tight... REINFORCE the dynamic in little, subtle, private ways and you'll be far, far more invested and happy in the dynamic you build together!

Sharing in passions: my princess loves sports and I couldn't care less, but i'll celebrate her team's victories and be excited, the same way she celebrates and embraces my weird rants about the 1800s British navy, or the intricacies of bird mating habits... whatever fleeting interests we have, we share and get positive feedback on! And EXTRA points if you can tease about them being an excited little baby!

My point is this: 24/7 dynamics aren't all about sex and kink and nonstop sexytime or fetish play. But they can exist with daily reinforcement, reminders, and celebrating your nontraditional dynamics! So have fun, let your kinky self out, and don't forget to be happy, healthy, AUTHENTIC kinky people!

- Scribbler

[princescribbler]

20 KINKY THINGS MOST ABDLs CRAVE MORE THAN OXYGEN

Diaper pats

Forehead kisses

Back rubbies

Frequent infantilization

Bedtime snuggles

After work babying and regression

Morning cuddles

Nini stories

Cute hand holding

Gentle teasing

Cute reminders

Diapee checks/ potty checks

Paci or thumb for suckling

Holding hands to cross the street

Being dressed, instead of choosing yourself

Diapee/ pull up changes... especially extra blushy ones

Stuffies, all the stuffies

Bath or shower time!

Bath/ shower TOYS!

Constant regression!!

And thank you for reading my silly baby thoughts!

What numbers stick out to you? What does NOT apply, or what am I missing? And most importantly... as always, stay happy, stay healthy, and stay kinky!

[princescribbler]

CONVENIENT EXCUSES REASONS TO LET YOUR LITTLE/ ABDL SIDE OUT:

It's a day off, and you need extra help relaxing

Your partner enjoys it, and you just want to let THEM enjoy your little/ ABDL SIDE

It's a weekend, and aren't you SUPPOSED to relax on the weekend?

You know, a diaper might just be super comfy and it's RIGHT there...

It's not "indulging" if it's a core aspect of your personality

You are in the mood for snuggles

You're feeling stressed and want to destress

You're feeling bored and want to feel engaged and excited

You're tingly in JUST THE RIGHT WAY to let your little side out

You want to make your partner/cg/ friend see your cute side!

Your stuffies haven't had enough snuggles and need the extra attention

It's laundry day, so you might need to start wearing that onesie while you wash your other clothes

Same as above but with diapers instead of undies

You are craving "little" foods like chicken nuggets or mac and cheese

Your partner needs a reminder of just how adorably cute you can be

You haven't had an excuse to be little in a while and it just feels fun

You think you're gonna go crazy if you gotta keep pretending to be a full tiny "big boy/ big girl" so it's time for a break

You're excitable and it helps turn you on or increases your enjoyment of said state

Diapers are super soft and cozy to sit on

You had a tough week, why not just get a little less stressed?

Your nap time needs are unmet, and littlespace and nap time go hand in hand

You want a justification, so you're on tumblr or other sites looking at stuff that is related to being abdl and little, so you CLEARLY just need to indulge a little!

Whatever your reason, whatever your excuse, justification, rationale, inciting cause, etc: enjoy your little and ABDL time, because you deserve it!

Stay happy, stay healthy, and stay kinky!

- Scribbler

[princescribbler]

TIMES YOUR RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC REALLY COUNTS

Sometimes, life is easy. There's enough to go around, there's good times for most, and life seems positive. In those good moments, having a CG/l or ABDL dynamic can be fun, cute, and even silly. It's the good on top of the good, the proverbial cherry on the hot fudge sundae of life.

At other times, the world seems to be collapsing. Maybe your personal life isn't working, and you just can't figure out how to make sense of things. Maybe your health is the problem, or finances, or anxiety, work, personal crap, whatever problem you've got, it makes life harder. In those moments, you might even give up on your relationship dynamic(s), thinking that the dynamic isn't serving you, or doesn't make some aspects of life any easier. You think that having a hard time means your relationship dynamic must not matter.

I personally believe that in challenging times, this relationship dynamic is actually more important, more powerful. When you can fall back on systems and rules and interactions that provide stability and reassurance, you no longer rely on executive function, on careful decision making and weighing up every pro and con. Instead, you can turn to your dynamic(s) for comfort, support, and safety.

Momma @giggle-byte and I just had a spectacular weekend away with friends. We had a lovely time together, and were privileged to attend the wedding of some beautiful, deserving, wonderful people. But when we came home, I got sick. I got REALLY sick. I have an autoimmune condition, so I tend to really ramp up the sickness when I get it, and that was very true this time. Fever was annoying, but the pain was the real problem: I couldn't swallow, and the throat just got worse by the hour! It was hard to let momma help me, even though i needed help! I felt like a shitty partner, overly demanding and selfish. I felt I was a total wimp for not being tougher, or for getting panicked when my throat closed up from swelling. Instead of teasing, mocking, or ignoring my issues, @giggle-byte was amazing, taking care of me even at 2 am, giving me round the clock attentiveness and care. I cannot express how much it HELPED having this style of dynamic, which for us includes some D/s aspects as well. Knowing that my sweetheart, that my queen, my wife, the love of my life was there to care for me and watch out for me turned a miserable experience into one i can use to draw strength.

Because I know now that no matter how I feel, how sick, how tired, how scared or worried or weepy or uncomfortable, i have my incredible partner ready to support me and care. I cannot say enough how much that means to me, or how much SHE means to me. I cannot express with words, however verbose and flowery, the depth of my love and appreciation for her care.

If you have an ABDL, Caregiver/little, or similar relationship dynamic, i encourage you to rely on that in times of stress, or to "lean in" as momma so intelligently puts it. Sometimes, the thing that will make you feel safe and alright again...is just waiting for you to realize it's there. It's the daily dynamics you forget are part of your relationship, and they can come through for you in important ways.

So, to momma: Thank you for caring for me, my love. Thank you for giving me attention, affection, support, and compassion. I'm the luckiest guy there's ever been, and I'll try hard to return you even a fraction of the love and support you give me.

And remember: Lean in! To kink, to love, and to the special people who know what you need, way deep down.

Stay happy, stay healthy, and as always, stay kinky!

- Scribbler

[princescribbler]

I Think I Have a Fetish For My Wife/Momma/Princess

I've always been a fetishist. It's something deep within me that doesn't ever really go away. I've ignored it for long periods (Looking at you, early college years!), I've dabbled in it, I've even reveled in and embraced it (That's now). When that happens, I've picked up and discarded a few different kinks and interests. There was a time where catheter play got me going, and the idea of a stent would've made me blush and squirm. If you asked me in the past if I'd ever even temporarily tolerate chastity, much less make it a frequent, daily thing for me? I'd have said it was highly unlikely, maybe even impossible to imagine. Now, it's just on days that end with Y.

Throughout that time, I've had a lot of fetishes, and kinks, I've dabbled, I've played, I've explored and embraced and tested out and attempted a whole lot. And there's been one very strong, very present constant.

Loss of control.

That's huge for me. It's integral, a part of my very identity that fills me up and makes me feel good about myself. I have zero good explanation for this; You might argue it's about the idea of being accepted with imperfections, you could try to view it through the Freudian lens (Don't: That dude was kinky AF, and assumed it was universal, not gonna work here) but however it works, you're going to come up short. There isn't a single clear explanation, it's just something I need!

Whatever the reason, it's consistent. I crave a loss of control, the ability to let go, be 'less' than my normal self, whether it's talking about ageplay, ABDL, or a hundred side-kinks and interests. And it's very, very hard to do that when you're not necessarily the most open, trusting personality.

Then along came Momma: She was patient with me, in a way most people probably wouldn't (or even shouldn't) be. When I said, "I want to go slow" she agreed to set the pace to glacial. When I sporadically tried to speed it up, or change the stakes, or alter the terms, or anything of the sort...she was fluid, and tried to move with me. She's been my rock, and my safety, and my favorite, most wonderful secure place. And as a result of that, I've developed a Momma Princess @giggle-byte fetish.

I mean that sincerely: See, if you take away my lovely lady, Momma? I don't want Chastity play. Chastity play without Momma means denial, frustration, etc. With Momma, it's teasing, lots of fun, plenty of 'fun', not feeling denied, and in fact feeling cared for, comforted, and loved.

Take away Momma, and diapers aren't my thing. With her? Sure, 24/7, I feel secure and whole and good! Without Momma? I mean, before her I was scared to leave the house padded, much less wear full time, discretely and constantly.

You can say the same thing for nearly any sort of fetish or kink. If I've got it, it's about 10000% more fun, safe, and explorable with Momma than if I didn't have her. She makes it alright to try new things, to explore, to grow and adapt and even, maybe, sometimes take a break from things. Whether it's something I need every day, every week, or just once every few months, I know my wife, my love, my better half will be there to make it a good thing. I'm incredibly, unbelievably, UNFATHOMABLY lucky to have this beautiful partner in life. And if you ever, ever get someone half as good? You hold on tight, because you're definitely going to end up developing some lovely, fun, and even sometimes WHOLESOME new kinks!

I love you, my darling. Thanks for giving me a Momma Princess fetish. ;) -Scribbler (Or "baby-prince-papi", as you might know me, sweetheart)

[princescribbler]

THINGS I LOVE MORE THAN MOMMA PRINCESS @giggle-byte :

Nothing

Zilch

Nada

Absolutely zero things

Why did I make this a list

The list is empty

Cuz momma is the best thing ever

And I'll fight anyone who disagrees

[princescribbler]

ADORABLE Ways Little/ABDL Partners Show Affection

Sharing stuffies

OVERWHELMING amounts of stuffies

JUST SO FUCKING MANY stuffies, especially if you also somehow know their names

Wiggling at you: Bonus points for shaking/wiggling a padded booty

Bringing you snacks. After all, nothing says love like snack foods

Lots of loud affectionate declarations. Like yelling "I FUCKING LOVE YOU" from the next room seemingly at random

Touchy feely time: no, not necessarily nsfw, but also that if it's part of your dynamic and relationship

Nuzzling/ rubbing on you, which is downright adorable... though might walk the line of petplay?

Aggressively burrowing into your chest/arms/ lap

Not arguing about bedtime... much

Pouty/grumpy face when you need to leave, or even full on sad pouting

Pouncing on top of you... for snuggles

Licking you (because if you lick something, it's yours, duh!)

Extra long hugs

Holding your hand (unless it's just to cross the street)

Being extra little and cute, to try to win you over

NAPS together... naps are evil, unless they're cuddle naps. Then they're great.

Singing at you. No promises it'll be on key, but they're trying

Random butt slaps, grabs, pinches, etc

BEING A CUTE TINY ADORABLE CUTIE, JUST FOR YOU!

[lg-secretsx-deactivated20240808]

10 Reminders for Dealing with Shame in Kink

Something I see frequently in asks and messages is people feeling ashamed about their kinks, whether or not somebody has said something to shame them. So I wrote some affirmations to tell yourself if you ever feel this way. 💖

I can't control what I like, but I can choose to accept myself

For every kink I have, somebody else has it too

My kinks aren't hurting me or anyone else

The kind of sex in TV and movies is unrealistic (and boring)

It's liberating and powerful to know what I like

My desires are sexy and beautiful

I give no control to people who try to make me feel bad about my kinks

My kinks make me unique

Owning my sexuality is an act of self love

I'm human

[justanobedientboy]