100 Nonsexual Ways to Make Me Feel Little
Flan says: I’ve seen lots of lists like these, but often times they were a mix of sexual and nonsexual things or included lists of specific gifts or were just not quite tailored well enough for me. So I spent some time today coming up with a list of 100 nonsexual ways to make me feel extra little, or to bring that feeling to the forefront of my mind. Not all of these things have to be done all the time, but all of them will evoke that sort of feeling in me.
I hope this list gives you some ideas of your own! And I hope Senpai and Daddy get some ideas from it as well…
Get my paci if you notice me chewing my lip
Use my little dishes for a meal
Bring me a drink in a sippy cup
Stick a crazy straw in my drink
Order for me at a restaurant
Drive me places (and pick me up)
Go to my doctor’s appointments with me
Help me make tough choices
Let me fall asleep on you
Ask me to help you with things
Tell me when I’m a good girl
Tell me if I make you proud
Take care of me when I’m sick
Remind me to take my medicine
Suggest naptime, especially if I’m crabby
Ask me about my favorite things; tell me about yours
Remember my plushies’ names
Ask about my plushies and toys
Ask if I remembered to do things
Kiss the top of my head or forehead
Listen to my excited-babbles
Tell me I’m cute/adorable
Let me draw a tiny heart on you
Make sure I have something to cuddle
Ask about my imaginary friends
Play video games with me (or watch me play them)
Do arts and crafts with me
Make me hot cocoa with marshmallows
Show me a place I’ve never seen before
Whisper “shhh” in my ear when I’m upset
Take me to see a kiddy movie in the theater
Sing with me when I break out into song
Call me “princess,” “little one,” “kitten,” “bunny,” “girl,” or “doll”
Appreciate little gifts I make/give you
Make a funny face at me in public
Scoop me up princess-style
Make a meal of special little foods
Remind me to wash my hands before I eat
Get things from places I can’t reach
Rub my tummy when it hurts
Shoot me with a water gun or nerf gun
Quote from my favorite books and movies
Take me somewhere I need to dress up to go to
Boop my nose if my emotions are getting too intense
Let me wear your t-shirt/hoodie
Write a note and leave it somewhere for me to find
Congratulate me for doing something difficult
Start my sleepy music at night
Take me to an amusement park
Take selfies/photobooth pictures with me
Make a pinky promise with me