SFW & NSFW confessions are allowed, NSFW will be tagged, as well as dark tropes.
Minors, please don't submit or engage with NSFW confessions.
Refrain from mentioning specific ages in NSFW confessions.
Refrain from spamming line-breaks and keep cfs under 1k characters as to not break the ask box.
Not all confessions need to be dark (any and all confessions are allowed), but they are encouraged.
Forsaken-related confessions only; stay on topic.
NO CONFESSIONS REGARDING REAL PEOPLE. Any admin-related confessions are to be about the characters in-game based off of them, not their IRL counterparts. Anyone doing this off-anon will be blocked and any confessions on-anon will be deleted, no exceptions.
Don't be an asshole to each other, myself, or the game's developers. This is not the place for bashing. Any sort of hate, harassment, or rude messages towards anyone will be deleted.
Limit venting. There's a time and place, and that place is not here.
OTHER INFO
Check this post to see if any anon tags are taken. There is a link below with all anon tags currently in use, and will be updated every time there's a new one.
The queue posts twice a day, once at 8AM and once at 4PM, both in EST.
If you submit something with any errors (ie forgetting/adding an anon tag, accidentally submitting off-anon, etc), send another ask and I'll fix it. I also fix improper pronouns for Noob and Two Time.
not going to directly post my latest ask to avoid airing out traumas, but to the person in question: i appreciate your perspective and thank you for giving me a new outlook. the offending post has been removed. i hope things get better for you and i apologize for any discomfort.
You (and the proship community in general) should probably refrain from using the MAP flag since it's unfortunately been used by actual pedophiles.
Also, is there a way to create an age requirement to who can and cannot be in the proship communities or be a darkshipper? I've seen darkshippers as young as twelve and I don't think that's okay considering a lot of them usually refer to or post about pedophilic stuff and it's generally normal in the communities.
Sorry to add, but are you pro-paraphilia as well?
i'm only using it to refer to fictional characters, and it's not like it's some secret that that's what the flag is. people in these online circles know what it is, it's not like it's some secret that pedophiles use the flag that was made for them. i only used it in my headcanon post to be more uniform, it's no different from typing it out in plain text.
there is no age-requirement to being anti-harassment or enjoying dark topics, but i agree that there should be less minors in darkship spaces. it shouldn't be a normal thing to see a middle schooler talking about their favorite rape fanfic. but i'm not an authority on these communities, i'm just someone with a tumblr blog. the only way to truly have age-verification in a space like that is through ID, of course allowing the people using it to censor their faces and names while leaving their birthdate visible. that's obviously not an ironclad defense though, there are people who will use fake IDs or someone else's ID. blocking and banning minors from these communities is really the only way to go about it.
honestly i think this is a bad-faith question considering what i was just being accused of. for the record: i'm pro-para, anti-contact and pro-recovery. as a paraphile (not a harmful one, i'm not attracted to people or animals or anything of that ilk) i believe that those who struggle with harmful paraphilias should get help and not act on their attractions. i support them getting the resources they need and overcoming what they think is insurmountable. i have to sympathy for those who actively harm real people or animals, but i empathize with the ones that don't and never want to. take all that as you will.
Hey, could you please add somewhere in your pinned or make a post or something about what pro-ship means? Many confuse with darkship
i have this blog labeled as proship because it is in support of all ships being posted. since pro/darkshippers are the target audience and i operate solely on the pro/darkship tags, i don't think it warrants an explanation.
me again. bft told their followers that we (as in me and the owners of this blog) could and might sexually abuse children.
i'd be shocked but this isn't the first time someone has said something like that about me. it is still incredibly fucked up though, sorry you guys have to deal with this as well.
Not surprising, but still upsetting to have unfounded accusations against the both of us. Hope you're doing well despite the situation.
You don’t have to plaster your abuse around to make a point, that is your choice to do so, you LITERALLY don’t have to do that.
And also, I’ve experienced COCSA and I’m pro/darkship, so now what?
You can’t necessarily use your abuse to make a point in this situation. You were violated and failed by people who should have NEVER done that, you shouldn’t have gone through that and I truly do hope you heal fully because you didn’t deserve any of what happened.
But you can’t just go “ I was hurt by someone who uses this label, so that means everyone who uses it is bad “ it feels ( emphasis on the word feels, I can obviously be incorrect about my comparisons ) like people who say all LGBTQIA+ people are bad because someone was shitty and violated another person. It feels like people who tell you to DNI over your name.
Yes I’m aware proship is different from these things but that’s why I said it feels like that.
People who use “ it’s just fiction! “ to hurt REAL LIFE people are disgusting and vile and I HATE THEM, I do not support real life children and people being hurt, it deeply upsets me and makes me feel sick
Children should NOT be exposed to NSFW or mature content, I was exposed to NSFW content when I was about 10 and it fucked me up badly, but that is on my parents not the people posting the content, my parents neglected me and it allowed me to be hurt.
Now this is a little off topic and I’m in no way trying to invalidate your trauma.
Those with paraphilias that abused you are fucking vile and predators and you didn’t deserve that. But paraphilias are formed from childhood trauma and not fun to have ( I don’t know a whole lot about paraphilias, but they are a mental disorder from trauma! )
When someone goes out of their way to hurt an animal, or a child, or a corpse, whatever it is, they are a predator, a very big difference that is important because stigmatizing these disorders prevents them from getting help.
The woman who groomed me is an anti so now what?
Does that mean all antis are groomers? NO.
Does that mean all antis would hurt a child? NO.
Which is why I believe you can’t solidly argue why proship is bad by using your trauma. Because regardless of ones stance, a person is fully capable of hurting someone. Proshippers and antishippers are very much still able to groom and hurt, being an anti doesn’t magically make you less likely to hurt someone, and being a pro does not make you more likely to hurt someone.
Proshipper, antishipper, neutralshipper, it doesn’t matter. When you hurt a child sexually you are a CHILD PREDATOR.
And I’m not into kids, it’s actually very upsetting anyone would ever hint that. I do not want kids, or to be around them, and real life children being abused or violated sickens me, I actually can’t stand hearing about it, the mere idea of an actual child being hurt upsets me.
Even finding a fictional child attractive of any amount distresses me and I don’t like that. Because my COCSA experience REALLYY messed me up!
My last point is it’s FICTION, I can separate fiction from reality. Real life rape upsets me and I hate it, I hate real rapists and I think they should die ( same with child predators )
I use fiction to cope with my source memories as an alter otherwise I really wouldn’t consume much content ( and no. My source memories cannot be compared to real life victims because my source memories aren’t REAL. But they still do deeply upset me at times, and it does not help my purpose as an alter is to hold trauma )
All of this just wraps back around to the “ video games causes violence!!!! “ does playin a game where you kill people mean you support killing people or that you would kill people? NO. Because it’s just a game, it’s just fiction. And exactly! I don’t support rape nor would I rape anyone, I don’t support kids being abused or violated and nor would I abuse or violate a child.
And truly it is just fiction, no real person is being hurt, it’s not actually happening in real life and it shouldn’t reflect your real life morals ( again, the whole “ video games causes violence! “ ) even if you still think nobody should ship it in fiction, you should not put a fictional character over a real victim, and you shouldn’t harass or threaten a real person over it. Because that person is real the fiction ISNT. “ you Is general here, not directed at anyone in specific
If fiction affects you that much to the point it affects your real life actions Get off the internet and find help, tell someone about it, or don’t look at that content. Curate your online experience and stop saying people would do something they consume in FICTION. Because with that logic everyone who plays video games with any violence actually does that in real life and supports it
Oh also, can we not censor words? It’s raped not r4ped, it’s not p3do, it’s pedophilia/pedophile ( when you truly mean child predator ), these words are meant to be uncomfortable and censoring them waters them down and sugar coats them.
me again. bft told their followers that we (as in me and the owners of this blog) could and might sexually abuse children.
i'd be shocked but this isn't the first time someone has said something like that about me. it is still incredibly fucked up though, sorry you guys have to deal with this as well.
Not surprising, but still upsetting to have unfounded accusations against the both of us. Hope you're doing well despite the situation.
nothing justifies calling someone a predator unless you have actual, tangible proof that they've harmed kids. i'm sorry those things happened to you and i hope you find peace one day, but if you want to say "i went through shit so i have the right to say that", then lets play that game.
i was sexually abused for a large portion of my childhood by people who i should've trusted. i had to be told that this shit happened because i don't remember any of my childhood. this caused me to develop a dissociative disorder and become hypersexual. after going online, i experienced a heavy magnitude of grooming from "friends", and i believed it was normal because of how i was conditioned to be sexual around people. i lied about my age to get into spaces i wasn't allowed in, i was exposed to sexual content in countless roleplays and discord servers, only because i thought i was mature enough. i was eleven. none of my abusers were proship.
i first started using darkship content to cope when i was fourteen. i was drawn to certain pairings because they mirrored my trauma. it gave me agency in it, helped me understand that i can take back what happened to me in a way that doesnt harm anyone. if things got too close to home or if i felt uncomfortable, i didnt have to look at it anymore. and then i was harassed by antis, repeatedly called a "worthless pedophile" until i developed pocd, and while i don't have that same theme anymore, ocd still affects me to this day. those accusations caused me to self-isolate, to doubt all of my own intentions, to harm myself for even thinking slightly inappropriately about a fictional character in my age-range. it took years for me to stop seeing myself that way, to stop being scared of being around family, it didn't stop until i went to therapy and had it affirmed to me that liking fictional content doesn't make me a pedophile. it was antis that made me feel that way, that made me feel like i was a child predator when i was barely a teenager.
i was still outwardly an anti for years until i accepted that fact. it wasn't until i became an adult and confided in my therapist about it again, and she told me the same thing she said years ago. creating fictional content isn't harmful until you use it as a tool to hurt people. fiction and reality aren't 1:1, it can affect people, but only if they're already incredibly vulnerable to the influence, such as children and people with low mental stability. i am not a child anymore, and i can distinguish between the things i enjoy in fictional/kink spaces and the things i know i wouldn't do in real life.
the "context" doesn't matter in this case. nothing excuses calling someone a child predator unless they go out of their way to hurt children, which is not something i do. i have never harmed a child, i go out of my way to avoid talking to minors on all of my accounts. and in all honesty, i know there's more i can do to at least lessen the chance of impressionable people seeing my blog, and i will start taking the steps to do so in the foreseeable future.
just so you all know, it will be a bit before i clean out the inbox and start taking cfs again due to some of them being screenshotted and reposted to another blog. i won't name it for obvious reasons, but i am waiting for them to remove their posts about this blog in order to stop drawing so much negative attention. do not attempt to seek out or witch-hunt this other blog, it is counterproductive and i am working to resolve this myself.
in any case here's said blog (name/identifying tags omitted) purposefully saying the name of this blog to insult me and those who use it. again, do not harass or witch-hunt, and i'd prefer if others didn't use this post to insult them in reblogs or replies; i'm not stooping down to their level and neither should anyone else.
actually fuck it. i have no sympathy for someone who will straight up accuse me (and others) of being a potential sexual predator like it's fucking nothing. it is actually sickening to see that kind of allegation levied against me over something that isn't even a crime where i live. over a fucking roblox game. i would not wish the shit i went through onto anyone else, why the hell would you think that's okay to say about anyone?
the blog is badforsakentakes. i don't even care about leaving them anonymous anymore since they don't want to do the same for me and feel like it's okay to say something so disgusting about another person over their tastes in fiction. i haven't said anything even remotely rude or inflammatory towards them, all i did was ask them to take the posts about this blog down, and they respond like this.
they said that they don't believe i or the others involved have been harassed, but this is harassment by definition. harassment doesn't need to be an effort coordinated by a group of people, it doesn't have to be constant, it doesn't have to be directly to their face. harassment is defined as "aggressive pressure or intimidation", and that's exactly what bft is doing; they're levying bad faith arguments against me and others in an attempt to silence us or make us leave. they said it themself: "don't post! keep it to your wretched little discord servers instead." and even if they won't consider that harassment, what about the hate asks i've received on this blog? is that not harassment enough, or is it different because it's anonymous? come the fuck on man
context: lead developer left the game, hytoko and basil are pointing fingers at each other over the kaiser situation, and one of the coders for the game said the hard r while being white as paper
just so you all know, it will be a bit before i clean out the inbox and start taking cfs again due to some of them being screenshotted and reposted to another blog. i won't name it for obvious reasons, but i am waiting for them to remove their posts about this blog in order to stop drawing so much negative attention. do not attempt to seek out or witch-hunt this other blog, it is counterproductive and i am working to resolve this myself.
in any case here's said blog (name/identifying tags omitted) purposefully saying the name of this blog to insult me and those who use it. again, do not harass or witch-hunt, and i'd prefer if others didn't use this post to insult them in reblogs or replies; i'm not stooping down to their level and neither should anyone else.
just so you all know, it will be a bit before i clean out the inbox and start taking cfs again due to some of them being screenshotted and reposted to another blog. i won't name it for obvious reasons, but i am waiting for them to remove their posts about this blog in order to stop drawing so much negative attention. do not attempt to seek out or witch-hunt this other blog, it is counterproductive and i am working to resolve this myself.
so like are you volunteering to pay for my therapy or. anyway it's too bad because my therapist says it's fine and says nothing about who i am as a person or what i desire in real life. awesome right
I have a question, would you consider running a blog like this to be hard? I was considering making a profic confessions sideblog for a fandom I'm in but I've never tried before so idk what to do 💔 Hope ur doing ok also!!
if you get burned out easily and struggle with keeping up habits, yeah. i've run plenty of blogs like this in the past though, i've just been doing really shitty these past few months. i am doing better, thanks for the worries. i'll be back soon
