Hi! I'm a new follower, but I hope this isn't too sudden. I'm also a baby EXO-L and I was just wondering why some EXO-Ls don't like it when Suho gets called 'eomma' and Chen by 'Jongdaddy'? I got called out for calling them this on Facebook, and I never really had the intent to insult them or disrespect them at all. I'm also curious about the context on why this isn't acceptable. I hope I'm not bothering you too much.
first of all, hello and welcome to the fandom! i hope you can enjoy it 🥰 second i’m sorry i’m answering this so late, i haven’t been here for a while…
With the eomma word, well eomma means “mom” in korean, and since suho is a male you better not call him mom obviously.
With jongdae, i guess it’s because exols generally don’t like him anymore since he is a dad now with 2 kids. If you ask me, it’s not a bad word or saying. But exols take it too far (as many times) and way too serious. He is a dad (or daddy hehe) and you can’t change that, tbh i don’t see anything too wrong with it? There are way meaner sayings out there…but nowadays when it comes to him, i guess some exols just don’t want him near anywhere exo now just because he has decided a private family life now, no stressful idol life anymore and you know what? Good for him!!! Maybe someone else can explain this better or see why it’s problematic? fjsjsj i’m sorry
Lastly, you are no bother at all and i’m always glad when people ask what’s wrong with things instead of just ignoring! i hope you understand me trying to explain, if not don’t hesitate to ask again! 💕
