Ki

• He / Him • 22 • queer •

[pupki]

Hi, I’m new here. I thought I’d might as well post somewhat of an intro.

So yeah Hi , I’m ki, not my real name but a name I’ll respond to nonetheless. Oh and I’m 22 years old.

I’m mainly making this blog to hopefully talk to some people, plus have a space I can be hopelessly gay on haha

On that note, I don’t yet know exactly how nsfw this blog might or might not get.

I think I’ll mostly just be sharing random little tidbits or thoughts I’ve had that no one’s really asked for :)

Some fun facts about me I guess are that I’m very gay, pretty trans and mostly audhd with a “hint” (good dosage honestly) of social anxiety.

But I’m very open to dms, please talk to me, even tho I’m terrified to send them first, it’s like, please bother me but I’m a little too scared to bother others.

[ilovespidermansomuch]

I've been so fucking dysphoric oh my God.

I just want to be a cis guy who looks cool and doesn't have to worry ab the way he presents

[aloyhh]

forced to say “it’s ok” instead of throwing a chair at them

[starkissed-mars-fanclub]

“that’s gay, you faggot!”

I say as my boyfriend tells me he loves me

[g0blin-mlm]

Want a boyfriend who lets me steal his clothes. Who tells me I look cute and them and that I should wear them more often. Stealing a boys clothes is the best thing ever I love it

[fruitblush]

im suffering from a horrendous disease called being in your 20s

[aw-but-i-didnt-get-you-anything]

Twitter made the Jewish lady that posted this delete it for “threatening violence.”

Her followers spent the rest of the day tweeting this. Trolls couldn’t keep up.

[asingularcanadian]

Coming from someone who studies the Holocaust and the history surrounding it, It is important to remember that Nazis were human, not monsters. It’s important because if we dehumanize them we create a level of separation between us and them. It’s important because if we create that level of removal, we start ignoring the subtle signs of antisemitism because “Oh, well they’re just a normal human, not a monster, i’m sure it’ll be alright.” It’s important because when we create that level of removal, they come back in waves. It’s important because when you create that level of separation, you get the problems that we have now.

[occamstireiron-deactivated20190]

There is a very simple set of brain equations involved when we dehumanize the enemy, and it goes something like this:

“Nazis are monsters” “I would not be friends with a monster” The CORRECT conclusion is “I cannot be friends with Nazis” BUT PEOPLE KEEP BELIEVING THE COROLLARY “None of my friends are Nazis” “…even that one guy who keeps posting ‘ironic’ Pepe memes, who never really grew out of his 4Chan /pol/ phase, and who keeps trying to have really intense conversations with me about ‘globalists’. But he’s my friend! I’ve known him forever! He doesn’t REALLY believe any of that stuff. He’s just kind of an asshole, and we love him anyway.” This is a very bad corollary. It is an extraordinarily dangerous corollary. When we sincerely believe that we would not be friends with bad people, we ignore the signs that our friends are bad people.

(Friendly note: you can replace “Nazi” above with “sexual predator” or “racist” or “abuser”. Same hat, pretty much. There are very real reasons not to dehumanize the enemy, and they have nothing to do with the enemy’s right to humanity, and everything to do with the enemy’s ability to sneak past our lines wearing a nice-person mask.)

[meltinggoldanddippingthingsinit]

I’m reblogging this to my main blog because it is extremely fucking important.

[pupki]

Good people can do bad things, it doesn’t make them entirely bad. But when bad people do good things, it doesn’t make them entirely good either.

It’s not easy to see through it all but when your friend or your family member or your partner shows consistent signs or patterns of abusive or generally bad behavior or a lack of morals do not just wipe it all away with a “but they do good things as well sometimes”

If your partner acts in an abusive manner but they still do something nice every so often, that can NOT erase the fact they have been abusive towards you.

If your friend donates to the poor but will tell you people of a different race are bad in any way, them donating doesn’t erase the racism.

The worst of us will know to do just enough good to hold up that pretty picture while profiting off of or abusing the people around them.

The worst of us manage to get friends to believe they’re good people while hurting those closest to them.

The best of us are human. But the worst of us are also, just that, human.

[hellhoundzzz]

mfs be like "I can handle your disorders" until your disorders disorder disorderly

[batman-lucy]

bruh nobody gets growing up too fast like mentally ill gay trans teeangers

[pupki]

I love being gay

It’s just funny to me how earlier this day I was rimming my boyfriend and then about two hours later he’s playing songs from one of my favorite movies on the piano

[mournfulroses]

Virginia Woolf, from a diary entry featured in “The Selected Diaries of Virginia Woolf,”

[dumblr]

If falling in love with you was a mistake, then remember that I will make the same mistake again.

[ballisticjingles05-deactivated2]

Even as tears fall from my eyes, I'm still the one whispering, "Sorry."

[remanence-of-love]

[extreme-cashmere]

Have you ever just stopped and realized that if you hadn't met a certain person, your entire life would be completely different

[proseify]

I'm tired you know, so damn tired.

[quotefeeling]

“Growth is painful. Change is painful.But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.”

— Mandy Hale