NASA
ellievsbear
No title available
#extradirty
I'd rather be in outer space šø
Monterey Bay Aquarium
@theartofmadeline
2025 on Tumblr: Trends That Defined the Year
Sweet Seals For You, Always
romaā
Xuebing Du
oozey mess
Acquired Stardust
Aqua Utopiaļ½ęµ·ć®åŗć§čØę¶ćē“”ć
PR's Tumblrdome
šŖ¼
styofa doing anything
RMH
d e v o n
KIROKAZE
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from Japan
seen from United States
seen from Brazil
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from T1
seen from Malaysia
seen from Canada
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from Malaysia
seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States
@pupzapper
Be honest, dear listener.
You know my posts are hot.
I know my posts are hot.
Your pussy knows my posts are hot.
Your cock knows my posts are hot.
So while you rub and tease yourself thinking about being a hypnotized plaything, why not tell everyone how hot these posts are?
Such a hot post
Good boys focus
Good boys follow
Good boys obey
Always simple and easy to accept your conditioning..to be the good boy and empty..to be the best you can be...
Repeat these slowly in your mind
Iām a good boy and I obey
Iām a good boy and I obey
Iām a good boy and I obey
Iām a good boy and I obey
Iām a good boy and I obey
Now retweet and dm to be a good boy
just be ready, and if I had to sum it up in one word : OBEY ! Overcome ( my fears, my anxieties, my restrictions ), Behave ( as my Master wishes ), Experience ( new things that My Masters desires ), Yearn ( to became a better slave for My Master ).
weeks 11 and 12 of 2026 : 14/14 : always tell the truth, understand your mistakes, progress, accept punishments, recognize Your Master as the Authority !
this concludes these two weeks of posts about daily life with My Master, and in this final post, i wanted to end with one of the most important elements of the relationship between A Master and His slave namely respect for authority, total obedience, and slave's acknowledgment of faults. š§š¼āāļøš§š»šš
it is at this price that the slave will progress and find a path towards ever greater submission and obedience, ultimately achieving total belonging and complete surrender. š§š¼āāļøšš
the path is difficult, and of course, My Dear Friends who read and appreciate my posts, The Master must rise to the occasion and respect the slave in his or her personal and professional integrity ! š§š¼āāļøš¦®š§š»
The Master knows what is best for the slave and is His Guide !
HE IS THE MASTER !
My Dear Master, You will read this post, and Your slave knows he can improve and for this he needs Your help, My Master ! šš„°šā¤ļø
P.S. : i would like to dedicate this final post, of course, to My Dear Master, but also to my friend philipp, š§š¼āāļøš who is somewhat my Alpha and who helps me so much on my learning journey.
thank You My Dear Master !
ššš
can we likeā¦get rid of the so-called leather and rubber āpride flagsā ? itās honestly ridiculous and offensive to the lgbtq community. those arenāt pride flags.Ā
The leather pride flag is the second oldest pride flag. It has been at almost every single US pride parade and protest in history.
Itās older then you are, itās older then I am. The leather community is responsible for pride. Leather daddies were the ones chasing away cops when they tried to arrest us for being queer in public back when Pride Parades were illegal in the US. They are still the ones chasing away cops and corporations from smaller pride events and those that arenāt sanctioned by Wells Fargo. The leather community is essential to the queer community and has a long and rich history.
Please fuck off if youāre not going to learn the actual history of pride.
And donāt fucking out your hate in our tags, asshole.
The leather pride flag represents an expression of self which is inherently queer, and a community which has been around for generations. It is not offensive to the LGBT+ community in any way. I have seen cis gay and bisexual men standing shoulder-to-shoulder with trans men, all of them united by their leather community roots. The leather community is more diverse and nuanced than you perhaps know, but that is no reason for you to shit on a community you donāt understand.
Here is a photograph from 1998, displaying the leather pride flag, the bear gay pride flag, and the rainbow flag. This is our history.
Source.
Here is a photograph from 1987: three queer women entering into the Ms. National Leather Association Contest, or simply gathering as spectators.
Source.
A flyer from 1989, rallying the leather community to march in a Stonewall anniversary protest.
Source.
A photograph from 1988: Tony Deblase, the creator of the leather pride flag, and a gay man, embracing a fellow member of the leather community. Over his shoulder is Judy Tallwing McCarthy, a Native American woman who was part of the leather community from 1959. She co-founded the first lesbian BDSM group in Portland, along with her partner, Sashie Hyatt.
Source. Source.
Just because you donāt know the history, doesnāt mean it isnāt there. Be humble, and always assume you have more to learn. Hatred, and outright dismissal of communities you know nothing about, is the most aggressively anti-LGBT thing I can imagine.
The leather community has always included trans people, lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals. The leather community is global and nuanced. The leather community is where many of us encounter our found families, and our lovers. For you to dismiss that is cold-hearted and ignorant. Just because queer sex is involved, doesnāt make the community dirty or bad.
Iām again fucking begging the baby gays to read/watch/listen to How To Survive A Plague.
Do you have any. Any idea. Any god damn clue. How kink intersects with LGBT and queer community. Queer history. Do you know why the community pushed for, and against, closing the bathhouses during the 80s? Do you know who organized awareness campaigns about HIV, even way back when it was still called GIRD. Do you know who created the safe sex pamphlets, the classes, who pushed for disclosing your health history to partners, who distributed contraceptives and condoms and dental dams at parties and meetings and baths? Do you even know where the safe sex education we have now comes from? Do you know where a bulk of the language about consent came from? Do you have any good god damn idea what the kink communities have done for us, and continue to do for us?
Keep their names out of your mouths because you clearly donāt know what the hell youāre talking about
If there is one thing I could say to young queer folks, especially young queer folks in the U.S. who are coming of age in a world that is more accepting than the one I knew growing up, itās this:
Donāt be so quick to sanitize your queerness and make it corporate pride daytime TV-friendly. Donāt be so quick to jump on the purity bandwagon. Donāt be so quick to speak on what your community should look like before youāve actually learned the history of your community, and always be aware that there are things you probably donāt yet know.
These things will not protect you. They never have. And all youāre doing is isolating yourself from community, from support, from the strength we all have when we stand together in a world that would gladly pick us off one by one.
Queerness isnāt as hidden or embattled now (in some places) as it once was, but make no mistake: when our existence was illegal everywhere the people you have this knee-jerk āhide the weirdosā reaction to are the very ones who wouldāve had your back against the cops and the gay-bashers.
The people who made me feel safe to come out in my 20s flew the rubber and leather flags alongside the rainbow flag and often the trans flag as well. You donāt get to tell any of them they donāt belong anymore just because you donāt understand.
Rip this from my cold, dead hands
These kids are so ignorant and it worries me greatly
Everything we have,everything we are is because of ancestors and the shit they had to go through.
We are stronger and more powerful because of them.
And for you kids to be so flippant and shaky really disappoints me.
Read every last word of this.
Learn your history!
leatherboys were meant to pamphleteer bro
tanning and papercrafts is the conversion of nature into culture
this is the means by which creation is converted from destruction
by which i mean destruction reconverted into creation
potential rot is rerouted into lichenized and calcified function
this is why gay boys make states
and straight boys make babes
To go one step further, because appeal to history, appeal to tradition, is antithetical to the modern queer liberation -
Kink is foundational to queer liberation because at its core it advocates for sexual freedom of any kind among consenting adults. It crosses the gay/straight divide.
Kinksters are the ones who HAVE to fight against sexual respectability politics in order to survive, and any group that benefits from keeping that horseshit at bay, has them to thank bc while you might think you are safe from the bigots if you just play the part enough, it's the moralizing against what you do in your own home that they always use first to justify taking away your rights.
Making Daddy your Little Bitch
The Nine-fold Pathway to Training, Taming, and Dominating your Older Partner or Husband
1. CHASTITY
Keep him orgasm-denied. Heās old. He doesnāt need to cum. Those days are over for him. Forbid touching or masturbation. Lock his genitals in order to restrict access, if necessary, and unlock him only in your presence from time to time. Youāre the Man of the House. Only your cock matters.
2. INSPECTIONS
This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis. Inspect his appearance, clothing, hygiene. Have him keep logs of his food consumption, dsys fasting, completion of chores and inspect those and the quality of his work. Reward infrequently. Punish or have him redo his work often.
3. ROUTINES
Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you, a daily weekly schedules of tasks and chores, a repetitive and monitored personal routine of grooming.
Have him assume physical positions of submission to you. Have him recite ritual words of worship or praise. Have him vocalize his submission to you as his husband in common daily situations both inside and outside the home. Make his subjugation routine. Normalize the fact he is a bitch.
Making Daddy your Little Bitch
The Nine-fold Pathway to Training, Taming, and Dominating your Older Partner or Husband
4. DISCIPLINE
This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Disciplineāverbal, physical and psychologicalāis the most essential ingredient. He doesn't need to "deserve it", it is simply necessary. Make him hurtāa little or a lot. Find the time and the will every day to administer some form of discipline. Indulge your sadism. He will benefit.
5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL
Keeping his aging testes heavy and unrelieved will ensure his full attention and dependence towards you. But donāt stop there. Torment his genitalia actively through random or ritualized stimulation without relief. Teach him to beg. Teach him to thank you. Make him beg or perform in humiliating ways to try to earn the release thatās never comes. Have you tried keeping him bound and edged for hours? No? Try it. Use his needs to ingrain his obedience and willingness to do anything for you.
6. RUINED ORGASMS
He eventually needs to cum but only on your terms and schedule, and only for your pleasure and amusement. So take away the full release and induce a quick frustrating discharge to his cocknub and ruin its orgasms. Vibrostimulate his clitty intensely and directly until he begins to discharge then stop. Turn him into an overstimulated premature ejaculator, collect his seed and have him dispose of it as you watch. Or untouched, have him endure a back door prostate milking with vibrator or dildo until his aging goo drips out and he is emptied without any climax; just a long semi-painful milking without relief. In time heāll accept his pleasure-less sexuality and focus wholly and completely on the cock and orgasms that matter: yours.
Remember, ejaculation is necessary but his orgasm is not. Yours are important and should be cherished. You are the man.
Making Daddy your Little Bitch
The Nine-fold Pathway to Training, Taming, and Dominating your Older Partner or Husband
7. HUMILIATION
As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. He wants and needs it. He is a daddybitch. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation keeps him humble. Be imaginative and unexpected. Make it random. Make it public. Make it routine.
8. A LIFE OF CONSTANT PENETRATION
Chastity is only the beginning of his emasculation. The constant repeated daily penetration of his holesāhis drooling open cocksucking mouth pussy and his aging and open needy anusāis the real purpose of your bitchdaddy. His ego is the absolute enemy so obliterate it fully through endless degrading fucking, breeding and insemination. Reduce his sense of self to a pair of gaping holes that honor, serve and love your supreme and powerful cock.
9. OBEDIENCE TO YOU
Make prompt obedience to your commands his reason for being alive. Reward compliance with treats and privileges, the way you would training a dog. An extra pat or smile. Some sexual attention. Increase his allowance. And punish slowness or resistance. Slap him. Withhold food. Make him assume a stress position. A verbally berating. Or just ignore him. His prompt quiet compliance with whatever you tell him to do should become automatic, even anticipated. And slowly expand your demands on him until his obedience to you as a little beta boy daddybitch becomes basic to his identity and his only source of value to the world. Making you happy.
Itās just natureā¦
Hierarchy is biology
The Proper Handling of a Faggot: A Guide for the Dominant Alpha Master
By Sir Cedric Wycliffe Hawthorne
A true Alpha Master does not merely own a faggotāhe molds it, breaks it, and reshapes it into the perfect vessel of service and submission. A faggot is not an equal, not a man, not a being of independent willāit is a creature to be conditioned, trained, and maintained with absolute authority.
Proper handling of a faggot requires strategic control, psychological domination, and unyielding discipline. Without structure and command, a faggot deteriorates into useless, undisciplined filthāand that is an insult to its Masterās standing.
1. Understanding the Nature of the Faggot
A faggot is a lower form of existence, born to serve but incapable of structuring its own existence. It must be given purpose, assigned function, and reminded constantly of its inferiority. Without direction, a faggot is nothingājust a lump of flesh waiting to be commanded.
ā A faggot is an extension of its Masterās will. It does not have personal ambitions, desires, or opinionsāit reflects the discipline, refinement, and control of the one who owns it.
ā A faggot must be kept in a state of perpetual service. If left idle, it forgets its place, grows weak, and becomes useless. A properly held faggot is always engaged in some form of servitude, whether physically or mentally.
ā A faggot thrives on control and routine. It must wake, move, serve, kneel, and exist by its Masterās commandānot by personal choice. Left to itself, it degenerates into self-indulgence.
2. The Three Pillars of Proper Faggot Management
To ensure a faggot remains in peak physical, mental, and psychological condition, a Master must structure its life with uncompromising discipline.
š¹ I. Physical Conditioning: Breaking the Body
A faggotās body belongs to its Masterānot to itself. It is to be maintained, shaped, and tested to ensure it remains in peak form for service.
āļø Enforced Physical Regimen ā A faggot should be conditioned daily through physical exertion, posture drills, and endurance testing. Weakness is unacceptable.
āļø Controlled Diet & Nutrition ā A faggot should only eat what, when, and how its Master commands. Food is fuel, not pleasure. It must be rationed, portioned, and dictated strictly.
āļø Regulated Rest and Recovery ā Sleep is earned, not given freely. A faggot must understand that comfort is a privilege. If it is permitted rest, it should be structured, minimal, and based on performance.
āļø Strict Grooming & Maintenance ā A faggot should be kept clean, presentable, and aesthetically pleasing at all times. Its hair, hygiene, attire, and overall presentation must align with the standards of its Master, not its own whims.
š¹ II. Psychological Conditioning: Breaking the Mind
A faggotās mind must be emptied of self-worth, personal ambitions, and any lingering sense of identity. Its only thoughts, desires, and motivations must revolve around serving its Masterās will.
āļø Repetition & Reinforcement ā A faggot must be reminded daily of its place, its inferiority, and its purpose. Rituals of submission reinforce its mental reprogramming.
āļø Denial of Choice & Autonomy ā A faggot does not decide, question, or negotiateāit obeys. The more it is denied choices, the more its mind learns to surrender completely.
āļø Verbal Conditioning ā A faggot must be spoken to in ways that affirm its inferiority. Titles of address should reflect its status as property.
āļø Punishment & Correction ā Discipline must be swift, strict, and unquestionable. If a faggot hesitates, disrespects, or strays from its role, punishment is not optionalāit is mandatory.
š¹ III. Hierarchical Conditioning: Reinforcing Inferiority
A faggot must be constantly reminded of its rank in the hierarchyāit is nothing compared to its Master, and it must see, feel, and live that truth at all times.
āļø Hierarchical Placement in Space ā A faggot never stands in the same space as its Master. It kneels, bows, or waits in the background. It does not belong at the same level.
āļø Restricted Privileges ā A faggot is denied simple human liberties such as speech without permission, furniture access, or free movement. Everything must be earned.
āļø Constant Reminder of Ownership ā A faggot should be marked, collared, or symbolically bound to reinforce its servitude. It must be shown, constantly, that it is property.
3. The Proper Handling of a Faggot in Daily Life
A faggot must be managed strictly, strategically, and without leniency in daily interactions.
š¹ When Present in the Room:
ā¢ A faggot must never speak unless addressed.
ā¢ It should remain still, silent, and attentive.
ā¢ If its Master enters, it immediately assumes its assigned position (kneeling, bowing, or awaiting instruction).
š¹ When Called Upon:
ā¢ A faggot must respond instantly, without hesitation.
ā¢ It should move quickly, efficiently, and without unnecessary noise.
ā¢ It should only answer with āYes, Masterā or an equivalent phraseānever with excuses or explanations.
š¹ When Given an Order:
ā¢ A faggot obeys without delay or questioning.
ā¢ It executes commands with precision, gratitude, and visible effort.
ā¢ If a mistake is made, it immediately seeks correction and punishment without complaint.
Final Commandments for Handling a Faggot
1ļøā£ A faggotās life must be dictated, not left to its own devices.
2ļøā£ It must be kept in a state of servitude at all times.
3ļøā£ It must see itself as nothing more than a reflection of its Masterās will.
4ļøā£ It must be conditioned through discipline, denial, and reinforcement.
5ļøā£ It must never feel equal, comfortable, or complacent.
6ļøā£ It must accept punishment as necessary correction.
7ļøā£ It must constantly strive for greater perfection in servitude.
A properly held faggot is a controlled, trained, and disciplined beingāone that exists in its Masterās world solely to serve, obey, and submit. The moment it begins to think, choose, or act independently, the Master has failed in his duty to enforce control.
Thus, a true Alpha Master never relinquishes control. He commands, dictates, and molds with absolute authorityāand his faggot exists as the living proof of his dominance, discipline, and supreme power.
FIELD MANUAL ENTRY
āāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāā
MODULE: SUB MODULE I ā OBEDIENCE FOUNDATION
CATEGORY: 1. VERBAL SUBMISSION DRILLS ā Yes, Sir. No, Sir.
PROTOCOL ID: OF-01-VB
ENTRY NUMBER: 0002
ISSUED BY: S.C.D.D.
āāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāāā
TACTICAL SUMMARY:
The Verbal Submission Drill establishes total linguistic obedience by enforcing a binary response system. Through the ritual repetition of āYes, Sirā and āNo, Sir,ā the subjectās speech is stripped of personality and transformed into pure compliance. This protocol eliminates informal speech, autonomy, and inner hesitation. Every utterance becomes a tool of surrenderāclear, sharp, controlled. The voice no longer belongs to the subject; it is leased, weaponised, and returned only in acknowledgment of command.
BREAKDOWN:
I. APPROVED RESPONSES ā BINARY SUBMISSION LEXICON
Only two phrases are permitted during this drill:
ā¢ āYes, Sir.ā
ā¢ āNo, Sir.ā
They must be spoken immediately, with unwavering clarity. The tone must be neutral but firmāno emotion, no softness, no question inflection.
Violations: delays, murmurs, inflections, added words.
Immediate correction: enforced repetition until uniformity is achieved.
Subjects must remain in eye-down posture throughout unless explicitly told otherwise.
II. REPETITIVE CONDITIONING ā 100-PHRASE RESPONSE DRILL
The subject is placed in kneeling or standing attention posture. The officer issues binary-format questions at a steady pace. Examples:
ā¢ āHave you earned your silence today?ā
ā āNo, Sir.ā
ā¢ āShould you be speaking without permission?ā
ā āNo, Sir.ā
ā¢ āWill you obey when corrected?ā
ā āYes, Sir.ā
100 iterations per session. No breaks. One mistake resets the count.
III. POSTURE AND VOCAL DISCIPLINE
Physical compliance enhances vocal submission:
ā¢ Posture: back straight, hands flat on thighs or locked behind back
ā¢ Voice: directed forward, volume clear but not shouting
ā¢ Gaze: downward at a fixed point
Any vocal hesitation, sideways glance, or deviation in breathing rhythm is grounds for disciplinary pause.
COMMAND DRILL:
Officer: āAre you in control?ā
Subject: āNo, Sir.ā
Officer: āIs hesitation acceptable?ā
Subject: āNo, Sir.ā
Officer: āWill you respond without thought?ā
Subject: āYes, Sir.ā
Repeat until no deviation is present. Voice becomes automatic. Identity dissolves.
CLOSING MAXIM:
Obedience begins where language ends.
giving up my power brings me peace.
This might make some people uncomfortable, and thatās okay. Itās not for them. But for me? My peace, purpose, and deepest joy come from one thing: being beneath the man I belong to.
Not figuratively. Literally. In our home, in our dynamic, in our life - he is above me. I am his. And I am less.
There. I said it.
Not āequal in different ways.ā Not āpartners with differing roles.ā I am inferior to him in our chosen lifestyle. Willingly. Proudly. With full knowledge and full submission. I gave up my power, and in doing so, I found peace.
Modern culture tells women like me that we should fight to be on top. Or at the very least, to never be less than anyone. Weāre supposed to demand equality, keep score, share every burden, lead just as much, assert constantly. And I tried that. I lived that life.
And I was miserable.
Because deep down, I didnāt want to fight for control. I didnāt want to lead. I didnāt want balance. I wanted hierarchy. I wanted to kneel. I wanted to serve. I wanted to surrender completely, not because Iām weak, but because my strength was never meant to be used to dominateāit was meant to be poured into devotion, obedience, care, and loyalty.
So I gave him everything. My choices. My voice. My body. My rules. My freedom.
And what I got in return was structure, safety, protection, purpose. A love that wraps around my soul like a blanket fresh out of the dryer. Warm. Complete. Anchored.
He is above me in every way that matters in our dynamic - his word outweighs mine, his comfort comes before mine, his judgment overrules mine, and his needs always outrank mine. My role is to serve. To obey. To please. Not as a performative thing, but as my actual identity. Itās who I am, every minute of the day.
And strangely, that kind of complete surrender brings freedom. Because I donāt have to be in charge. I donāt have to lead. I donāt have to split everything 50/50. I donāt have to carry the weight of the world alone. I get to kneel in my rightful place and just be. Small. Soft. Humble. His.
Itās not popular to say, and I donāt need it to be. This isnāt for the world to understand, itās for me to live. And I live it joyfully.
I am beneath him, and I love it here.
Devotional Training: Strength in its inferiority.
Zane would do anything to grow bigger. He even tried hypnosis. After he woke from the trance, he had an epiphany. The only way to grow massive was to give up his free will and focus his mind on 2 things: working out and serving his new Master anyway he desired.
Of course brah, the only good muscletoy's priorities to be is to obey your Master and workout for Him. You don't need free will for that, you don't even need to think about anything else than workouts and Master at all
FUCK bro i know your skeptical i know ur all like fuck this smartass cant be changed, he fights it too much, he doesnt listenā¦ but dont let that stop you mane, i know im not good at this but i wanna be bro and isnt that all that matters? i wanna be your bro, big, i want you to take over my whole fuckin life, rip it all away bro. you can take my smart if you want it, if it helps you, you should have it like uhhh like payment, yeah, for helpin me bro out broā¦ you gotta help me, bro, i need your help.
Good bro. focus on me. your big. iām in control of you now. you have no choice and make no decisions. iām with you always and iām always watching. youāre going to need a lot of work, but i love a challenge, bro, and i always get what i want. i always win. are you ready to lose, dumbass? gotta lose to win.
uh, i guess soā¦ yeah, big bro. do your fuckin worst.
ok bro. first things first. gotta fix your look. why dont you just sit down and ill give you a nice new haircut. i know how you said your longer hair is bothering you latelyā¦
but, uh -
even if you donāt wanna cut it now, youāll thank me later. youāre always gonna be thanking me later, dummy. big bro knows best. repeat that while i get the clippers.
big bro knows best big bro knows best big bro knows best big bro knows
*click* zzzzzzsssshhhhā¦.
big bro knows best big bro knows best
Good bro. this is gonna be a sick fuckin brohawk.
Thatās it, give in, big bro knows best, let your big bro change you into a perfect bro
Honestly dreaming of it, giving control to a big bro who would take pleasure in the challenge, taking over my life to change my smart nerdy self into a big dumb bro
When we first discussed it, he described it as a very robust program. It had a mental, emotional and physical aspect to it. It would address everything I had been thinking and feeling. I was surprised when we began with nutrition. I had an ectomorph sort of frame, but it was more flabby than fit. It was a month of eating right before we went to the gym. I was amazed at how quickly the muscle came on when we did. He said that my body needed to be in a position to create muscle and thatās why we started with nutrition. I began to like the way I looked.
At about the three month mark - one month of nutrition, two months of nutrition and working out - he took me to a waxing salon, and had all of my hair removed. I wasnāt that hairy. It obviously hurt a bit to have my balls waxed, but I did it. Three days later when I told him they werenāt sensitive anymore. He locked me in a chastity cage and started training me mentally and emotionally to be a healthy and happy submissive. Itās hard sometimes to accept that I am in fact at a lower place in the hierarchy and that my role is only a supportive one. Iām not just used for sex though. Iām a houseboy. I do the chores. I work to make his life easier even if it makes mine harder. That is my role. Itās been a fantastic partnership. I feel like I am exactly what I was born to be. While I normally enjoy everything he dresses me in, I wish he hadnāt chosen the black speedo. Itās hard to see my cage when I wear black. I want everyone at the beach to know that Iām a boy. That Iām his boy and that I know my role.
Chastity and the Master/slave relationship
Chastity of the slave is absolute and essential to life as a slave. Chastity is not about occasional chastity play. Chastity beyond a couple of hours, or a couple of days, is no longer just for fun, but becomes a tool for devotion, power exchange and emotional connectivity. It is about the letting go of a slave's ego and giving a Master charge of his body. Chastity locks the slave down, physically and emotionally, to his Master. A collar is a chain or strap and a lock that goes around the neck and symbolises that body and mind is owned. A chastity device grabs the genitals and controls any chance of erection. It is an active form of participation in terms of ownership, a constant reminder of who has the key, who owns the slave sexually. The chastity experience dials up quite quickly. Day one it is erotic. Day two slave craves to make his keyholder happy. Day three slave is desperate for him. Within a week slave will do anything for his Master. Chastity as a lifestyle and as part of power exchange is different from chastity as kinky fun. The slave is even not allowed to ask to be unlocked. An infraction of this rule must result in punishment. A begging to cum is transformed into pure devotion to please the Master. Long term chastity is not about when the slave will orgasm next, it is about total power exchange, letting the Master own the slave body entirely, and knowing that Master will unlock the chastity device if he wants to. Chastity has its own power and mental energy. But, because itās a mental journey, itās important to remember that it grows, morphs and changes constantly. Itās a dynamic progress and doesnāt work well with rigid protocols and rules only that are not monitored.
Chastity device
The chastity regime must be ensured by a chastity device permanently locked on the slave's genital area with a penis tube designed for preventing full erection. The slave will even sleep with his chastity device on. The Master shall make every effort to prevent ejaculation, stimulation, gratification or pleasure of the penis by keeping the chastity devices working and using devices that comply with the latest technology and safety. If it is necessary to remove the penis from a chastity device, the Master will endeavour to maintain control of the penis through restraint or direct supervision. The penis must be reinserted into the designated chastity device as quickly as practicable at the end of an unlocked period.
Unlocked times
Unlocked times must be prevented as much as possible but will occur during periods of cleaning, for health reasons or any other reasons where genital area must be freely accessible. Ā If the slave is not locked he may under no circumstance ever touch anywhere in the genital area without express permission to do so. During slave cleaning periods, or when changing any worn devices, the controlling party will wash, clean, shave and otherwise care for the genital areas of the slave. Slave will never allow any third party to touch or play with genitalia without the express permission of the Master. The slave will wet himself in the shower, he will soap himself, bar of soap may touch his genitals and asshole, but he will never touch the slave genital area himself. The Master may remove the slave's chastity device for cock and ball training sessions. The slave is expected to become and remain erect during these rare occasions as a symbol of his never-satisfied need. As it will have been many weeks, perhaps months, since the slave had been unlocked, an erection is not likely to be difficult. The Master will likely tease the slaveās genitals, massaging them and toying with them.
Masturbation and sexual intercourse
The chastised penis shall never be masturbated or touched by anyone, including the Master, slave or any third party, in any stimulating, gratifying or pleasurable manner, with the intention to induce a cumshot. An erection of the chastised penis is periodically welcomed for health reasons and shall be induced as clinically as possible in a humiliating and punitive manner with every attempt to avoid pleasure to slave. Unless explicitly ordered by the Master, slave shall never pleasure itself sexually. This includes touching or manipulating its nipples or the penis in any sexually gratifying or stimulating manner or penetrating its anus in any sexually gratifying or stimulating manner. The Master may, at his sole discretion, deny any or all sexual intercourse to slave for any period of time, including in perpetuity. Slave shall have no sexual intercourse with any third party. Slaveās sole sexual satisfaction shall come from servicing the Master. The penis shall never again engage in active sexual intercourse and shall never penetrate a body cavity or be touched by lips or tongue.Ā
Sex drive
At times the urge to ejaculate may be almost unbearable for the slave. Ā He has standing permission to express his sexual feelings. As he is not allowed to speak or may be gagged he should do this by deep moanings, temptations to touch his genital area through the steel chastity device, or by winding his body. The Master will not punish the slave for expressing his feelings. Ā Instead, the Master will likely hold the slave very closely tight and lecture him gently on his role and purpose as a slave, and the role and purpose of the Master.Ā He will explain that the purpose of the slave is to need his Master, that being aroused is a symbol of this need, and that his horniness is absolutely welcomed. Ā He will explain that the purpose of the Master is to have his needs satisfied, that his orgasms are a symbol of this satisfaction, and that the slave should be proud and derive contentment from helping his Master ejaculate. Ā
Mental Control
Chastity has a high potential to control a slave mentally. In this heighten state of mind, where the slave is so focused on relationship and sexual needs, there is no possibility to escape from this mental prison. This can be difficult for the slave to deal with other life stresses, when not be able to get a stress relieved by sexual relief and relaxation. Chastity prevents the slave from escaping the ownership. Itās so massive that he canāt turn his vision away from it. If there are issues and tensions in the relationship, there is no way for the slave to temporarily escape from it. He is trapped in this mental prison by his Master. The chastity will certainly continuously train his devotion and submission. An increased sex drive, combined with the mental effects of chastity, leads to an unruly power that needs to be exchanged with the Master. In a final state this leads to a total power exchange in the Master-slave relationship.Ā
Chastity and TPE (total power exchange)
Chastity may cause emotional instability for the slave. After some days in chastity what starts out as erotic and fun can quickly turn intense. When the intensity of chastity starts peaking, the slaveĀ“s mind is drifting in a very heightened space, but release is denied by Master. Without the chastity device slave would probably immediately jerk off for stress relief, but when locked up his Master deliberately boils him in that heighten state of mind. Master keeps slave's dick tightly locked and direct his high sexual energy into devotion and submission to him. Chastity is a great tool for power exchange, but without close monitoring this part of power exchange is often unknown to the Master. If Master is paying close attention to his slave, power exchange through chastity can be a space where Master is watching his slave squirm and struggle. When Master is also at the peak of sexual energy strong power exchange is happening and the Master-slave relationship is balanced. But the nature of chastity often means that the submissive slave is focused a lot more on the dynamic and the Master than the Master is focused on his slave. The slave is being constantly reminded, physically and emotionally, so his focus can be very strong. That can lead to instability and disbalance. The slave may crave for attention, and the Master might not understand that the chastity regime he has imposed on his slave is so powerful and take the slaveĀ“s desire negatively. Chastity is an active keeper of the slaveĀ“s sex drive in the hand of the Master. Often it can be overlooked that the Master must have a desire for a slave that constantly craves his attention. The Master of a chastity slave must want his slave to suffer and struggle for him and must take his sexual power. Then the equation is balanced, and the power exchange flows nicely back and forth. When slave's energy is so strong, it can feel like the slave is pushing the Master for more dynamic. The Master may feel annoyed and tell the slave to relax and chill, or worse, tell the slave to shut up. The slave canāt do anything but float in this space of submission, emotionally frustrated by his Master, but unable to explain this frustration. Master will keep this in mind and do everything not to run into this situation. Ā Ā
