La Petite Chaperon Noir

BE STUBBORN ABOUT YOUR GOALS, AND FLEXIBLE ABOUT YOUR METHODS. ~I WILL FIND A WAY~

[liivn]

Three Barn Owls at a quatrefoil church window. Photographer: Richard Brooks. Date: July 2009. Shot at a local church in North Norfolk, England.

[micromontage]

what should I listen to

[segamascott]

women

[wibbly-wobblytimey-wimey]

[unusual-suspects]

x

[you-are-another-me]

[slipng]

⋆・₊ different shaped flowers 𓇢𓆸 ۫ ꣑ৎ

[perriaeyjeve]

[quotemadness]

“We all have one foot in a fairytale, and the other in the abyss.”

— Paulo Coelho

[bnmxfld]

“Words never mean what we want them to mean.”

— Jonathan Safran Foer

[ari-kanon]

🌸CUTE PANTS🌸

[random-brushstrokes]

Leopold Schmutzler - The Flamenco Dancer (n.d.)

[incorrectbuddie]

Buck: Let's play hide and seek.

Eddie: Okay...

Buck: I'll hide and you seek professional help.

[thoughtkick]

“I still catch myself feeling sad about things that don’t matter anymore.”

— Kurt Vonnegut

[literary-connection]

Having access to someone's heart and mind is not an achievement, it is a privilege. Treat them gently.

[brightwanderer]

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

[luniary]

ig: frollein_herr

[icardamome]