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Remus will see reason when he's sober, I'm sure of it. He just... Perhaps might have handled it better if he got the whole story all at once in a more private setting. That's not to say this is your fault at all, he's just prone to freaking out isn't he?

I don't think he realized how fucked up the whole story was. None of us did. He's been so protective of you before learning that, and he seems to be back to being protective.

I think he just needs time to work through it, and clearly you do as well. It may require a more private conversation once he's sobered up.

But Sirius... He adores you. He would never agree with the vile shit those people are saying.

your-brightest-star

I couldn't tell anyone while it was still a thing... And until we left... By then it wasn't really anything. It was in the past and I couldn't see a way to comfortably bring it up.

Maybe I hesitated because I always knew I came off badly however the story was told.

I know this has caused damage to us... He can still adore me and be hurt. Or have a lesser view of me.

rabbit-1961

I don't think he'll have a lesser view of you.

Honestly Sirius... You don't come off as the bad one.

You were young. Whether you see it this way or not, you were manipulated. You were almost kidnapped. You were a victim in this story, even if you enjoyed most or all of your time with him. That enjoyment doesn't change the fact that it absolutely should not have been happening and that you could have been very seriously hurt or worse if he had gotten his way.

Remus knows that. He will see that when he's sober.

You were a victim. That doesn't change how much we love you.

If anything, I imagine he'll be feeling very guilty about his reaction and trying very hard to make it up to you and ensure you feel safe and loved and protected.

your-brightest-star

He's always been so angry about it.

He only changed when he was drunk and heard the kidnapping part.

rabbit-1961

I think it was more the kidnapping that changed his feelings. Realizing it was much more serious than just a fling with a professor.

The being drunk is just an unfortunate side effect of his earlier freak out.

your-brightest-star

So if he hadn't completely lost his shit and tried to do something actually against my will, he'd be mad and I'd be the shit.

Seriously, look at the consensus! You say I'm that that and the other. Not to blame or whatever. Normal people seem to think I am.

rabbit-1961

You think this site is full of normal people?

Dear brother, this is the worst gathering of people to let judge you for anything.

I think no matter how it ended, Remus would had still come around. He's always said it was wrong from the very beginning. He just... Well, I suppose he got a little insecure.

your-brightest-star

This is what I cannot understand.

He says it was wrong. He has said he believes me to be a victim or preyed upon.

And yet he gets very angry at me

rabbit-1961

Perhaps it's misdirected anger? It doesn't make it okay at all, but if he's dealing with complicated emotions and letting anons manipulate his feelings while you were denying anything wrong with the situation... It was a bit of a recipe for disaster.

I just think it will go better when the two of you can talk through it privately.

#marauders rp

rabbit-1961

He's very drunk and emotional but consenus seems to be that I am some kind of full on whore and have ruined Remus' life.

He is so drunk though. What if he realises that they're right when he sobers up..?

@your-brightest-star

Well one, they're completely and entirely wrong.

Remus will see reason when he's sober, I'm sure of it. He just... Perhaps might have handled it better if he got the whole story all at once in a more private setting. That's not to say this is your fault at all, he's just prone to freaking out isn't he?

I don't think he realized how fucked up the whole story was. None of us did. He's been so protective of you before learning that, and he seems to be back to being protective.

I think he just needs time to work through it, and clearly you do as well. It may require a more private conversation once he's sobered up.

But Sirius... He adores you. He would never agree with the vile shit those people are saying.

your-brightest-star

I couldn't tell anyone while it was still a thing... And until we left... By then it wasn't really anything. It was in the past and I couldn't see a way to comfortably bring it up.

Maybe I hesitated because I always knew I came off badly however the story was told.

I know this has caused damage to us... He can still adore me and be hurt. Or have a lesser view of me.

rabbit-1961

I don't think he'll have a lesser view of you.

Honestly Sirius... You don't come off as the bad one.

You were young. Whether you see it this way or not, you were manipulated. You were almost kidnapped. You were a victim in this story, even if you enjoyed most or all of your time with him. That enjoyment doesn't change the fact that it absolutely should not have been happening and that you could have been very seriously hurt or worse if he had gotten his way.

Remus knows that. He will see that when he's sober.

You were a victim. That doesn't change how much we love you.

If anything, I imagine he'll be feeling very guilty about his reaction and trying very hard to make it up to you and ensure you feel safe and loved and protected.

your-brightest-star

He's always been so angry about it.

He only changed when he was drunk and heard the kidnapping part.

rabbit-1961

I think it was more the kidnapping that changed his feelings. Realizing it was much more serious than just a fling with a professor.

The being drunk is just an unfortunate side effect of his earlier freak out.

your-brightest-star

So if he hadn't completely lost his shit and tried to do something actually against my will, he'd be mad and I'd be the shit.

Seriously, look at the consensus! You say I'm that that and the other. Not to blame or whatever. Normal people seem to think I am.

rabbit-1961

You think this site is full of normal people?

Dear brother, this is the worst gathering of people to let judge you for anything.

I think no matter how it ended, Remus would had still come around. He's always said it was wrong from the very beginning. He just... Well, I suppose he got a little insecure.

#marauders rp

rabbit-1961

He's very drunk and emotional but consenus seems to be that I am some kind of full on whore and have ruined Remus' life.

He is so drunk though. What if he realises that they're right when he sobers up..?

@your-brightest-star

Well one, they're completely and entirely wrong.

Remus will see reason when he's sober, I'm sure of it. He just... Perhaps might have handled it better if he got the whole story all at once in a more private setting. That's not to say this is your fault at all, he's just prone to freaking out isn't he?

I don't think he realized how fucked up the whole story was. None of us did. He's been so protective of you before learning that, and he seems to be back to being protective.

I think he just needs time to work through it, and clearly you do as well. It may require a more private conversation once he's sobered up.

But Sirius... He adores you. He would never agree with the vile shit those people are saying.

your-brightest-star

I couldn't tell anyone while it was still a thing... And until we left... By then it wasn't really anything. It was in the past and I couldn't see a way to comfortably bring it up.

Maybe I hesitated because I always knew I came off badly however the story was told.

I know this has caused damage to us... He can still adore me and be hurt. Or have a lesser view of me.

rabbit-1961

I don't think he'll have a lesser view of you.

Honestly Sirius... You don't come off as the bad one.

You were young. Whether you see it this way or not, you were manipulated. You were almost kidnapped. You were a victim in this story, even if you enjoyed most or all of your time with him. That enjoyment doesn't change the fact that it absolutely should not have been happening and that you could have been very seriously hurt or worse if he had gotten his way.

Remus knows that. He will see that when he's sober.

You were a victim. That doesn't change how much we love you.

If anything, I imagine he'll be feeling very guilty about his reaction and trying very hard to make it up to you and ensure you feel safe and loved and protected.

your-brightest-star

He's always been so angry about it.

He only changed when he was drunk and heard the kidnapping part.

rabbit-1961

I think it was more the kidnapping that changed his feelings. Realizing it was much more serious than just a fling with a professor.

The being drunk is just an unfortunate side effect of his earlier freak out.

#marauders rp

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