garfield hates me :( @rabbithearted-selfships - Tumblr Blog

hi!! i'm monday, and i go by any gender neutral pronouns! (they/them, it/its, and pretty much any neopronouns). i'm an adult, neurodivergent, white, lgbt, and aspec. i think it's safe to say i've probably been selfshipping since i was around 9 or 10. i'm mostly here to have fun and make friends! i'm excited to meet other selfshippers, especially people who selfship with pokemon characters!! speaking of which, here's my f/o list! (it's kinda empty right now because i'm still shy about it!) however, please don't follow if: - you fall under basic dni (racists, misogynists, lgbtphobes, pedophiles, zoophiles) - you run an nsfw/kink blog (selfship blogs with tagged nsfw are fine!) - you're a proshipper/comshipper - you have a real person as your f/o - you romantically selfship with pokemon (it personally makes me uncomfortable) - you harass people - you don't respect boundaries (also please note that i block liberally)

#about me.txt

i love my fictional wife btw

#f/o: no clue #my posts.txt #i'm a no thoughts head empty kind of guy

selfshipsdontsink

isn’t it crazy how real our f/o(s) becomes to us? they become our support system, perhaps if only just a voice in the back of our minds we call theirs, always there if we need them. no matter where we might be, or what might be happening, they’re a piece of us.

i just love that we create this beautiful thing, a relationship that maybe no one else knows, a world we call our own with them. i think it shows a great amount of imagination and creativity.

but above all, it shows our willingness to let ourselves be loved on some scale. even if we can’t allow that love from any other source.

never stop loving your f/o(s), guys. they’re some of the best parts of us :)

#other's posts.txt #positivity.txt

selfshipblognomore

Your f/o called!

They wanted you to know they’re thinking of you, and sending you hugs and kisses. 💕

proship/comship DNI

#imagines.txt #other's posts.txt #another banger post from rebbeccaselfships

carbo-ships

do you try to come up with ship names for your s/i and f/o?

yes

no

not a selfshipper / clicky button heehee

Voting ended onJun 10, 2023

#sometimes i don't but it's often easier to talk about them in ship names rather than not #esp if i'm trying to like... catalogue my stuff

ewewelle-deactivated20240701

[ — ♡ ]

they finally gave you a hug which made their face brighten up with joy.

at that cozy moment, their arms wrapped around you, enjoying your warm touch. they grinned heartily and murmured, “you’re incredibly soft and huggable.“

their love for you took centre stage, and the world around them faded into insignificance.

they were overjoyed in the warmth of your hug “gosh i love you so much.” knowing they could hold you close, feel your delicate touch, and admire every minute.

#other's posts.txt #imagines.txt #(i am melting btw)

cheshire-cat-self-ships-deactiv

Self-Shipping form!

I want to see how diverse the self-shipping community is! So I made this form! I'll be taking submissions for a month so from now until July 9th! Thank you in advance for participating!

Self-Shipping!

cheshire-cat-self-ships-deactiv

I went back in and added an option for Romantic Attraction! I apologize for not adding it initially! It completely slipped my mind!

#other's posts.poll

zagzie

“this female character was such a bitch” don’t care + didn’t ask + i’m holding her hand right now and you’re not

#other's posts.txt

selfshipblognomore

Imagine your f/o coming up from behind you while you’re sitting in a chair, and they wrap their arms around your shoulders and rest their head against yours.

proship/comship DNI

#imagines.txt #other's posts.txt #this is soooo cute :pleading_face:

ovur

I want to be in a problematic yaoi relationship with somebody

#other's posts.txt

fates-theysband

lrb got me thinking:

if your f/o's source includes humans living alongside at least one other sapient nonhuman species, do you make your s/i a human or a nonhuman?

my s/i is human whether my f/o is human or not

my s/i is nonhuman whether my f/o is human or not

my s/i is whatever my f/o is; i'm human if they are or nonhuman if they are

my s/i is whatever my f/o isn't; i'm human if they're nonhuman or vice versa

it depends on what i personally would want to be/what works for the ship

i don't have any self ships with nonhumans

funny results button

Voting ended onJun 7, 2023

bonus: put in the tags if you're trans and/or neurodivergent!

pr*ship Do Not

#idk i typically do nonhuman s/is when there's an opportunity to do so i think #sometimes i'll make it so that when they're human they get mistaken for nonhuman <3 #i'm trans and neurodivergent btw #other's posts.poll

fos-and-ocs

Your f/o listening to you talk about the things you're passionate about

#other's posts.img

sweetladylane

MY specific self shipping edition poll

my first f/o was from the sonic franchise

i have more than one f/o that's from a game where you make your own character

i fell in love with an f/o before i even read/watched/played etc. their source

i started out hating an f/os character

i have an f/o who usually is only referred to by their last name

i've accidentally gotten f/os from comedy media thats not supposed to be serious

i have dedicated pinterest boards for my s/i(s) and selfship(s)

two or more of these

none

Voting ended onApr 19, 2023

#two or more #other's posts.poll

messmerism

shoutout to self-shippers who are easily scared and/or sensitive to noise!

maybe you're like me and still get suprised even when you can see something coming, and worry that it would discourage your f/os from approaching you! well, don't worry. they completely understand, and are more than willing to move slowly around you, and won't shy away from you if you don't want them to. they also have no problem doing things like closing doors or setting things down more gently! they want to make sure you feel safe and secure, no matter how mean, loud, or fast-moving they might be otherwise ♡

pr*ship/variants DNI

#imagines.txt