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Let go. I’ve got you. Projection and Photo by @kingmallard Soul sister and eternal friend @linde.soul #lightbath #kingmallard #earth #projection #nude #nudeshoot #letgo #intimacy #igotyou #photoshoot #nudephotography #vulnerable #trust (at Brooklyn, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/BysdbtVlHFC/?igshid=1nzcpmib6237r

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Hold people tight. Hold them longer. Give them a squeeze. Take a breath together. Take two. Really feel them. Rub their back. Show them they’re loved. Give them your warmth. Hold their face. Look them in the eyes. Kiss their forehead. Give something special. Give a meaningful embrace. Give Good Hugs. (at Brooklyn NYC) https://www.instagram.com/p/BynWcsdFBAx/?igshid=1p2qajns0hggs

I N T I M A C Y There are many kinds of course such as physical, emotional, intellectual, sexual, spiritual, and experiential. While all kinds of intimacy are sacred, the rules are always the same. They all involve showing yourself & being vulnerable and they all demand courage and trust. Understanding the different types of intimacy and how necessary each of them are to our well being is crucial. It’s important to know where your voids are. For example, one might seek out sexual intimacy when what they’re really lacking is emotional intimacy. This is especially common in men and usually leads to disappointing and unfulfilling long term results. No shade to casual sex though. Sexual intimacy can absolutely exist exclusive of other kinds of intimacy in a healthy way. Every kind of intimacy has its place but for now I want to address physical intimacy. There is often a misconception that physical and sexual intimacy are one in the same. They are not. In a culture that is so dramatically touch deprived, physical intimacy means giving good hugs, holding hands, cuddling, touching while you talk, and kissing your friend’s faces. Far too many people are starved of these affections because of what I believe to be the gray misunderstood area between sex and touch. These two have become dangerously inseparable for some. It’s been revealed that when two people make skin to skin contact, their heartbeats sense one another and begin to align in pace as the bodies move towards equilibrium. Isn’t that incredible?! What better way to physicalize a mutual respect and understanding. In the same way that a good conversation fosters a meeting of the minds for intellectual intimacy, touching creates a physiological harmony and balance between those engaged for physical intimacy. So go touch your friends dammit! ...and if you already made that phrase dirty in your head, maybe consider those implications. 😉 Thank you to @kingmallard for this photo and projection and for being so skilled at creating beautifully intimate and safe spaces and to @linde.soul for sharing that space with me and always making me feel deeply known. (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/BylDwYJlkvo/?igshid=ouu8iwwdokqv

Simply Iconic. Two things I’ll miss about NYC are the street art and the artists. Can you name all four of these New York City legends? No looking at other comments! (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/BybDrhClyY1/?igshid=1ice5ybgiyqqs

Be Good. Be Bold. Have Fun. Keep it Simple. Forever my mantra. ✨😉 (at New York City - Manhattan - Nyc) https://www.instagram.com/p/ByX__ncFP-L/?igshid=1k467unezzrps

Wherever I go Whomever I meet I hope trails of happiness Echo my feet And when I depart With my story of you I’ll leave some of me So you’ll remember me too (at Tabatinga, Amazonas, Brazil) https://www.instagram.com/p/ByVOYCRlktn/?igshid=1v649bk10d8bz

I’m onto something. You with me? Here’s the deal: It won’t be easy, familiar or anywhere near our comfort zone. It won’t be domestic or secure, routine or predictable. It won’t be anything that we’re used to. But it will be so much better. Wanna find out babes? Let’s leap into the unknown 🖤✨ (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/ByGaBnUFwmx/?igshid=kfcgx5oumrak

To be kind is to be friendly, generous, and considerate. One thing we should all strive towards is how to be more compassionate and tender with one another. Each new day brings a multitude of opportunities to show kindness. Kindness can be a smile, a phone call, a good tip, a compliment, words of encouragement, anything that brings a little bit of extra light into someone’s world. We all have this extraordinary power to make each other’s experience better by loving one another in this way. It’s a waste of human potential to squander it. Pro tip: creating joy in others is the fastest, easiest, and most effective way to manifest joy for yourself. When one gives, two receive. And now, three quotes on kindness: “Remember there’s no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.” -Scott Adams “A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees.” -Amelia Earhart “Unexpected kindness is the most powerful, least costly, and most underrated agent of human change.” -Bob Kerrey (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/ByDcP1nHJLs/?igshid=sunso5zrr6zj

We’re all here pursuing the same thing. Every decision we make is ultimately, whether directly or indirectly, towards our own happiness. Even the daily things we don’t want to do, we do because we believe that eventually they’ll pay off and lead to our happiness. Even those who dedicate parts of their lives to others are happy to do so. There isn’t a single thing anyone does which isn’t tied to the intimate relationship they have with their happiness. Understanding this, how can we make things easier for all of us? It’s a simple enough concept that comes with a beautifully implied code of ethics: 𝐃𝐨 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐬𝐨 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐞𝐥𝐬𝐞’𝐬. Boom. We maintain our humanity in being friendly, generous, and considerate. We don’t get in each other’s way. We seek to understand one another and never try to limit each other’s expression. We keep kindness, tenderness, and warmth in our hearts and let that constantly radiate out. We honor and celebrate each other. We have empathy. We quite simply, are not assholes. (at Bedford–Stuyvesant, Brooklyn) https://www.instagram.com/p/ByA-cdbF2Vl/?igshid=1n5bv541btli8

“What about the boat times?” Shoutout to anyone who knows where that quote is from. Y’all the real OGs. 🙌🏽😎 If you know it, comment another quote from the video below. 😏 Throwback to our boat ride from Peru to Brazil on the Amazon. (at Amazon River) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx-N-Vklocq/?igshid=lcszw26rcmg4

My greatest superpower is knowing that no matter what life throws at me, I’ll be okay. I’ll figure my way out. I’ll adapt, learn, improvise, whatever it takes. That’s where my fearlessness comes from. That’s where my true power lies; confidence and trust. It’s great to have support, but the only person I’ve ever really needed to have faith in me is myself. With that, I can do anything. So bring it on world. I’m ready for all of it. Make me, break me, shake me, reshape me. (at Bedford–Stuyvesant, Brooklyn) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx7hljZFh_N/?igshid=1hp9l1f7coi6d

My greatest superpower is knowing that no matter what life throws at me, I’ll be okay. I’ll figure my way out. I’ll adapt, learn, improvise, whatever it takes. That’s where my fearlessness comes from. That’s where my true power lies; confidence and trust. It’s great to have support, but the only person I’ve ever really needed to have faith in me is myself. With that, I can do anything. So bring it on world. I’m ready for all of it. Make me, break me, shake me, reshape me. (at Bedford–Stuyvesant, Brooklyn) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx7hljZFh_N/?igshid=1i838drxqa6i1

More freedom. More love. More community. More creativity. More originality. More boldness. More rebels. More dance. More song. More sex. More adventure. More laugher. More you. Less hierarchy. Less hate. Less possession. Less control. Less stubbornness. Less bandwagon. Less conformity. Less guilt. Less shame. Less jealousy. Less lies. Less ego. Less I. (at Bedford–Stuyvesant, Brooklyn) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx5L08DFuLe/?igshid=14lw4h92z9fug

Up up up and away! Now looking for travel recommendations in Europe, North Africa, and the Mediterranean. Where oh where shall I soar? Leave your suggestions and experiences in the comments! I want to hear about your best adventure☺️🙏🏽😁🌍 (at Brooklyn NYC) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx0I6t2nLE9/?igshid=5vdhu8nsoydr

Intuition is the feeling of your soul nudging you; that silent subtle tug in a direction meant for you. It’s a quiet voice, but a powerful one. Too often, the more tangible forces at play in our decision making can overwhelm this magic knowing. Sometimes attempting to intellectualize our choices can lead us further from our calling. Our intuition doesn’t care about our self imposed worries, doubts, and insecurities. It doesn’t care about our longing for comfort. It leads us steadfastly towards what is meant for us. Despite our desperate attempts to rationalize steering clear of the unknowns that frighten us, our intuition is the cosmic intelligence that knows better. It operates beyond our understanding; beyond the logic of the mind and the limited words of men. In mastering your life, it’s essential to learn how to give up control and listen to the answers you already have deep inside of you. Tune in. Functioning at this higher level means trusting yourself, the universe, and your intimate connection to everything. It takes us out of our bodies and into the spiritual realm. It’s the definition of trusting your gut and following your heart. It knows what you need. Let intuition guide you. (at Bedford–Stuyvesant, Brooklyn) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxxS734HDit/?igshid=1hdee0dwdx5po

Looking back at you baby. Thank you for allowing me to thrive. It’s been a wild six years filled with art, creation, movement, dance, love, laughter, sex, growth, business, heartbreak, obstacles, balloons, music, and friendship. I wouldn’t trade a single damn second of it. Feeling like the luckiest man alive. ❤️🙏🏽😌 (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxvEg5FHghV/?igshid=1vjxmthxedjwn

When the Brazilian Amazon gives you a rainstorm, the only logical thing to do is strip down and have a photoshoot. We have free rain. #rollthecameras Photo by the one and only @gregswalesart (at Belém, Brazil) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxsUD7NHr2Q/?igshid=1d2d4sfe1q9pu

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