Hi guys today is one of the proudest days i’ve ever had in my life, my son Sabaai is finally here. Today i just wanted to share what it’s been like for the last 24 hours and show you some great pictures of my cute little man.
You might as well say it was labour my partner had our first child so quick even the nurses where like WOW that was really quick. She started having contractions at about 6 am, they looked pretty full on to me she was in a lot of pain. ( guys just be there and do what she says, say as little as possible.) My partner could barley i thought we where going to end up having our baby in the bedroom.
Lucky for us she didn’t, her mum and i managed to get her to the car and with a very quick drive we made it to the hospital. I’ll be honest that hour sitting at home and then the trip to the hospital was so nerve racking, you just stress and want everything to be ok. Watching your partner go through pain is horrible and hard to watch, you really just have to man up and go with it.
Well as we got to the hospital they grabbed vim out the car put her in a wheel chair and flexed basically i still had the job of finding a car park and then navigating the hospital corridors on my own in order to find them. I’d already made the decision i was going to park just about anywhere and it didn’t matter what happened to my car or the fine id get, vigilante parking styles was the option i was running with in my head getting an 80$ + parking fine was worth it to see my son born, and lucky for me i went that route and parked in a quarter of an hour park right out side the doors.
the longest part was trying to find where they where what floor, what room, remember last i saw them was dropping them off so i could then park car everyone is so concerned about your wife / partner they just grab em and run your not really told much. ( try walk around the hospital a few times before the big day fellas you don’t want to get lost and not all births take hours and hours as ill get to in a minute.)
After a bit i finally tracked them down and lucky for me i found them when i did because as i walked into the room not more than 15 mins after dropping her off the head had started coming, and no more than 5 minutes later my baby boy was here. A grand total of 20 mins yep she was in hospital for 20 mins and he was born. My partner laboured for 1 and half hours at home and gave birth in about 20 mins at the hospital and for a first child thats pretty impressive.
The first 12 hours where scary, there was this life and it was up to me to make sure it was safe and everything was ok. No matter how much youtube and parenting videos, blogs, books Ect.. you read or watch nothing really prepares you for those first few hours.
It’s hard to put into words what runs through your mind in though’s first 12 hours as im sure it’s different with everyone, but i guess the one thing in common is your just worried about everything and anything and it’s all related to your baby being ok.
My partner and I couldn’t sleep a wink and we watched him intensely for the entire night, so messmerised by our child and the thoughts of the future we will have with him. ( Brings a tear to my eyes just thinking about having a kick of the footy with my little mate. ) You have no idea what love really is until you have children, i never thought that was a fair thing to say in the past but now i know it’s a 100% true statement.
The first 24 hours are much the same at the first 12 but surprising you know so much more now about your baby than you did 12 hours before, must come with being a parent you just get stuff done and learn fast. The things we stressed about in the first 12 hours seemed so minor now, all you care about is making them happy.
Their just so helpless and small its really amazing and even still writing this post 3 days later looking over the bassinet he’s sleeping in i’m speechless the only word that comes to my mind is love and i think that says it all.
I recently created a forum and a website for sabaai, you can find it at sabaai.org. At the moment it’s a forum about all things happy and peace. pictures, memes, videos, jokes, fun stuff, friends ect ect.. go over there an make an account.
For those that didn’t know sabaai stands for happy in khmer and at peace in thai it’s used in a few asian languages and roughly means the same thing across the bored. Hence a forum about such things. We have dubbed sabaai.org The Sabaai Organization
The Sabaai Organization The Happy Organization – Changing and making the world happy.
I want my son to be something special so i have created this website for him to take over when he’s older i hope he does amazing things helping people.
As you guys know we created a forum for dads and mums to share and connect with other parents it can be used as an advice forum or just a general chat forum for parents to discuss children such as things todo with the kids, educating children, teaching them to talk, father and son ideas, mother and daughter ideas, ect.. ect..
Sabaai Is Finally Here Hi guys today is one of the proudest days i've ever had in my life, my son Sabaai is finally here.
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