he/they/it

DNI: basic criteria, loli/whatevercon, proship, pro-contact para, “zoosexual”/(no)map, kink blog, anti-agere/petre, non-traumagenic “systems”, radinclus, you support/justify any of the problematic things mentioned.

[raspbrris]

reminder to myself

we were all raised in a transphobic society. although these prejudices are rooted, deconstruction is important for healthier relationships with those around you. remember that it is not up to you to educate the people around you; letting go of retrograde rethorics depends only on them. if they refuse to do so, stay away from them for your own well-being. even if it’s a difficult decision at the moment.

and most importantly; you don’t deserve to be excluded for being trans. people who do that, they’re the ones that don’t deserve you.

[raspbrris]

new term i created in my head: negpushing

used for characters (series/movies/games etc), it’s when u push unreasonable negative expectations on a character, and this criticism is influenced by u simply disliking them.

negpushing can also happen when u place urself as an omniscient observer in the relationships between characters and judge one based what u think another character thinks of them.

ex.: wow, cuz in the fandom everyone says he would never be able to get into a relationship with him bc they THINK he’s not well seen by him and the other characters… ppl negpush him so much.

ex 2.: byf: i negpush [character] a lot.