reminder to myself
we were all raised in a transphobic society. although these prejudices are rooted, deconstruction is important for healthier relationships with those around you. remember that it is not up to you to educate the people around you; letting go of retrograde rethorics depends only on them. if they refuse to do so, stay away from them for your own well-being. even if it’s a difficult decision at the moment.
and most importantly; you don’t deserve to be excluded for being trans. people who do that, they’re the ones that don’t deserve you.











