RatTheSewerDweller

Hi! I'm Rat, he/it/mutt/pup Queer, neurodivergent, chronically ill, just a funky lad Mostly reblogging fun fandom stuff (primarily rqg and arcane currently)

[imjunebitch]

if u call urself a misandrist I'm going to assume ur homophobic. I'm gonna assume that ur at the very least weird about trans women like me, that you're going to judge them based on how they pass, on how out they are, on what level of transition they are at. I'm gonna assume ur racist too. like. idk "misandry" very feels like the sorta "feminism" someone is really into when they're in high school and carefully making sure to never think about anything.

[imjunebitch]

and do you believe yourself to be an unfailing arbiter of who that is? and is it truly all cishet men? do you hate men of color, if they are cishet? what about intersex men? why not just hate bigoted people? why find groups of people, groups big enough to undoubtedly contain marginalized people?

[ihaveokayart]

Seeking Cat Artists

(I will pay)

Hello everyone! Bit of a more worrying post today.

My cat Moosh was rushed to the vets and almost put into the ICU last night because she suddenly lost the ability to use her back legs. She’s going okay since after some pain relief but it’s really just made me remember how precious my babies are to me.

I want to share some photos of my two 12 year old kitties and if anyone is able to draw them or recommend someone I can commission that would be lovely.

I’m planning on getting a tattoo of them both eventually and obviously need some art of them to do so.

Thank you so much for reading, feel free to share ur own cat photos below too!

If you can repost or share to art friends that would be really appreciated

IHaveOkay (@i_haveokay) on Threads

Hello everyone! Bit of a more worrying post today. My cat Moosh was rushed to the vets and almost put into the ICU last night because she su

IHaveOkay (@i_haveokay) on Threads

I’m planning on getting a tattoo of them both eventually and obviously need some art of them to do so. Thank you so much for reading, feel

[perverted-asexual]

I think a lot of people hear "Misandry/hating men isn't a constructive use of time and does harm to marginalised men." and hear instead "You have no reason to be wary of men, they're all victims too".

I, as a trans man, am still wary of cis men I don't know. I am still very aware that a lot of peri-cis white men have not only priviledge, but power over others, including me.

I am also aware that I don't feel safe around people who recite things like "Kill all men" or are self proclaimed misanderists. And this mindset can lead to dangerous ideals of bio-essentialism and even gender-essentialism that labels any man evil, any woman pure, and treats trans men as traitors.

And a lot of these takes lump all men in together when intersex, disabled, trans and men of colour, etc, do not inherintly carry all the same privilege as the white, able bodied, peri-cis man you all default to. In fact they are all oppressed in their own ways. (Money, education and upbringing can also play a part in this)

No one is saying that you can't or shouldn't be wary of men in general, or you can't of had bad experiences with them. But acting as if it is the default of all men does not help anyone but excuse it as something all men do and not an active choice some men make. And something our society does not correctly punish or call out.

The problem is the patriarchy, not a random disabled trans man implying that maybe he understands what oppression feels like.

Insisting on lumping in marginalised men, and the rise in hatred towards trans men lately, does not help anyone. Its not punching up. It's punching sideways.

[trans-masked]

Kind of along the lines of what I was talking about earlier but combatting transphobia with misogyny or racism is never going to be cute

You see this kind of “joke” a lot about how ugly and disgusting TERFs are and it almost always pokes fun at them being fat or having blue hair or being gender nonconforming and it’s just fucking GROSS! You’re better than this! Transphobia is really easy to insult and argue against and deciding to be misogynistic in response to transphobia just makes you an asshole too

[leodoesnt]

oh rusty quill gaming oscar wilde, we're really in it now

[just-an-enby-lemon]

One of the many sad things about the lack of an RQG brazilian fandom is that the song Oceano from Djavan would be perfect for Zoscar fic tittles.

Like I don't think it is the Zoscar song but I think it is the Zoscar fic song (there is a cleae difference in my head, I cannot explain it).

"Você deságua em mim, e eu, oceano" (You flow into me, and I'm ocean) is the perfect Zoscar fic tittle. [And the next sentences in the song are:

"E esqueço que amar é quase uma dor"

[And I forget that loving is almost a pain]

Só sei viver se for por você.

[I only know how to live if it is for you]

And Oceano also has the sentence "Amar é um deserto e seus temores" (Love is a desert and all it's fears) wich is just a good fic tittle.

Also portuguese is a very musical language so the senteces just sound so good y'all. Like the translations are still cool and usable but the power of the words in portuguese! Like the sentence after life is a desert is "vida que vai na sela dessas dores" (a life that rides on the saddle of these pains) and no translation will ever sound as good.

Anyway Oceano is the Zoscar fic song and I sfill hope one day people use it's lyrics as fic tittles (even if the fandom is very dead) if I hace to do it myself.

[overclockedopossum]

If you tell neurodivergent people they need to "get comfortable with being uncomfortable" I am putting gravel in your shoes. No you can't take the gravel out. You have to deal with it. Dealing with it makes you a better person. What do you mean "pointless suffering".

[queerpeers]

yeah im “transitioning” *dissolves into tiny pieces as i click to the next slide*

[queerpeers]

[xuxii-bunny]

Is there a transfem version?!?

[queerpeers]

ask and ye shall receive

[roseycanvas]

Nonbinary version?

[queerpeers]

enjoy 💛🤍💜🖤

[queerpeers]

like status: sick 😎

[british-catgirl]

happy pride month I fucking love powerpoint slide transitions and gender transitions

[isuggestrespecttranspeople]

Reblog status: sick 😎

-🌦️🍭

[beneathsilverstars]

tomorrow i have to give my daughter’s pikachu plushie gender-affirming surgery

[beneathsilverstars]

(original tags: she literally had tears in her eyes while she explained that her pikachu had a boy tail shape. i was like hey she can still be a girl. all we know from her body shape is what her body is shaped like. maybe if we asked her she would say that she feels like she’s really a girl. and my kid was like BUT POKEMON CANT TALK 😭😭😭😭 so i was like ‘ok. pikachu. if you want to use he/him say ‘pika’. if you want to use she/her say ‘chu’. and if you want smth else say ‘pikachu’’. and my daughter had her say ‘chu’ and i was like see there you go! now. she doesn’t HAVE to change her tail shape. she can totally be a girl with a rectangle tail. but if she would feel more comfortable with heart shape bc she prefers it, or so that people won’t assume she’s a boy, i can make that happen. so pikachu what do you think? do you want tail surgery? and pikachu agreed enthusiastically! so. plushie gender-affirming surgery first thing tomorrow i guess!)

her results look great, congrats pikachu! 💖⚡️🏳️‍⚧️

[dimensions-allofthem]

All the lawyer's reactions to experiencing Ally for the first time:

Their immediate reaction to the lawyers thinking they aren't a liability:

[ratthesewerdweller]

ummm you know whens the um um whenyou know thatfeling when um you call a beautiful girl pretty and then later she smiles and waves at you and you literally cant stop thinking about it the entire rest of the day yknow that feeling um yeah

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

“I turned out fine,” she says, staring so far off into space that you can see andromeda reflected in her eyes

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

A trans woman will say “I’ve made peace with it” while clutching a stuffed animal so tightly that it begins to come apart at the seams

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

Say it with me, everyone! Understanding logically why you’re experiencing a feeling is not the same as actually processing that feeling!

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

Healing isn’t forgetting. Recovering isn’t putting something away and never looking at it again. Moving on is a process that includes backslides and relapses instead of demonizing them.

[knightofleo]

[herpsandbirds]

Common eider

[phynoma]

This needs to be immortalized because it's what made me turn on the sound. And they were right

[footlongdingledong]

rarely do i repost things and especially from shittr but this video is shutting down core partsof my mental processing i think

[crabussy]

hi trans kiwis and friends. if you haven't seen the news, they're trying to pass a frankly insidious bill in aotearoa to define the terms 'man' and 'woman' based on biological sex. this unsurprisingly reflects a lot of similar cruel efforts happening overseas at the moment. IT HASN'T PASSED YET, but I figured I should speak up about it because this is happening as we speak.

(screenshot from the linked RNZ article)

it seems very fucking bleak!!!! please don't lose hope! it hasn't passed yet and a lot of the shoddy bills suggested by the coalition have been shot down already. it's still worth knowing about. you don't have to share this post if you don't want to. I just know that a lot of my followers are kiwi. if there are any updates as to what we can do to push back against this, I'll make a relevant addition. kia kaha, okay? love you all.

[crabussy]

hi trans kiwis and friends. if you haven't seen the news, they're trying to pass a frankly insidious bill in aotearoa to define the terms 'man' and 'woman' based on biological sex. this unsurprisingly reflects a lot of similar cruel efforts happening overseas at the moment. IT HASN'T PASSED YET, but I figured I should speak up about it because this is happening as we speak.

(screenshot from the linked RNZ article)

it seems very fucking bleak!!!! please don't lose hope! it hasn't passed yet and a lot of the shoddy bills suggested by the coalition have been shot down already. it's still worth knowing about. you don't have to share this post if you don't want to. I just know that a lot of my followers are kiwi. if there are any updates as to what we can do to push back against this, I'll make a relevant addition. kia kaha, okay? love you all.

[crabussy]

hi trans kiwis and friends. if you haven't seen the news, they're trying to pass a frankly insidious bill in aotearoa to define the terms 'man' and 'woman' based on biological sex. this unsurprisingly reflects a lot of similar cruel efforts happening overseas at the moment. IT HASN'T PASSED YET, but I figured I should speak up about it because this is happening as we speak.

(screenshot from the linked RNZ article)

it seems very fucking bleak!!!! please don't lose hope! it hasn't passed yet and a lot of the shoddy bills suggested by the coalition have been shot down already. it's still worth knowing about. you don't have to share this post if you don't want to. I just know that a lot of my followers are kiwi. if there are any updates as to what we can do to push back against this, I'll make a relevant addition. kia kaha, okay? love you all.