Some said in their exact words “Sarada fell in love with a hero. Sumire fell in love with a boy who was doomed to fade away. That is the difference. The real agony belonged to Sumire”
“If we take the starting point of where Sarada fell in love—as BoruSara fans claim, in Chapter 10—she clearly blushes while talking about how 'cool' Boruto is. Meanwhile, Sumire fell in love with Boruto exactly as he was.” “Not with a cool hero who inspires her to chase goals, but with a simple, doomed boy.”
I never thought about that 🤔
Hmm thats not a bad take, but I think it goes even deeper than that.
Sarada already confirmed she didnt like him at that time, but lets just say she did, that took place way AFTER the Nue arc.
When the Hokage mountain scene happened, if we concede that she fell for him there, Sarada fell inlove with the new ‘cool’ version of Boruto who wanted to be like her dad, who would be her ‘protector’, she fell inlove with a hero like you said, the cool ‘new’ Boruto who vowed to protect her, the hero that helped take down Momoshiki and everybody loves now.
Off topic but I am genuinely curious if she would’ve had the same response if he did say he wanted to become Hokage too, because she looked both sad and disappointed when she thought Boruto was gonna aim for the same goal as her, so would the attraction still have sparked or was it really only the fact that he didnt have the same goal as her? Food for thought.
On the other hand, Sumire fell for a Boruto who wasnt a hero and didnt have any huge feat and wasnt beloved by everyone [besides ppl like Katasuke, but his peers treated him normally] she fell for just regular Boruto, the one who was worried sick about her when she got hurt, who affectionately called her class rep, who believed in her till the very end, who risked his life to save her, who told her she could choose her own path, who held her hand and helped her return home, who literally went to his dad to ask for leniency during a time where he would NEVER ask his dad for anything, but he made a point of doing so for her.
Sumire didnt fall for an image or a title, she didnt fall for the Hokage’s son or the village hero, she fell for Boruto.
This is why her feelings come off more genuine overall, cuz no matter where you argue Sarada’s feelings really started, both are very shallow or just plain ridiculous.
If its the Hokage mountain then she basically just fell for the ‘new’ cool hero version of him who supports her dream now, and if its where she says it happened [when he kept going through a hard time] then its essentially pity, neither of these are serious.
For Sumire she fell for Boruto for who he is and who he was from the start, she didnt mind that Boruto was rebelling against his dad trying to follow his own path and make his own name for himself, she admired him for it.
Sarada however DID mind, she was annoyed by it and resented him for it, so it makes you wonder if Sarada really even likes Boruto, or she only likes him because he conformed more into what she wanted [someone who respects Naruto and the Hokage, supports her dream, appreciates his dad and doesnt bad mouth him anymore] again, just food for thought.
For example, with Sakura you can say she loved Sasuke regardless, her feelings didnt change when he went off the deep end, she loved him for who he was and his betrayal didnt change that, she never wanted him to change into some different person, she just wanted him to be himself in a healthy mind space, to be happy and at peace with ppl who loved him. If she wanted to change him, she’d never tolerate him being gone for long periods of time like she does, Ino said so herself, she’d never go for it, but Sakura understands that thats who Sasuke is, thats how he protects the village from threats only he can deal with, making sacrifices only he is willing to make. Sakura obviously isnt super happy with it, but she understands, respects, and supports him nonetheless.
Sarada I cannot say the same for, nobody can, if Boruto had stayed as he was rightfully pissed off at his dad, still rebelling, and still didnt support her dream, I cannot say that Sarada would still fall for him, because Sarada didnt understand, respect, or support any of that.
Now that Boruto is basically in the same position as Sasuke, we see he does nothing differrent than Sasuke did, he was gone for years at a time with no contact despite having a way to and the only reason Sarada tolerated it was cuz the plot demanded she do, but as soon as that was no longer the case, first thing she did was ask Ada where he was so she could go after him even after hearing Ada say he’s intentionally keeping his distance and doesnt wanna be found, and even when Sumire explains that she’s right and why, Sarada STILL argues for WHY she NEEDS to go after him.
So whereas Sakura is obviously not overjoyed at her husband being gone so often but still supports and understands him and doesnt try to force herself to go along with him [when Sasuke said no, she respected that, when he didnt say no, she followed him and he didnt object] Sarada will just flat out disregard that and still insist on going with him no matter what, and if Boruto had ANY intention on allowing that he would’ve done it by now but he isnt.
If he can allow Inojin to be instant transmissioned to where he is for assistance, theres no reason he couldnt do the same for Sarada IF HE WANTED TO.
But he didnt, cuz he doesnt want her involved, and everytime she is shes a damsel in distress he has to save is more than enough reason why he leaves her out.
But I’ll go even further, Boruto is safe at his hideout with KK, nobodys found them, so theres no harm in him bringing her there, if anything its the safest place for her to be since nobody knows where it is, so all the more reason for him bein more than capable of bringin her there but again, he chooses not to.
Didnt mean to get off topic but my point is we already seen Sarada would be the complete opposite of Sakura, she wont respect Boruto’s wishes, because even after being called out by Sumire her mentality didnt change, she still talks about protecting Boruto, helping Boruto, and being his strength, everything she said went in one ear and out the other, she has no intention on stopping going after him or getting involved, the only thing she wont do is ask Ada or Sumire about where he is anymore since she knows unlike her they actually respect Boruto’s wishes on being left alone and not getting in his way.
All thats to say that Sarada doesnt really like Boruto for who he is, nor does she even respect his path in life, she only really liked the initial coolness of it when he announced it, but now that its ACTUALLY in effect and he’s ACTUALLY acting out the Sasuke role, we see she aint really down for it.
Which we already knew would be the case anyway since Boruto and Sarada never said they were ok with their fathers positions, they just learned to accept it cuz it wasnt changing, but neither ever said they liked it now or would wanna be with someone in that position, so its not surprising that now that Boruto is acting as the supporting shadow that Sarada isnt tolerating it and trying her best to get involved even knowing he doesnt want her to.
Meanwhile Sumire’s remained the same, she supported Boruto at his rebellion, supported his new path he chose for himself, and she supports him keeping his distance from them for their sake, she clearly isnt happy about it and wants to do more, but she knows thats not what Boruto wants from her and she respects that.
So yea, I agree, just as Sakura suffers in silence while understanding this is the role her husband plays and she supports him and stays strong despite the distance, Sumire also suffers in silence, staying supportive of Boruto and not making things harder for him than they already are, she stays strong even tho she very obviously misses him alot, but she understands his position, and respects his wishes for her NOT to try and find him and why he doesnt WANT to be found.
So yea in that sense Sumire definitely suffers more, obviously she and Sarada are both suffering equally, but in different ways.
Sarada suffers openly, she doesnt hide anything, and she actively chooses to make herself suffer MORE by being reckless and careless, so desperate to be near Boruto and be of help to him and failing miserably that she ends up being a liability rather than help, which just makes her feel even worse because she wants to help him, but never succeeds, and then she cries and whines about it.
Sumire suffers in silence, she could yell, she could complain, she could make a big fuss, but she knows thats not what Boruto wants or needs, he feels bad enough having to be apart like this in the first place and she understands that, so keeping up a calm strong front eases some of the weight of guilt off of him, he already knows this is alot on her, but seeing her unconditional support and faith in him is a huge weight off his shoulders knowing that Sumire has his back and isnt falling apart because of him.
So I say Sumire suffers more because Sarada atleast vents, she lets those feelings out and doesnt repress them. Sumire however does, not cuz she has to, but cuz she understands what Boruto needs and it isnt her falling apart about how much she misses him and wants to help him, but understanding and support.
He doesnt need her worry making him feel more guilty than he already feels, he needs her support even if its tough, he needs her understanding even though its hard to stay strong and endure, he needs someone he can come back to and not feel judged or condemned, even if it would be justifiable, this comes with the territory.
Loving Boruto means accepting this situation with omnipotence, and his role as the supporting shadow, he doesnt need someone with him who knows that upfront yet still complains every step of the way, who makes him feel bad for it, guilty for it, even though they already knew this is what comes with being with him.
Sorry if I got off track here and there but anyway I agree with whoever made the statement, I believe Sumire and Sarada suffer equally, but differently, cuz alot of Sarada’s suffering is self inflicted, like if your trying to convince ppl who are brainwashed by an alien gods power for 3 years thats literally your own fault if you kept getting your feelings hurt being ignored, and its your own fault if you keep trying to fight battles you know you cant win and fail everytime.
Sumire suffers more cuz everything she’s experienced wasnt any fault of her own, and she doesnt vent or let her feelings out the way Sarada does because she’s trying to stay strong for Boruto, she wants to help him more but she understands why she cant, then even when he comes back she’s forced to deal with the sudden development of Sarada liking him as well and flaunting that infront of her [even if it wasnt intentional that was still how it came off] and now she has to go up against someone who has all that history with him, even if she doesnt say it, I think we all know that in that situation you would feel a little insecure about it because obviously they have the advantage.
Doesnt mean Boruto has to like her just for that reason, their history as childhood friends could very well be the reason why he DOESNT like her cuz thats all he’s ever seen her as, but the point is you’d still understandably worry if you’ll lose because of that advantage, doesnt mean you will, but its a valid and understandable concern.
So thats another thing that adds to the hurt Sumire suffers from all this.
So yea Im sorry this got kind of all over the place, I dont blame you if you dont read it all or go ‘what the hell is she yappin about?’ 😭 but I hope atleast some of this made sense, I dunno, I havent been sleepin the best lately so Im probably not conveying my thoughts as well as I normally do when Im well rested >.< my apologies.