Eating disorders are NOT contagious! Stop treating them like they are. Itās a mental illness, just like any other...not contagious!
Thin celebrities arenāt The Reasonā¢ļø people have eating disorders, although the way thin bodies are presented may cause or contribute to feelings of insecurity or shame about food and the body.
The invention of size 0 and 00 are not The Causeā¢ļø of eating disordersāand they arenāt unrealistic sizes, some people are just small and need those sizes.
That whole idea that we look in the mirror and see a big fat person when we actually look like skeletons?? Itās just not universal, and itās strange to assume that it would be. Iām sure some people do have that experience, but itās not universal. My eyes are fine, I can see my body just fine, itās about feelingsānot about what my body actually looks like.
Not everyone with an ED is super skeletal skinny, or white, or female, or able-bodied, or teenaged. Just like everyone else, we come in all shapes, sizes, colors, ages, etc. We arenāt all skeletal, white, teenage girls š¤·š½āāļø
For some reason, in all the fiction Iāve seen about EDs, the girl with the ED has divorced parents with whom she has a rocky relationship? Dysfunctional family situations are a big risk factor and can contribute to stress and disordered eating. But everyone has different experiences and, needless to say (I hope) some of us have good relationships with our parents, some of us have parents who arenāt divorced, etc etc. This one feels particularly harmful though, because it kind of implies that itās the parentsā fault that their child has an eating disorder because they got divorced.... And divorced doesnāt always mean bad! *EDIT* Divorce can also be very good, as it ends marital conflict that can be traumatic to children and can remove children from a toxic and abusive situation. Unfortunately, this doesnāt erase the trauma that happened before the divorce and doesnāt mean that the divorce itself wonāt be traumatic either. Children need love, care, and stabilityāwhich they can adequately receive from divorced parents, if no abuse is involved, but sometimes this isnāt provided and the trauma can manifest as an eating disorder.
People with anorexia DO actually eat. Sometimes, we even eat normal, balanced, sufficient meals. Which leads me to...
Not all days are bad days, at least not for everyone. I have an eating disorder, but some days I feel totally fine and normal. Just like any other mental illness...itās not constant uninterrupted anguish.
āDiet cultureā is not The Causeā¢ļø of eating disorders, but it may contribute to feelings of shame about food and the body.
Eating disorders are āaboutā a personās relationship with food and their body...but they arenāt really ABOUT a persons relationship with food and their body. For some people, itās about control, or shame, or gender dysphoria, or fear of adulthood, or purity. For some people itās about a fear of abandonment, fearing that people will leave you and not take care of you unless youāre sick.
Not everyone with EDs hides their body under baggy clothes! Not all of us feel the need or want to cover up.
Like all mental disorders, EATING DISORDERS ARE NOT A LIFESTYLE CHOICE. Theyāre complex mental disorders, trust me! No one just chooses to starve themselves, force themselves to vomit, eats until it hurts, or exercise till they pass out. These arenāt fun quirky lifestyle choices.
Not all of us ālook sick,ā you can be a normal weight and still have an ED. This goes back to #5. Iām olive toned and tan which makes my complexion look healthier than the skeletal, white, teen girl youāre expectingāthat doesnāt mean Iām doing great.
Getting up to a healthy weight or ālooking healthier/betterā doesnāt mean someone in recovery is actually doing better. If they were in inpatient care, they likely HAD to gain weight to get out...this doesnāt mean the mental part of this MENTAL ILLNESS is cured.
On the other hand, being thin doesnāt mean someone, even someone with a history of EDs, isnāt doing okay. Again, and I cannot stress this enough, people with EDs come in all different shapes and sizes. Even if someone is ātoo thinā and in recovery, it doesnāt mean theyāre faking, all bodies are different maybe this is normal for them, or maybe they arent at a normal weight for them but theyāre really trying to gain weight and get better. Maybe theyāve broken the ED in their brain and are waiting for their body to followādonāt invalidate their progress by commenting on their size.
Anorexia and Bulimia arenāt the only eating disorders! Thereās orthorexia, diabulimia, binge eating disorder, OSFED, etc. No one is worse than another per se, everyone has different experiences, different severity, and no matter what ED someone has it is always deeply painful and everyone deserves help!
Not all eating disorders are connected to or caused by a single traumatic event or by any traumatic event at all. Everyone has different experiences, and some people are just predisposed to develop eating disorders...
If you havenāt guessed by now there is no single Causeā¢ļø of eating disorders. People have different life experiences, different brains, different habits....
People with EDs are not an enemy to people in larger bodies, fat acceptance, body positivity, etc. That would be like saying that people with depression are an enemy to happiness and positivity, and I think we can all agree that thatās not the case. Body positivity is wonderful, and Iām sure there are far more people with EDs than you think who are strong advocates for body positivity or who want to be able to accept the body positive message but arenāt currently capable because of their disorder.
Having an eating disorder doesnāt mean that you just hate food, that you judge others for eating or what they eat, that you fat shame others, etc. I know a lot of people with EDs who LOVE food and are wonderful cooks. Some people with EDs may feel uncomfortable being around people who are eating, but not everyone feels that way. As with any insecurities, people sometimes project their body insecurities onto othersāitās not a great thing to happen, itās not fun, but it is fairly normal and it doesnāt mean that someone with an ED is necessarily judging otherās food choices or body.
Treatment and recovery are different for everyoneāand they should be different for everyone. Itās wrong and dangerous to administer the same treatment to every person with an ED. People with both Type 1 diabetes and an ED (usually, have been misusing insulin to lose weight) need vastly different care than someone with a different condition, and beyond that different people just need different care. No single thing works for everybody, it would be nice if that was the case though!
Please feel free to keep adding, itās really important to bust these myths, stereotypes, and misconceptions. Just like everybody else, people with EDs are widely varied and diverse and itās important that we recognize this to make it easier for people to recognize disordered eating and get help.
Feel free to comment on this post. Are there any ED myths I missed that really bug you? Am I wrong?? Let me know!
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