This is the message I posted to her privately when she started to harass me on MULTIPLE BLOGS, that she conveniently cropped out most of the message:
I don't think you're toxic. YOU ARE TOXIC. You are HORRIBLE HUMAN BEING. That it's all my fault you have a shitty situation. It's all my fault because I WON'T GIVE YOU MONEY because you didn't get your way. You wished me to burn BURN IN HELL. You wished for me to be in your situation. YOU ARE NOT A GOOD PERSON. YOU NOT A GOOD FRIEND. I don't feel anything for you anymore. You take your shit out on me all the time. I'M DONE. I won't give you power over me. Because I know the MINUTE things get hairy because as SOON AS you lose your job again it's "Jess I need money". I'M DONE. You get no more chances from me. You blew every single one of them. I will take you to small claims court if I have to. I'm not taking you back.
You want this on your terms so you can manipulate me again and again and again. You NEVER ONCE THOUGHT ABOUT HOW YOUR TOXIC MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOR AFFECTED ME! NOT ONCE! I told you NO I told you I CAN'T. I begged you to stop asking me for money. But you never did.
But when I wanted to write, when I wanted to ship things with you you were never in the mood for it. YOU NEVER WANTED TO DO ANYTHING but watch YT. I waited for days for you to do replies on discord and here on tumblr. BUT I NEVER GOT ANYTHING for weeks and weeks and weeks. But I could only write when it was on your terms.
I am done with you. I don't want to ship with you anymore. I don't want to be friends with you. I'm NOT OVER the pain you caused me, but I'm over you. I've deleted everything off my Lumine and Dan Heng that you made for me. NOTHING I have is what you made me on my computer. You just want me for money. That is your sole concern. You are EXACTLY like Lupin. You are EXACTLY like her.
I DEFENDED YOU TO PEOPLE WHO KNEW YOUR TRUE COLORS. I told people you were a good person. I COMFORTED YOU WHEN LUPIN AND RECI FUCKED US OVER WITH THEIR LIES. But now I see that a lot of it wasn't lies. I COMFORTED YOU WHEN THIS GOT FUCKED UP WITH YOUR SITUATION!!! I TRIED SO HARD TO BE A GOOD FRIEND, TO FIND YOU A PLACE TO STAY BUT ALL YOU WANTED FROM ME WAS MORE MONEY WHEN YOU KNEW I COULDN'T AFFORD SPENDING ON YOUR ASS. I TOLD YOU I COULDN'T DO IT WHEN I DIDN'T HAVE A JOB, I TOLD YOU THAT. BUT THAT'S ALL I WAS. WAS A WAY FOR YOU TO LIVE WITHOUT GETTING A JOB. You are a rotten human being.
You're only sorry now because I won't give you more money. You're sorry you lost your "sugar mama". Because that's all that I was to you. You never once actually cared about me. Just my money. If you did, you would have gotten a job, you would have never asked me for money. Just admit it to yourself already.
And DON'T YOU DARE BRING CHERRY INTO THIS! I SEE HOW YOU'RE TREATING THEM! You made them almost cry because YOU ONLY "CARE" ABOUT MY BANK ACCOUNT.
She refuses to get a job or refuses to stick with the job because “it’s too hard, I don’t like it” but yet when I vented out my frustrations with my job, it was “I have to do things I don’t like”. Why does she THINK she’s special? She always relied on me to pay EVERYTHING for her.
She tells EVERYONE about a friend’s S/A in hopes of people viewing them as a dirty wh*re. She talks badly behind that friend’s back. Always has.
She used a former friend of hers DISABILITY MONEY on herself on Genshin or Honkai Impact and would get angry that the former friend would try and get a part time job to EARN extra income to support both of them because it would mean less disability money.
She wants to say I was never supportive. I WAS! I helped her JOB HUNT. I HELPED her TRY TO FIND A PLACE TO LIVE, many times in fact. I WAS SUPPORTIVE OF HER GOING ON DISABILITY.
But you know what? I got excuses when I told her she needed to file for it.
“It’ll take 2 years and I don’t have the stuff I need.” was her most frequent excuse.
I told her, “My late ex-stepmom got on disability with the help of a FREE LAWYER and it only took six months.”
I was told that she would look into it and she never did.
Instead she WANTED TO DRAIN ME of my money, THREATEN TO KILL HERSELF, yell at me about how I’m being mean, hateful, etc. Ask my friend Cherry. They will tell you that it’s all a lie invented by Mary to make her out to be the better person. I couldn’t visit my family. Couldn’t just hang out. I had to be home at 6pm or 8pm so she could immediately call me and talk to me for hours on end when I didn’t want to voice chat. But I couldn’t tell her that. And when I didn’t get on? she’d throw an absolute fucking fit.
An instance of her going “you don’t care”. Now I don’t. I started not to then actually. Come to think of it. She was slowly chipping away at me in the Caring Department. This was about my work schedule btw.
“You don’t care about me.”
“I’m better off dead. No one cares about me. I’m just gonna go swallow some pills.”
“I’m cutting myself right now, Jess. Bye.”
I REBUKED her NUMEROUS TIMES. I told her that I cared so many times that by the end the phrase was pointless.
Also, does anyone remember the drama surrounding Mister Ryan from RT? She still defends him, not the victims. I had to hear about that on VC numerous times.
And for those of you being like, “Well Jess/Iris, you can sue her. Take her to small claims court like you said you would.” Yeah I could, but where am I going to send the papers to hmm? I have no address. All I know is that she is living in Lawton, OK. That’s it. Plus with her track record of not holding a job/getting a job it would BE POINTLESS to go in front of a judge, have them rule in my favor and have the judge COURT ORDER Mary pay me back. Unless the court order also mandates this lazy piece of shit human being get an actual job.
She refuses to get any type of help. She blames everything on me. She keeps saying that I need to “grow up” and apologize to her. But I’m 33 years old, renting out a room from my Dad’s girlfriend while I work to go full-time at Home Depot. I pay rent, my car loan, give grocery money, car insurance, my own bills. I do laundry, keep my room clean, take out trash/recycles and get my own stuff from the store. The only thing I don’t do is cook and that’s because my dad’s girlfriend told me that she wants to treat me as a daughter and won’t force me to cook if I don’t want to cook. Which according to Mary/Lynx is me leeching off my family or my dad’s girlfriend. Which it isn’t. And I’m not going to apologize to her because I have no need to apologize. Not to her anyway.
I do apologize for not getting the full story from my new friends and not really believing the victims until much later though. It would have saved me a GRAND TOTAL OF $9,848.36 and a lot of emotional pain and distress if I had done so earlier.
Some More Evidence against Mary/Lynx/Ether.
That “I’m not afraid of slapping” is a threat directed towards a 16 year old who found out about her and her vile ways through their cousin’s friend, one of my friends, and then all the writing with the hashtags are all her telling the world and the 16 year about how I’m the one who should be made fun of and how I need to grow up and get on meds, how I’m a horrible human being and she’s never paying me back the $9,848 she manipulated out of me.
Mary/Lynx/Ether has the same writing style and word vomits as all of her other blogs (the second photo is an example of how Mary word vomits in the tags). Or should I say her blogs since she’s using she/her and they/them on this blog. If non-binary why not use they/them across ALL BLOGS only? And she’s commenting on the fact that SHE GOT BLOCKED BY A 16 YEAR OLD. She once told me that she blocks minors as soon as they follow her. But she’s so desperate that she started to write with one and then when she blocked Mary/Ether/Lynx. She immediately accused me of stalking.
I know where to look, I know her writing style. I know where to look if she’s going to try and hide. It didn't take me long to find Mary/Lynx/Ether when I have her BLOCKED. Especially since putting fates/fated as part of a URL is still very popular.
This is so stupid. All over a MINOR blocking you Mary.
All of this was over SOMEONE WHO FOUND MY CALLOUT AND GAVE IT TO THE MINOR GHOST/LYNX/ETHER/MARY WAS WRITING WITH! As if I have THE ABILITY TO STOP ANOTHER PERSON. And yeah ME SLOWLY UPDATING A CALLOUT WITH relevant material of Mary’s shit is “stalking”. Mary will vindicate callouts against Lupin and Reci, but as soon as she does something people don’t like, LIKE FORCE MPREG ONTO PEOPLE, FORCING HER ‘TRANS’ CHARACTERS INTO GETTING (trigger warning) RAPED FOR THE SAKE OF PREGNANCY OR FOR ANGST ALL THE TIME ISN’T TRIGGERING AT ALL TO PEOPLE WHO CAN’T STAND IT.
(the latest photo): And TELL THAT TO THE SPAM MESSAGES IN MY INBOX AND THE SHITTY “CALLOUT” BLOG YOU MADE Mary TO TRY AND CALL ME A STALKER.