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This Valentines day was possibly the best one I’ve ever had .. I got engaged to my best friend. I still can’t believe how lucky I am to have this man in my life. He has changed everything in my life for the better, he is just absolutely amazing. After getting out of my prior relationship with an emotionally abusive, controlling asshole, I never knew something like this was possible. He takes care of me so completely, is beyond understanding of all the hang ups I still have and is the absolute sweetest. Plus he’s pretty cute. I just love him so much.

#love #engagement #valentines day

So I found out yesterday that the man I spent 8 years of my life with, planning and wanting a future with .. was a pathological liar. Not just little lies, but big, life altering lies.. He manipulated my emotions, used me and lied to me for 8 years. I don’t really know what to feel right now.. We broke up over a year ago, he’s been out of my house since May, I’ve moved on with someone I’m so much happier with.. but just learning all this now, just how much of everything was a lie.. it’s not easy and I’m not really sure where to go from here..

#abusive relationships #tw #pathological liar #lies

How's life been?

It’s been good.. Been keeping busy with a new man in my life.. trying to sort out my life. all that fun stuff.

which part of New Hampshire? if you don't mind me asking

The west part lol .. I’m right on the border of Vermont .