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Language Of Birthdays: April 13 - Aries
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The Day Of The Policy Makers
Those born on April 13 do not have the overwhelming need to be a star, like many of the people born in the Aries 13 period. When they are at the center of the action it is generally due to their usefulness rather than ambition. What they are most comfortable with is being part of a decision making team, in which they often play a dominant role. It is ideas which most excite and stimulate April 13 people, not glory or prestige.
April 13 people are less concerned with developing a sparkling personality than with honing a message. They do not care for the high-blown verbiage that usually hides a rather mediocre or even non-existent idea. Those born on this day like to know what others think, straight out, without subterfuge. This does not mean that they themselves are incapable of subtlety or make poor diplomats. Actually, as mediators they can be quite superb, able not only to bring hostile parties together but also to reconcile widely diverging points of view. Whether in the workplace, at home or among friends, April 13 people are often called upon when all else has failed and the un-saveable must be saved.
Given such talents, April 13 people are of course psychologically astute but also have the knack of finding common ground for agreement. Those born on this day have a profound understanding of ideas and language, as well as the power it carries. Often, however, in their personal lives they can be baffled and bewildered by what loved ones express, particularly if it is not to their liking. As good as they are in the diplomatic and policy-making areas, they may be on occasion surprisingly insensitive to the needs and wants of those closest to them. Frequently those born on this day take on great responsibilities for the support, nurturing and education of their families, but nonetheless fall short. Sometimes the energy required to fulfill such commitments has been spent in other areas, and there just isn't enough left. In addition, those born on this day must beware of conflicts with those above them in the family hierarchy.
Because of their fine social skills, April 13 people do well in professions which involve working with others (e.g., social work), or planning for others (e.g., administrative positions). Those born on this day are generally convinced that they know what is best for the common good, but must also learn to listen carefully to feedback. Deafness to objective evaluation of their work may stand in the way of their success; even worse is a gradual insulating of themselves from any criticism at all. April 13 people must always try to keep an open mind, and once having made a decision not be ashamed to change course if events warrant it. Essentially, cultivating flexibility is crucial to those born on this day maintaining an integrity and effectiveness of action.
Getting plenty of sleep is very important to people born on April 13, as it will help them maintain their composure and calm. In addition, frequent rest periods, whether weekends or extended vacations, are a must. Occupations like teaching which guarantee such time off may be attractive to those born on this day. Since April 13 is primarily a day of strong mental energy, those born on this day must take care not to neglect their physical side (regular sex with a loved one is strongly advised). Moderate exercise is recommended for April 13 people, just enough to keep in shape and invigorate the body. Eating a well-balanced diet also does wonders for stabilizing them. If weight is not a problem, as many as three well-rounded meals a day, served at regular hours, will be both healthful and enjoyable.
Don't take on too many responsibilities
Keep your energy flowing; use it or lose it
Be more sensitive to the personal needs of those closest to you
Control your temper and beware of family conflicts