You need to watch this, because MESSAGE.
“You know you’re not ready for a relationship, when you’re not fully prepared to give or to fulfill the desires and needs of someone else.”
“ You have to ask yourself: Am I prepared to make time and effort to give this person what they need? If the answer is ‘no’ , then you’re not ready for a relationship. ”
“What you want is convenience, and that’s not a relationship. A relationship is not about convenience. A relationship is about two people working together , two people giving to eachother… it takes WORK!”
“If you’re not ready for the work, don’t apply for the job.”
These are simple facts you have to learn to grasp if you want to be in a real , healthy, committed relationship. This is honestly the base of what you’re relationship should be founded on.
I look back on all the times when I was made to feel like I am hard to love because I demanded more than the average, mediocre “tell you I love you all the time even though I have nothing to show for it” type of love.
It really makes me sad to realize that we’re already conditioned to think the bare minimum is worth your time , and wanting anything more than that makes you look too complacent.
Let’s stop allowing ourselves to fall prey to people who make promises and commitments that they have no will , or desire to keep because they’re not willing to put in the work.
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