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So I've been talking to a childhood friend who lives closely on facebook for a few days and he still hasnt given me his number. He asked me to txt him on fb later and I said no rudely. And he said why?? And I said becuz I'm tired of texting on here, you must have a girlfriend or something? And he hasn't texted back. Why do you think he didn't text back? Was I mean?

Maybe a little. Just ask him for his number! "Hey I gotta get off facebook, what's your number so I can text you?" And if he won't give it to you something's up and you should get outta that.

I have terrible anxiety and can never tell if I'm being reasonable or not. My boyfriend never compliments me on social media. I'll post pictures of myself and he never says things like "you look beautiful/I love you" etc. But he'll compliment other girls pictures. Am I in the wrong for this hurting my feelings? He's mad at me and said I act like a 16 year old girl, then blocked me on everything. I feel like he's ashamed of me or something and doesn't want people to know he loves me.

That's a totally acceptable thing to want from your boyfriend. Something is definitely wrong there if you asked him about it and he blocked you. People should never block their significant others in a relationship-that's totally unhealthy behavior. I would definitely try to talk to him again and clarify your feelings and if it doesn't get any better, honestly I'd take a step back and look at your relationship and whether it's truly making a positive impact on your life.

I've been with my boyfriend for a few months, but I just can't seem to trust him! I feel like he can't control his urges and when he goes away soon im afraid he may meet someone who he just can't keep his hands off! In his last relationship he got super friendly with another girl, I'm not sure anything happened but this girl used to sit on his lap, etc. He says things which make me feel better, but for me, actions speak louder than words! I don't know how to trust him? please help D:

If he's been faithful so far in your relationship, you have no reason not to trust him. Trust him fully unless he gives you personally a reason not to!

Hey! So there is this guy I like and we flirt a lot and we share a class and he does stuff that makes me think he likes me but then I hear from other girls that they think he was flirting with them to and no one can really tell when he is flirting, but I talked to one of my friends whom I also share the class with and she thinks that he might be actually flirting with me and I just don't know anymore. How can I tell or what should I do?

Some guys just have flirty personalities, but there's also a great chance he likes you! Flirt back! Show him you're interested too, and if he's also genuinely interested, he'll make more moves.

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I started seeing this guy in December. We are still seeing eachother now, and I found out that in April this girl (who I hate because she goes out of her way to make me feel uncomfortable) was asking to stay round his house. How do I confront the boy I'm seeing about this? I can't keep this in any longer is emotionally painful! This bit will sound immature but I hate that he likes her pictures, he knows I don't like her as well! And she loves going up to him and talking etc

It's completely understandable to be upset about this - it's just normal jealousy, and is totally fine and NOT immature. The best way to go about it though, is to just talk to him. Tell him his contact with her makes you uncomfortable because you really don't like her and see her as a threat. He should understand; he's seeing you, not her. Tell him he can be "friendly" with her but going out of his way to talk to her like her pictures makes you upset.

I honestly don't know where to start. There's this guy, we never dated because he didn't want to, but essentially we were in an exclusive relationship for about a month, after him telling me the month before that we could never happen. During the month period he said that liked me a lot, but ended it saying he couldn't like me as much as I like him. I've been head over heels for going on 2 years now, and I just can't seem to get over him as imperfect and, quite frankly, immature as he is. HELP.

I think you need to try and move on, go out with friends and meet new people. You can't sit around waiting for someone who either isn't sure, or doesn't have the same feelings you do. <3

So my bf & I have been dating for almost a year & a few months ago he told me he had been strongly addicted to pornography & masturbation for 7 years but he was over it, but a week ago he told me he had lied and had just now stopped and is getting help. I'm so hurt I don't know if I can trust him and his past eats at me. We are both Christian and believe it is wrong-one reason I'm so hurt by it. Should I stay and trust him and try to work through it even though I'm hurt or do I need to move on?

You should see if he is actually getting help or not. If he is, decide whether or not you want to stay with him while he gets the help he needs, and if you don't, you should move on. If you really care about him and love him i'd give him a chance to get help. <3

and I'm afraid she'll seriously hurt herself because of me. She does so many nice things for me and I feel bad because I can't repay her back because I don't have access to as many resources as she does. I care for her a lot, but I don't think I love her. Sometimes she says/does things that make me uncomfortable but I never tell her because I'm afraid I'll hurt her feelings. Just don't know what to do :c (2/2)

If you aren't happy you can't stay in a relationship to make someone else happy and as much as it hurts her she needs to understand that. You just need to sit down and have a conversation with her and make sure she knows that you care about her but just tell her that maybe a relationship isn't what you want but you still want to be there for her. Hope this helps <3

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I've been seeing this boy for 8 months, and we still aren't 'official', soo many people are telling me he's just using me for sex. Like he has the best of both world. But I can't think like that, i really want to be with him, I get so attached and it hurts to think about leaving him, i feel emotionally drained

8 months is a pretty long time to not be "official". Ask him what's going on and where your relationship is going. Maybe if he doesn't know you do want one he won't ever initiate it. Ask him if he thinks you guys are close enough for a relationship by now, and if he says no, you should tell him you're done. He's using you emotionally, and should not only get the physical parts of a relationship without any work if it bothers you. It'll only get worse if he keeps using you and being with you without being in an actual relationship. Communication is always important!

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My boyfriend's mom doesnt want my bf to come over to my house because he spends the night and idk she is scared i might get prego (he is 19) but she does let him go out with his friends and come home as late as he wishes wtf? his mom says that i have to come over to his house instead because he is always at my house and it has to be mutual. But i hate going to his house because his mom is always yelling at everybody. idk what to do 😠 she also told him to brek up with me

Ok first of all - he's 19. And his mom is not letting him come over to your house? That's a problem. He's an adult, he should be allowed to go to your house. His mom sounds controlling and angry. However, this is not your problem - your boyfriend should be dealing with this since it is his mom. Talk to him and ask him to talk to his mother about being allowed over to your house more. He's an adult and he should have earned that right by now. Maybe you could make a compromise with her - he's allowed to hang out at your house but if you sleep together it's at her house more. Talk to your boyfriend and get him involved. His mother should not be telling him who to date and where he can go if he's an adult, and he should be able to stand up to her a little if it means helping your relationship.

I'm not into my boyfriend that way anymore and he asked me if I still loved him a couple days ago and I freaked out and said yes. But I don't. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't want to hurt his feelings though? Please help!

Well I know you're not going to want to hear this but if he has feelings for you, no matter how you break up with him, you're going to hurt him. There's no way around that. But you really shouldn't be with someone that you don't have romantic feelings for; it's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship like that. The best way to do it is completely honestly. You should sit him down and tell him that you care about him, and he didn't do anything wrong, but you're just not feeling happy about the relationship anymore.

My boyfriend and i argue a lot because he always goes out on the weekends but never has money to go out with me. He says his brother pays for everything when he goes out but i dont belive him like why cant he just use the money to come over and see me. I was supposed to go to his house today but he invited his friends to his house and that pissed me off because the other day i wanted to hang out with my friends but he got mad because i dont ever go to his house and he got all insecure.

Maybe tell him that he needs to start making an effort to see you because if he doesn't your not sure what else you can do. It seems like youve tried and now its his turn

My friend is really bummed out because she is deeply in love with a person she cannot talk to because said person hates her. It's because they had a really bad break up a while ago. Is there a chance they could get back together.

In this case communication is key, it's really important that these two sit down and have a conversation about how they feel about one another and if they can work it out great, if not they might have to call it quits. <3

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