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If you didn't already empty your retirement account it's too late for you

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Learning from your mistakes is key. Try not to get overwhelmed when you mess up, just try to learn to do better, and to learn how to handle the emotions that come up when you make a mistake.

[sunflorally]

its okay if you mess up a few times. its okay if it takes you a little while to get something right. its okay if you don’t understand immediately. things take time, and how long varies from person to person. you’re not a failure just because you’re learning, trying to figure stuff out; everyone starts somewhere.

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Forming a support network is essential to your health, even if you think you’re a burden to them. They are there to support and love you, especially when you think you aren’t worth their love.

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sometimes you're just gay

[floralls]

by hannahargyle

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allow yourself time to feel all the things you need to feel. sometimes it does feel dramatic and horrible and like you're overreacting, but you need to feel and experience your emotions before you can shelve them and move on.

[gracemarieart]

Airport on Mars, 2067

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[judestims]

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[2bee]

03.10.16. || 6:30pm

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why do u prob not know the person well in nov-jan

if you're /rushing into things/ and just starting a relationship, chances are you aren't the best aquatinted regardless of the time of year. the post isn't talking about falling in love with someone you've known for a year and a half and deciding to start a relationship off that.

[sounddesignerjeans-deactivated2]

Honestly I think one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to separate your negative qualities from your identity.

Instead of saying “I’m lazy,” saying “I’ve made a habit of not doing work unless it’s absolutely necessary.” Instead of saying “I’m a bad friend,” saying “I haven’t communicated as much as I should with the people I care about.”

By being specific about your problems, and by framing it as an action that you are consciously either working on or ignoring rather than an unchangeable part of who you are, you allow yourself to accept your mistakes and work constructively on them instead of pretending they didn’t happen or wallowing in blaming yourself.

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You are wonderful & beautiful the way you are! don't let new year's cosmetics/weight loss ads make you feel shitty, ladies!

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please remember not to rush into relationships this time of year. november-february is the worst time period to rush into a relationship because you probably don't know the person very well, you're socially obligated to spend money on them for the holidays, and you might not even know what they'd want for gifts. it's less pressure to have a summer romance 🏖☀🌈

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There’s no shame in leaving something that doesn’t bring you joy or comfort.

[noorskitchen]

One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.