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Intimacy Through Male Chastity

One of my main goals when I took charge of the relationship was to find ways to increase the intimacy between my husband and I, and surprisingly, one of the largest contributors has been male chastity. When men think of intimacy, they naturally think of sex. For most guys, it's the same thing.

We've all been there, right ladies? When you're not in the mood for sex but you know he wants it. A cuddle, a few kisses and some loving touches would be nice, but you don't go there because it will encourage him to pester you for sex and at that moment you just want to be held.

So you keep him at arms length, and you both lose out on intimacy just so you can avoid having unwanted sex. You end up feeling a bit guilty for holding him off and he feels rejected. It just sucks for both of you.

Enter male chastity. Why lock up his cock? Well, while he's wearing it, it removes the pressure on you to have sex when you not in the mood for it yourself. By keeping him on a fairly rigid release schedule, he knows it isn't going to happen for him that day.

One of the amazing things about male chastity is it teaches him that while sex and intimacy can be intricately linked, they aren't necessarily the same thing. He learns that, most of the time, he doesn't need to put his penis into you to feel loved and wanted.

While he can't have penetrative sex, he will still crave other types of intimacy, and he learns that most of the time, cuddling, kissing, and touching can be enough for him to feel desired and validated, even though he remains horny.

For me persomally, once the pressure to have sex is removed, I find myself being intimate with him more often than ever before, as the reason to hold him off is eliminated. Funny thing is, random loving kisses and caresses will often put me in playful mood, while knowing things won't escalate any further than I want them to at the time.

Feeling his lust for me, tends to fuel my own desire, and I find myself teasing him to distraction while he is so helplessly locked up. Even though he is still locked in chastity and will remain so, he can't help but want to touch and caress me back, and I begin to welcome his advances.. In his lust fueled state, sexual attention in any form is better than none at all, and he concentrates on my pleasure, giving me a wonderful orgasm that I didn't think I even wanted initially.

Maybe that's why a lot of males who are locked in chastity in their relationships get addicted to it, never wanting to give it up. Even though they get less sexual relief, they get more of what they really need, intimacy, leaving them feeling more loved and content overall.

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Great read...

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Wife always said she liked the "POWER"...

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One woman writes:

Make up your mind that, even if you don’t care, or are hesitant: you are going to want him in Chastity. We'll discuss WHY you should want him in Chastity in another post, but for this game to work on any level, you need to WANT him in chastity. Desire it. If you don't, go ahead and pretend at first, to see how it goes, give it a try (like I said, at least two to four weeks eventually). For it to work over the long term, you have to eventually actually enjoy this and genuinely want him in chastity. Many who wouldn’t care initially find they DO want him chastity after trying it with an open mind and learning the benefits.

Again, even if you have to pretend for three months, for the nature of the game, give it a try. WANT IT. DESIRE IT. YEARN FOR IT.

And then, it’s by far the best if it starts with your command. For example: He’s been using it on himself with your permission for a break in period. Once he’s worn it for 48 straight hours, except for removing, then it your turn. You tell him it’s time to lock it and hand over the keys. As in, "after supper Friday night, I’m giving you the gift of locking and owning your penis, you’ll lock it right after supper and then hand me keys and go do the dishes wearing only the cage so I can enjoy seeing my new property."