A Goodbye Notice
Dear all members who are still following my characters,
The time has come for me to say goodbye to Blood & Rope RPG. My life has been so hectic lately that I was unaware I was on an activity check and when I logged in today and saw my characters had been followed, I was upset. However, even though I was sad, the admins were 100% right to post my unfollow notice for inactivity. For a while now, I have been trying my best to balance my real life and roleplaying one, but I have not been successful. The admins were always very understanding when I requested a hiatus, but I have done so a lot, and I couldnāt help but feel that I was taking advantage of their kindness. And yet I even considered requesting another hiatus, but it would have been for selfish reasons. I think Iāve known for a while that I did not have the time to balance my real life and roleplaying life but I couldnāt admit it to myself because this place is very dear to me. I didnāt want to say goodbye, but I realise now that it is the only option. I do not have the time to commit myself to roleplaying here, so when I realised my unfollow notice had been posted, yes I was sad, but it also made me realise that this is the best thing for everyone. It was not fair of me to continue to stay when I know I donāt have enough time to commit to replies and paras and starters. It was not fair to the other members here or the admins and for that I can only apologise.
However, with all of that being said, I didnāt want to just disappear after my unfollow notice was posted because I donāt want anyone here to think I didnāt care. I care very much about this group and its members and I wanted to let you know not only why I was inactive, but also to thank you. Iāve been in this roleplay for just under a year and it has been a fantastic experience. Having been in the tumblr rp game for a few years now, I can honestly say that this was the best rp Iāve ever been in. I met some amazing roleplayers and some amazing people, it was always fun to come online and engage with everything and I knew I could talk to the admins about any troubles I had and they would do their best to help.
So all thatās really left to say is that I am sorry for not being as active as I should have been. Please be reassured that it was always because of something happening in my life and never because of something in the rp. And thank you all for making me feel so welcomed, for making me feel like I was always wanted here because feeling wanted is something I have always struggled with. New members, I hope your time here is as fun as mine was. Old members, youāre all amazing and thank you so much for wanting to plot with my characters. Admins, you guys do a fantastic job of running this place. I know from experience how tough being an admin is and I can only say that your devotion and determination to this roleplay is truly inspiring and I hope this place will stay open for a long time. And who knows? Maybe if things in my private life ever calm down, Iāll be able to come back one day, if youād have me.
For those with connections to my characters, my headcanons are that Rick moved back to New York with his Aunt Gina so she had a bigger support network, Carlos found and rescued his sister and they fled the country for safety, and Tristan decided the American music scene wasnāt for him and moved back to London.
I hope that you will forgive my inactivity towards the end, and hereās hoping that I am remembered here fondly.
With love,
Jake
P.S. Should any of you wish to message me to keep in touch, feel free to do so :)











