lupi.

messy lesbian. minors and men do not interact

[rideafutch]

lupis’s intro | lupi, 27y lesbian | she/he/they ๋࣭ ⭑⚝

if you don’t have your age in your bio or pinned, i won’t follow you.

[vampmustdie]

sometimes i feel like some of y'all in the butchfemme community only like the aesthetic idea of butchfemme and have no interest in the community outside of romantic/sexual purposes. like butches and femmes aren't dolls or fictional characters please actually talk to them

[thebutchmessiah]

this! we fucking complain that women/lesbians are objectified by men but then we act out that same objectification of each other in a community that should be built on mutual respect, service, and admiration of one another

fucking sick of only seeing posts about butches that are about what we can do for you, posts about femmes which are basically ‘i want a femme so i can dress her up like a doll’, posts that are someone talking about their experience of marginalisation in the lesbian community and the responses are “but i love having sex with [insert said marginalised group]”

can you all start seeing other dykes as people instead of objects for your own gratification please?

[rideafutch]

that’s what i’ve been thinking about these days, it looks like people actually see ‘butchfemme’ as a new fun term to spell, an aesthetic thing only and don’t see it as a political identity. people are not interested in the history and lives of dykes. all these butchfemme nsfw talk etc are cool at some point but you can’t reduce someone’s experience to this only.

[rideafutch]

SHE GOT SHE GOT A WAY SHE GOT A WAYY SHE GOT GOT A WAAAAAY

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HOLY SHIT

[myhotrodisaflyingsaucer]

“i-is this wuh luh wuh 🥺🥺” no bitch this is DYKE posting. this is a L-L-L-LESBIAN POST *air horn noises*

[pinteresttbloggerr-deactivated2]

I wish I got those weird anonymous inboxes my mutuals get

[rideafutch]

answer #28 :)

glad you asked! 🥺

28 - what are you proudest of?

that’s not a difficult question to answer and i hope it don’t sound so corny to you, but i’m very proud of me. i’m always doubting myself and i had a really hard time at the start of the year… in a way i needed to ask for help because i was barely living, i was just surviving… and it comes to a point that i had to do something for me, for the first time in my life and now i’m in terapy (for free) and getting better day by day. so… yes, i’m proud of myself for not giving up. i know that it don’t change from the night to day, but i’m doing baby steps, taking care of myself, you know? prioritizing me. this is very important. :]

i hope everyone who’s struggling with mental health knows that things get better, please, just don’t give up. and feel my tight hug from here. 🫂💘

[a-mind-in-ruins]

It's easy to act like I don't know you-because the truth is, I never really did.

[spitblossoms]

[prettyboyprettyeyes]

✨soft asks✨

What song makes you feel better?

What is your go to comfort show?

Reading or writing? Why?

Whats your favorite feeling?

How do you like to take care of yourself?

What’s your favorite candle scent?

Who do you feel most like yourself around?

Whats a fabric/texture that’s nostalgic for you?

Best childhood moment?

When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried? (or just felt really good afterwards)

Do you have a comfort item? Tell us about it!

What calms you down?

Bath or shower to relax?

Whats something upcoming that you’re excited for?

Comfort food?

What’s something you want to create soon?

How do you feel best loved?

What age in life do you think you’ll feel most yourself at?

Have you ever written or received a love letter?

Tell us about a memory you hold close to your heart.

Tea, Coffee, or hot cocoa?

Name of your favorite playlist?

Have you ever received flowers?

Who is your bestfriend?

If your soul was a color, what would it be?

If you could live anywhere with anyone you want, where would it be and who would you bring?

Do you like to garden? Have you ever grown something?

What are you proudest of?

Are you a kind person?

What do your hobbies look like?

[rideafutch]

hey ask me something 🥺

[rideafutch]

[femmevelvets]

visions of heaven (butch with glasses holding a book in their hands)

[rideafutch]

that’s practically me

[rideafutch]

Hiii I’m excited to hopefully find more lesbian mutuals <3 very delightful blog so far

hey, how you doing? i’m very sure you gonna find other lesbians mutuals! we’re a billion of dykes here, hehe. and thanks a lot, really <3333

[rideafutch]

if you don’t have your age in your bio or pinned, i can’t follow you, i’m sorry. and i will start to block those ones because even my blog being not fully nsfw, terrorizes me the ideia of a minor following me.

and i’m more comfortable following +19!

[rideafutch]

omg you followed me back im honored <3 hi fellow lesbian hope youre having a nice day/night wherever you are!

that’s very cute omg! glade i followed you back. hi, baby, i had a good day and i hope you have a good one too <3

[ceramicbeef]

i ❤️ my 3 mutuals that like my posts no matter what it is you guys are going on my will

[rideafutch]

what does the identity “futch” mean to you? i’ve been curious about it ever since i learned about it :)

to be honest to you, it’s something i’m still figuring out but i can tell it’s what i feel most comfortable when it comes to my identity and my reality right now. i’m very aligned to a femme side but not totally, you know? i like it, but i’m very sure i stay between it and being a butch. i’m in the middle.

and that’s why i’m here too, i like to learn by seeing and being in touch with the community. being with people make me known myself.