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Hello roleplay community. This is a blog providing a space for you to anonymously share your roleplay experiences, whether that’s to get advice or to get it off your chest. Positive and negative experiences welcome. Feel free to share some of your icks or your pet peeves and know this is a safe place. We (temporarily three mods, normally two) don’t tolerate cruelty (homophobia, transphobia, racism, islamophobia, ableism, zionism, sexism…) so anons are skimmed for posting. Complaints welcome! No ads will be posted. No small or coloured text will be posted. Roleplay related complaints ONLY. No names of random people you have beef with. You will be blocked for participating in any of the bigotry mentioned above. PS - DM for removals or with issues mentioned in posts or to query, as we have a lot of posts being eaten or missed.

i've had a hetero relationship slice of life rp going for about two years now (i know it's a true commitment) but sometimes i want the same vibe as the rp but instead it's a wlw. like this guy is super nice and his oc is a really good match for my oc, but i think i've made my oc too queer coded and i don't think it's his vibe. i get tired of playing this particular hetero relationship and forcing my oc to be this vanilla style perfectly straight girl, and... when i'm leaning towards being a lesbian in real life like...it's hard playing this straight oc all the time even if it's just play. i get that being bisexual in this type of rp is not everyone's thing and especially not every straight boy will accept it, but i have to play a hetero person irl and be stuck in the closet. it's just so hard. two years ago, i was open to doing fxm slice of life, but things have changed. no hate to anyone hetero that doesn't like rping with someone bisexual and aren't comfortable with it. this is my experience for the last couple years. i just want some wlw love! my girl needs some girly affection! anyways, thanks for letting me rant!

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This is probably a bit of a niche complaint but there's this canon who I want to write and he's a terrible person. If you're already thinking of a certain purple bunny you're correct. Im open to ocs and canons, as I usually am whenever I want to rp as a canon. What really, REALLY irks me is I have a few canon ships listed as him and peoole will tell me they dont tickle their fancy and would like to use an oc, which is definitely welcome and usually open up more possibilities outside of the canon ships I list.

Except they never do. These ocs are ALWAYS either a carbon copy of another character, or are somehow worse. They're always made to fit the role of the protagonist but are more pushy to my canon, and get mad whenever he acts accordingly.

Like yeah. You can hate on the canon ships all you won't, they arent perfect. But how are you gonna shit on them but then give me something likely to be more toxic or just completely out of reach because again, this canon just hates people like that? If you think he's terrible for all the canons I have listed, what makes you think he's gonna be good for your cookie cutter overly pushy friendly certain jester character knock off? What makes you think its gonna be different? Because im not going out of character for this one im afraid

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had a weird experience

I contacted someone and SIX MONTHS LATER (????) they replied to my dm. they told me to add them on discord because they're not "active on Tumblr as much" and this is after asking them to read my kinks and boundaries thing on my page. it takes like TWO CLICKS TO GET TO considering it's linked on my pinned btw.

we get to talking on discord, and I don't mean to sound rude but they took so fucking long typing out the most basic of words. anyways

THEY FINALLY look at my list and are like "I'm okay with all of these kinks but the first two I don't like, is that okay?"

keep in mind that the first two had NON-NEGOTIABLE in bold right next to it. at this point I just blocked them and unfriended them like

I get you're seemingly not interested in this kinda thing anymore, but oh my god. can they not read???? why does it take six months to get a reply, and almost TWO IN REAL LIFE DAYS for you to read a single post???

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"Why do people block and ghost?"

BECAUSE MOST OF YOU FUCKERS ARE INSUFFERABLEEEEEEE.

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I don’t think you get what I’m saying. I’m trying to understand that if you know you can’t reply, why say you will anyway? Especially when I never push for a reply. I stay quiet ooc.

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You are the only person who has ever complained about this. God forbid you have a fucking enthusiastic Rp partner. Yk. The thing we would all kill for. God, you people are never satisfied.

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Oh no, people intend to reply to shit but get busy or distracted bc Rp isn't their sole aspiration in life. The horror.

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Not me having a crush on my writing partners oc ahahahah

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Yall. this person wrote how my OC was feeling in their reply and omg, it was so beautiful😭 I can’t even be mad at the fact that they wrote for my oc, it was too beautiful and I will be saving it as a screenshot.

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I hate cheating/miscommunication plots. they pmo so MUCH like omg.

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crazy how a few of yall in the rpc take forever to reply and then want to get upset if it takes me 2 days to respond back like

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"you've been tagging my rp ad wrong and it doesn't get likes because of it :(" "things happen lol"

?? you're an ad blog??? meant to help people find rp partners??? they can't do that if you misspell the fandom tags??? tf lol?

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Why are y'all so damn pushy.

It completely ruins my desire to plot or write with you. If you can't be a little patient, I kind of don't give a fuck anymore.

"You shouldn't ghost without saying anything!"

Yeah, and you shouldn't be fucking annoying. Not my fault I have responsibilities other than Rp and apparently this is all that's going on in your life. Trying to nudge me relentlessly to reply Ic or ooc will not make me reply any faster. If anything, I'll just reply more slowly, if at all.

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i had two really incredible rps going for a while (and im talking chatting outside of the rp too) but i haven’t heard anything in about a month. it’s a busy time of year and who knows, maybe they’ll come back to it later, but i really think this might be the end of the line for both rps. that’s okay, muses and writing inspirations change or die out altogether, but man it was fun while it lasted. and after running into how hard it is to find that kind of synergy again, im starting to feel like maybe what i really want isn’t rp anymore and just a server for other writers to talk about our wips

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God, it's really rough out here. I wish people knew how to write. Or plot. Or communicate. Or anything. My god.

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Y'all truly are pathetic. Dropping out of an rp because I haven't replied in 6 days? Without checking in? Even though I've repeatedly told you I'm still interested in the rp. Fine if you wanna drop but damn that's cold.

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