Roman / A_Person!

He/him and pfp by balbes1337 (idk which platform sorry)!! Also I am A MINOR!! Flag is the wifelover. Yeah.

[roman-a-person]

tiny intro

this is not a good intro but It’s there (I do not update this regularly)

I’m Roman, I go by He/Him/Himself :D and he/him adjacent pronouns like h3/h1m and hy/hym and hx/hxm!!

(and sometimes (so only if I say so) They/them it/its)

nicknames include: my username, Wizard, A_Person or A Person, Bunny_Wizard, and 007n7!!

Lettuce is a nickname reserved for people I give permission, like @angsttheidiot

I cuss a lot sorry

things I'm ok with: objectums, art reqs (prolly just mspaint doodles but yk I WANT REQUESTS), xenogenders, lesboys and turigirls, Fictionkins (ya’ll so awesome), yumeshippers/ selfshippers (YA’LL ARE CANON!!), and some more!

thin ice: mirrorshipping

dni: basic criteria, if you are a pedophile, zoophile, necrophile, racist, bigot, ai-"artist", ect. Get the fuck off my page. And also nsfw (like gore n stuff) blogs. I AM A MINOR!!! Incest go fuck off!!! also radqueers and radfems fuck off.

also I am unable to give money/donate to people in gaza so please don’t send me asks about that. I still support Palestine. I just can’t do anything! And I am a minor sooo. (Plus I am broke)

interests!!!! ^u^ (which change a lot)

Forsaken

roblox lore

roblox

Object shows

magical girl anime (precure season one save me)

die of death

tower defense simulator (I like producer and narrator a normal amount)

Not talked about a lot interests:

Phighting! (I used to main biograft murder robots my favourite)

spongebob ?? i guess

All the nolis I collected

specifically The Void Cult (I don’t have discord so like idk ANY of the lore other than wiki stuff help)

also why is like every roblox game going to hell

my amazing friends!!:

@voxxxlol @elise-the-potato @grayskittles @s1llys0ck @st4ticsp4c3 @iquot-detector @secretpursuerblog @evil-iquot-detector (tagged static four times because I'm evil)

my wonderful (found family) daughter:

@angsttheidiot

yayay!

also

https://arab.org/click-to-help/palestine/

Remember to do your daily click!!

(Fun fact: this user is a yumeshipper! (I use yumeshipping cause selfshipping sounds too much like another thing) 1x1x1x1 ilysm)

i <3 1x7n7, 1xnoli, and 7noli btw me and my fictional partners.

[kelpology]

Real talk, we all love and support transmasc butches, where is the love for transfem butches???

To recognize yourself as a woman but not a feminine person is already something that is difficult to do and looked down on by society. But to realize that you’re actually a woman, and to then decide to embrace masculinity as a woman? To be told all your life that you’re a man and also that you’re doing it wrong somehow, and to say “okay I’m a woman then” and still find freedom in masculinity but now in a whole new way??

That’s absolutely incredible. Trans women and other transfem people already go through so much shit, transfem butches get even more shit. You don’t have to understand it to accept someone’s identity. Transfem butches I love you so much, you’re so fucking cool and I admire your authenticity and your knowledge of yourself 💖

[this-is-anti-subtliden]

This is pro subtliden!

[kelpology]

Explain to me where the contradictory label is? There’s nothing inherently contradictory about being a transfem butch. That was. Literally the point of my post.

[this-is-anti-subtliden]

I wasn’t saying that being a transfem butch IS ACTUALLY contradictory at all (because it is not), people in society TEND to believe that it’s contradictory- so you showing your support for transfem butches (as a transfem butch myself), is inherently pro subtliden!

[puppythingnoms]

I want everyone to just universally know more nonbinary attraction terms, I need it so bad dawg.

Trixic, toric, enbian, diamoric, I just want enben love to be recognized, PLEASE!!!

At this point, I just feel like it’s my duty to use these terms as much as I can in my own life, I just need to expose as many people as I can to these terms, more people need to know.

Because, let me tell you, I die inside every time people use exclusively yuri or yaoi to describe relationships with a nonbinary person in it, or when people imply that being specifically attracted to a nonbinary person makes you a chaser, like, oh god no

[silly-sneevleton]

USE MY NEOPRONOUNS IT'S NOT THAT HARD!!!!!! (it/its, chomp/chomps, thing/things by the way!! Thank you ^_^)

[this-is-anti-subtliden]

Use them :).

[syn4k]

"lock in" is probably one of the most important phrases to enter the public lexicon in the 2020s

[joyflameball]

[trans-ewenmontagu]

“Girl culture” and then it’s having periods or having breasts or having a vagina or having conformed to feminine beauty standards at some point in your life

Edit : Notifications are off on this post now, but I’ll still check up on it every now and again <3

[razortouched]

This is genuinely one of the most vile posts I've ever seen on here.

The idea that transmascs (or any marginalized person, really) are excited about the idea of getting to be "higher" on the social ladder than someone else. This is just plain bigotry with literally no basis in reality.

This post already has hundreds of uncrtical reblogs. Knowing that, at minimum, hundreds of people think this of transmascs makes me sick to my stomach. When history looks back on your hatred I will not be forgiving any of you.

[frozen-autumns]

you tell your average "trans ally" cis feminist that you're a trans man, and there's a nonzero chance she might hit you with the "oh, you look so convincing that I'd cover my drink around you!"

...sorry, you don't like being told you look like a rapist? but I'm being gender affirming! telling you that you look just like a real man! don't tell me you're "not all men"ing me. you're just like the rest of them. maybe you actually ARE a future rapist if my suspicion upsets you so much. you're so lucky I'm even entertaining you. man up and take it on the chin, or go back to being a girl if you're too much of a bitch for that.

(thus you leave the conversation feeling, well, it's better than being misgendered, I guess.)

[isotopeboy]

I've seen so many posts lately like "trans men have got to get more feminine" and it's lowkey pissing me off because we haven't even normalized trans men being masculine yet. Have you not been paying attention to trans men when they talk about being kicked out of LGBT spaces for "appearing too cishet" like can we lock in and understand that sexuality and oftentimes gender aren't something you can visually tell before we start trying to normalize something that's already normalized

[fjshed]

Despite living in America, I would like to spread this around. I'm not usually one to talk about serious issues, and there's so much happening out there that I could talk about later at some point.

But at this moment, I would like to say that the Chat Control EU has passed. (Thank you @smitten-mittens for bringing this to our attention)

Basically, if it works out over there, it will come to America.

If you can, spread awareness as well. Spread awareness to other problems as well like women in Afghanistan, to those who are getting deported in America, AI, climate change, ETC. Anything that is causing harm to people's lives, SPREAD AWARENESS!!! Find ways to help, to stop harm from happening to youth, donate, tell people to donate, how to protect each other, anything.

The world is awful, but we can get through it.

The chat control, KOSA bills, and KIDS act still need attention to stop the harm it will cause.

[fjshed]

Uhm. I say. Keep your body healthy cause you pretty, okay guys

You're fat? More like you're 😍😍😍😍😍 ooh lala you so 🥰🥰🥰 waow beautiful yes okay

You're skinny? More like. Ooh waow 🤩🤩 okay yes 😍😍😍 stunning okay

You're??? 😍😍😍😍😍😍 WAOW...

Okay body positivity

[fjshed]

Uhm. I say. Keep your body healthy cause you pretty, okay guys

You're fat? More like you're 😍😍😍😍😍 ooh lala you so 🥰🥰🥰 waow beautiful yes okay

You're skinny? More like. Ooh waow 🤩🤩 okay yes 😍😍😍 stunning okay

You're??? 😍😍😍😍😍😍 WAOW...

Okay body positivity

[this-is-anti-subtliden]

gen question, are you one of those people who think nonqueer people as a whole can never be oppressed and theyre evil oppressors?

im only asking because as a nonqueer black woman myself ive faced so much hate for not relating to any queer identities and the racism i faced was denied just for not being queer. i hope youre not like that because i really love your blog, it helps me understand people different than me. i really hope you dont hate me /gen

Absolutely not! I love non-queer people! I’m sorry if I had ever given anyone that idea! I never was trying to make people think that there was some sort of huge divide between being ‘queer’ and ‘non-queer’!

I’m really sorry that people denied the discrimination that you faced on the basis that you are not queer.

If you had gotten this belief from my last post; I had made that post because I had seen a lot of queer people ignore the queerness of those who were heteroromantic and/or heterosexual and it had gotten me upset- I was not trying to paint the picture that your identity is only valid if you are queer in some way.

When I talk/write about an issue I believe I speak very directly and it can accidentally cause me to sound like I’m implying something due to me not bringing it up.

[spidergxtz]

Goodnight To:

• Trans men/mascs who are allies to trans women/femmes by fighting transmisogyny

• Trans women/femmes who are allies to trans men/mascs by fighting transandrophobia

• Binary trans folks who are allies to nonbinary people by fighting exorsexism

• Perisex folks who are allies to intersex people by fighting intersexism

• Cisgender folks who are allies to trans and intersex people by fighting all of the above

[fist-full-of-feathers]

What really gets me about a lot of the transandrophobia on this website is the fact that people love to ignore that tons of trans men are also barred from sports, except for us its silently, theres almost no fight about it and no support for us.

Do any of you know who he is?

This is Mack Beggs, a southern trans man. Mack is a wrestler who was forced to fight in the girls state championship which he had to fight tooth and nail to be included in at all. Even now when Mack fights on a mens team he engages in activism for mental health of trans youth and for other trans athletes and yet people have the audacity to come on here and say that transmasculine people contribute nothing to the movement. Have you ever heard of him? Or was it such a quiet modest celebration that you didn’t even know he existed.

And thats how it is with trans men. It is not better to be publicly shamed and harassed but being voiceless comes with its own struggles. When we’re allowed to compete in women's sports, something we shouldn’t be forced to do in the first place, it’s almost always under the condition that we are not taking testosterone. When we are competing in mens sports, if we’re not turned away at the gate for being a “woman” we face the physical danger of assault, sexual or otherwise, in the locker room. How can you call that privilege?

This post comes with no intention to invalidate anyone else’s experiences, only to uplift those of transmascs.

[transandrophobia-is]

Transandrophobic bullshit is taking over my feed again. I really wish they'd stop flooding transmisogyny and transfeminism tags.

It's not transfeminism to want to murder all trans men, by the way.

What's worse about this to me is the commenter who's a trans man lesbian seems to be affected by the harmful rhetorics themsleves- "I don't want to be seen as a man because they're all that's wrong with society" and not "I don't want to be seen as a man because that's not what I want"

I can't claim to fully understand contradictory labels in every form, but they're still valid. Nobody is forcing you to date a lesbian trans man or a gay trans woman, by the way, and if you can only extend your line to nonbinary lesbians and gays, then I can only assume you see those nonbinary people as woman or man lite.

[transandrophobia-is]

transandrophobia is this post

*THIS IS NOT HATE TOWARDS TRANS WOMEN OR TRANS WOMEN WHO WANT TO CENTER THEMSELVES WITHIN THEIR OWN COMMUNITY. THIS IS ABOUT THE POST ITSELF NOT TRANS WOMEN!!!*

hey so when are trans men ever centered? im curious!!

also "it's fine for trans women to *only* support other trans women" i feel like the only is carrying a lot of weight here cuz wdym Only support other trans women. for sure, if they want to mainly speak on trans women's issues as a trans woman, that is obviously fine. and, maybe im misreading this, but i feel like it's crazy to say it's fine to only support members of your own community. you should support your community for sure, but not exclusively. idk. maybe im misinterpreting what this means

im so tired of people acting like trans guys are centered in society like we aren't still majorly viewed as women. if anything we're being majorly ignored.

also the usage of tme/tma is just a Massive red flag in general

This post feels like "Well, anyone can only want to center their minority! Anyway, YOU have to go center this minority only too or you're stuck up and evil!"

Supporting doesn't have to be active engagement or serious posting either. Support is caring for each other. Support is acknowledging the voices of others. Literally all you have to do is not be an asshole and not believe in harmful crap!!

Yeah the tme/tma stuff is instant red flags. Intersexist, exorsexist, hell it's generally transphobic, and pretty damn bio essentialist...

You probably said it better than me. This is transandrophobia