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Xuebing Du

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hello vonnie
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
we're not kids anymore.

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@roydashme
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Those of us looking for jobs may we find jobs soon!
😩😩😩
Amen
So tired of everyone else except me getting lucky
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✨✨✨
Reblogged this two days ago and here I am with a new job. 💃🏼
I just need another job. I’m so sick of working 6 days a week EVERY WEEK!
amen to that.
The wave approaches and becomes larger and larger as it approaches my shore
The fear builds and I'm feeling choked
It's like my brain feels the suffocation of the breath
I can't think right, I'm lost in my head
In fear I thread thru darkness
I fall and stumble through madness
My pain and suffering is mine alone
I'll pray until the light comes on
if you’re reading this
a lump sum of money is on the way to you
Works every time 🤷🏼♀️
When Lorde said “I care for myself the way I used to care about you”? That’s one of the most healing things I’ve ever heard like wow that woman really hit me in the heart with that one
In death to myself I live.
Why are gays so mean to each other
Everyone wants to feel like they’re worth something. Some people build a fake sense of self-worth by pretending they’re better than other people.
The ugliest parts of our community boil down to not being able to value and give each other due respect.
not my ask & not detering (b/c this is tea) but incase this happens to be a young gay struggling to make friends, find love, & feeling left out or burned by the gay community I’d like to offer some advice:
1. Go out. You may not be able to now, you may be living with your parents or in the closet, but get off grindr & go out as soon & often as you can. Some of the worst gays (& also some of my absolutely wonderful bestfriends & occasionally myself) are on grindr, but dating apps are a toxic cutthroat place that do NOT represent the best our community has to offer. It will surprise you how much different people are in person.
2. Comparison will kill you. Do not compare yourself to the instagays you follow, their lives are not as perfect as they make them seem & the grass is always greener on the other side.
3. If someone has to put down others to feel better about themselves that speaks more volumes about the kind of person they are than who they’re putting down. If the gays you follow post captions like “how’s florida?” on their yacht selfies off the coast of Italy unfollow them now.
4. Reorient your priorities in positive healthy directions. If you want friends then reach out to people you know to be friendly individuals & surround yourself with them. Friendship is not a conquest or a challenge. It should never be one sided.
5. Do not change who you are to fit into gay sterotype you are not. You can be whoever you want to be, not every gay is a twink or bear or muscle god & nor should they be!!! You are you, which is someone nobody else can be. Love yourself.
“The double agent for the patriarchy is basically just a woman who perhaps unknowingly is still putting the patriarchal narrative out into the world. Is still benefitting off, profiting off and selling a patriarchal narrative to other women. But it’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing. You know, just because you look like a woman, we trust you and we think you’re on our side, but you are selling us something that really doesn’t make us feel good. You’re selling us an ideal, a body shape, a problem with our wrinkles, a problem with ageing, a problem with gravity, a problem with any kind of body fat. You’re selling us self-consciousness. The same poison that made you clearly develop some sort of body dysmorphia or facial dysmorphia, you are now pouring back into the world. You’re like recycling hatred. I find that really dangerous and I think it’s unacceptable and I don’t care if you’re a woman. I think constructive criticism is needed for anyone to ever evolve. For our gender to evolve we need some sort of constructive criticism. As long as we do it in a somewhat careful way. (…) So many of the worst things in the world have happened motivated by greed. And I just don’t think that’s an acceptable excuse anymore. How much money do you need? Really how much money do you need? How much money do any of these huge influencers who are worth millions or billions sometimes… why are they still promoting appetite-suppressant lollipops to young girls? And it’s not a fight against obesity. They have young, already slim girls, in their adverts for Flat Tummy company, this company that are absolutely everywhere, and they’re even being advertised in some of the most mainstream magazines, women’s magazines, and they have a billboard in Times Square. The money is built on the blood and tears of young women who believe in them, who follow them, who look up to them like the big sister they never had. It’s so upsetting and it feels like such a betrayal against women.”
Jameela Jamil explains why she thinks the Kardashians are “double agents for the patriarchy”
One of the more profound things I’ve heard recently came from a Mr. Rogers documentary. In a clip from his show, Mr. Rogers had just visited with a musician, and tells his audience that some people play music, and some people don’t, and that’s okay.
And then he said, “The important thing is to find something you feel good about doing.”
That phrasing struck me. “Something you feel good about doing”. Most people would have phrased it as “something you enjoy doing”. Or “something you’re good at doing”. But Mr. Rogers’ subtly different phrasing leads to a profoundly different connotation. “Something you feel good about doing” may not be enjoyable–people who work in hospitals or in disaster zones might not enjoy much of their day, but they probably feel good about helping people. “Something you feel good about doing“ may not be something you’re particularly good at–you may be a terrible artist by any objective standard, but if you feel good about making your art, then it’s a worthwhile endeavor. Looking for “something you feel good about doing” can help you find a truly satisfying life path.
That phrase is also helpful with daily decision-making. Too often, I can make choices based on “what feels good.” I put aside tasks that are too stressful or avoid activities that seem too difficult, in favor of mindlessly browsing the internet. And I enjoy myself. I feel good while I’m doing that. But at the end of the day, I don’t feel good about how I spent my time. However, reminding myself to do “something I feel good about doing” can motivate me to accomplish those more difficult tasks. It can push me to do something outside of my comfort zone, to try something new that I might not be much good at. And maybe this is a blindingly obvious philosophy to everyone else. But I’m grateful for the reminder.
Anxiety really feels like the devil whispering in my head sometimes.
I have a firm sense of reality but there's always that voice telling me shit that's not true. If I'm unfortunate enough to listen even for a second, I'll start believing it. I'll hear things like:
She doesn't mean that.
He hates you.
You're not good enough.
You're gonna have a terrible day.
Haha you're being ignored.
You deserve it.
You're gonna be stuck forever.
You're all alone.
You're guilty
Most of the time I know none of it's true but that damn voice can be so convincing. It pulls out receipts and justifies the lie. It sucks sometimes to feel so incapable and paralyzed by fear. I just have to be gentle with myself. Progress not perfection.
Mi hija
My first baby girl
We choose you right away
And those yellow eyes looked up at us in a thankful "okay."
You came home and brightened our lives with your electric energy
It's been 8 years since we met you but seeing you still fills me with glee
I don't understand why you have to go through so much
Wish I could do more to heal you and such
But I'll try my best to give you the best I possibly can
Because I love you mi hija, more than you understand
Showers
He showers me with kisses
Lathers soap all over me
Runs his hands over my body
And washes away my insecurities
He takes his time with my hair
And caresses all my flaws
He's gentle with my skin
And supports me should I fall
Oh to love him feels like a fresh shower
That renews the deepest parts of me